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[–] Formfiller@lemmy.world 6 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

It probably is all the demons are leading earth

[–] atlien51@lemm.ee 2 points 7 hours ago

You’re not wrong lol

[–] Sunflier@lemmy.world 4 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago) (1 children)

Well, the individual experience for hell being empty could be awful. Alternatively, if he means that there is nobody in hell (thus it is empty) that would be a wonderful thought for most humans. But, when you think of guys like Hitler, Himler, Bormann, Göring, Saddam, the Kims, and Trump, I hope that hell is where they end up. Like, hell being empty would be ideal, for most. But, there are some who are so evil that there is no other choice for them. But, if he means that hell is just being alone, would that really be so awful? I, for one, like being left alone.

[–] MeThisGuy 2 points 6 hours ago

that's a special place called purgatory

[–] theacharnian@lemmy.ca 5 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago)

Ever heard of Universalism? There is a whole church of them. They hang out with the Unitarians.

[–] mothersprotege@lemm.ee 3 points 11 hours ago (2 children)

Kinda surprised that I haven't seen any Conclave memes, what with the pope dying, and it being a recent, very relevant, movie. Watched it the other night, and it was great! I guess I should be the change I want to see.

[–] MintyFresh@lemmy.world 1 points 4 hours ago

Spoilers

!That scene towards the end when he asks the bishop "what do you know of war?" was amazing.!<

A great movie all around! Definitely one of 2024's best!

[–] OrteilGenou@lemmy.world 1 points 10 hours ago

I saw it recently too, will have to rewatch as I was distracted directly as the plot started to unfold into the climax, and decided to shut it off rather than piecemeal it.

Have you ever seen The Name of the Rose by the way? One of my favorites. (Don't watch it on prime as they nerf a key scene that is of importance to the ending.)

[–] merc@sh.itjust.works 69 points 1 day ago (9 children)

This made my ultra-catholic mother really angry. If non-catholic people didn't go to hell, then what was the point of all the effort she was putting in? She went to church every day. She followed rules like not eating meat on Friday. To her, it was really unfair that someone might get to go to heaven without having to put in all that work. How is anybody supposed to be a good person if they're not constantly terrified of hell?

Needless to day, despite following the rules, I don't really think she lives by the spirit of her religion.

[–] Taleya@aussie.zone 2 points 11 hours ago

Tell her that sounds a lot like jealousy mm-mmm

[–] clutchtwopointzero@lemmy.world 2 points 11 hours ago

The millennia old debate about "works"

[–] tomenzgg@midwest.social 3 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

If non-catholic people didn’t go to hell

Man, she's going to be extra pissed when she finds out that's not what the Church teaches, to begin with (and also been publicly published, in some capacity, for a century, now).

[–] merc@sh.itjust.works 2 points 11 hours ago

I don't now if you could ever convince her of that.

[–] suite403@lemmy.world 24 points 1 day ago

It's funny how they know their religions suck, and yet they just keep on keeping on.

[–] Shou@lemmy.world 20 points 1 day ago

It's a normal response to effort and fairness. You see it in every situation where someone is treated differently and needs to make sacrifices other people don't.

Generational trauma has good examples. "But I had to learn how to deal with x on my own!" Or "I wasn't allowed to x, x or x when I was younger!" or "but I was left alone for days!" For x, fill in words like: raise, live, express, assert, have friends, have fun, have free time, have an opinion, have boundaries, keep my hard earned money, deal with neglect, be considered less of a human being, love or be worthy of love, having a sense of safety, etc.

[–] Angry_Autist@lemmy.world 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

If she things she 'worked' to get to Heaven, she doesn't understand salvation

It is a gift

We don't follow the rules to 'get into heaven', we follow the rules so people can see the public face of Jesus in our works, it is sometimes the only gospel people see, and we have a lot of regressive assholes to make up for

[–] Droechai@lemm.ee 3 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Works or grace has been debated for ages, no idea if the Catholics have found consensus though

[–] Angry_Autist@lemmy.world 3 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Yeah it's been debated, but for no reason because it is a gift that cannot be bought or justified.

You say this like it's unsettled when both a plain reading of the text as well as even a cursory understanding of Hebrew temple sacrifice culture makes it clear that the only thing that salvation hinges on is a sincere desire to accept it as a gift from Jesus.

The REASON it has been argued is that there are some intellectually dishonest religious leadership that want people to work harder for no reason

[–] Wiz@midwest.social 1 points 10 hours ago

to work harder for no reason

I think the reason might be money. There's very little money in, "Here's some free salvation for you!"

[–] tomenzgg@midwest.social 1 points 13 hours ago

Since the counter-reformation, about.

Salvation is a gift, freely given, but we can separate ourselves from that grace by choosing to do terrible things. How much you want to consider doing good things Work is, I guess, a matter of perspective but most Evangelicals certainly view it as us saying you're saved by works.

[–] postmateDumbass@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago

Imagine going to Heaven and having to sit next to the Nazi High Command at the picnic.

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[–] sai_mi@infosec.pub 72 points 1 day ago (2 children)

My mother is a divorcée. In 90s Ireland, she was demonized by the Catholic Church, and was publicly refused communion by the local priest after she left my (at the time alcoholic and abusive) father. She had a crisis of faith after all that and accepted the "fact" that she was doomed to hell while her five children would go to heaven. She quietly accepted this and from then on refused communion at all events, making up excuses with us none the wiser.

In the mid 2000s, I came out as gay and following that, spurred by the church's cruel treatment of my mother, left the church via apostasy. I had to tell my mother in detail as I was no longer allowed to be buried in a Catholic graveyard. She laminated the letter confirming my leaving of the church from the bishop.

In the mid 2010s she and I campaigned for Marriage Equality together. She told me about her crisis of faith. She also told me how I helped her through the other side of it just by existing. Before she thought all her children would be separated from her after death. But heathen that I was had equally doomed myself to join her. Logically that would make hell lesser. Logically that means the more sinners in hell, the less hellish it is. Therefore hell in its most hellish is empty, and the whole threat is bullshit whether you believe in an afterlife or not.

The fucking POPE saying something like this is huge, and very important for people that carry a burden of Catholic guilt. Good on him, and RIP.

[–] Shou@lemmy.world 15 points 1 day ago

Wow! Your mom is a certified badass. She showed courage, stood up for herself and protected you and your siblings. Accepting eternal damnation with full understanding and dignity.

I grew up in a cult that took elements from different faiths. Every religion has the empty threat of a hell. All to keep people in their place. Even if it means to be an abusive man's posession.

[–] Nangijala@feddit.dk 20 points 1 day ago

I hope your mom is still here and that she reads that quote.

Hugs for you both (and your sibs)

[–] Feathercrown@lemmy.world 20 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I hope the next pope can be as good as Pope Francis was

[–] clay_pidgin@sh.itjust.works 6 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

One likely candidate is apparently the archbishop of Manila, Luis Antonio Tangle. Supposedly he's one of the more progressive options, though that isn't saying much. https://www.them.us/story/cardinal-luis-antonio-tagle-pope-front-runner-catholic-church-francis-conclave

There's also Pietro Parolin, Pope Francis's number two basically. Expected that he would carry on more or less similarly. https://www.newsweek.com/who-next-pope-favorites-bets-tagle-parolin-2062160

None of the cardinals are GOOD choices by my lights, but certainly some are more humane than others.

[–] Feathercrown@lemmy.world 3 points 8 hours ago

Interesting!

[–] Angry_Autist@lemmy.world 3 points 13 hours ago

They won't be, the entire world is shifting to authoritarianism and the Cardinals see where the wind is blowing

This gonna be a really rough century pretty much everyone but the ultra wealthy

[–] conditional_soup@lemm.ee 32 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

If there were more men like Francis in the church, I might still count myself a Christian. Alas, I actually read the gospel, and read it deeply in independent study, and found that the US has no Christian churches. There is only a shitty wealth cult that's like a fleshgait imitation of Christianity.

Fleshgait Jesus says: "buuuuuuuuyyyyyy buy buy buy the Ford F-150, sinner sinner siner sinUR SNER SINNER"

[–] myrrh@ttrpg.network 10 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

...pope francis was a good guy, and he didn't need to flaunt his christianity to be so: his actions spoke for themselves, as they should...

[–] Angry_Autist@lemmy.world 10 points 1 day ago

Jesus had a name for people who flaunted their holiness, they were 'Pharisees' and were the ONLY class of people that Jesus spoke ill about, he didn't even do that to the Romans come to execute him

"White-washed tombs full of rotting bones" is what he called them

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[–] Angry_Autist@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Just because the leadership is bad doesn't mean the message is bad

Help the poor, needy, and traveler in your land. If you do this, you are Christian enough

[–] vonxylofon@lemmy.world 2 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

I can say with utmost certainty that about 90% of Christians I know behave nothing like that. On the contrary, they're the vilest, most judgmental and bigoted shitstains that I have ever known.

[–] Angry_Autist@lemmy.world 2 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Must be a pretty interesting town you live in if everyone is assholes

Or, as I suspect, you only live through the rectangle in your hand so the only Christians you see are the ones that make sensationalist media scrolls

[–] vonxylofon@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

That's across three countries, about a dozen cities, and several nationalities. I may be biased because I mostly associate with the 10%, who incidentally tend not to partake very much in organised religion because of all the abuse (e. g. because they are gay, speak against child molestation, or, god forbid, they lived with their spouse before getting married, as my wife did. Her family shunned her for that and basically doesn't speak to us. Go figure...).

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[–] TankovayaDiviziya@lemmy.world 31 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (6 children)

The old testament did not even mention hell and thus Jews don't believe it. Hell is a Christian invention to control the masses through threat of eternal damnation for disobeying the authority.

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[–] Earflap@reddthat.com 37 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (6 children)

I can't speak for god or anything

- the guy speaking for god

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[–] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 194 points 2 days ago (30 children)

Yeah, he really was decent for a pope. And I think he might have been more decent as a pope if he had his way entirely. He really seemed like he wanted more compassion and change than he was able to make happen.

[–] Cris_Color@lemmy.world 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I agree. Though the pragmatist in me also thinks it's for the better for things to change slowly, as bad as that feels. It kinda feels like social progress moving too quickly just results in more intense backlash.

Broader culture has to be able to keep up with the change and if it outpaces them it seems like people reject the changes and it can cement the problems in place as people dig their heels in :/

I appreciate that he pushed things forward though. There's a lot more change still that needs to happen- I'm not holding my breath but I really hope the next pope actually carries that forward.

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[–] AnarchistArtificer@slrpnk.net 16 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I sometimes joke that I hope my late best friend has gone to evangelical Christian hell, because he was a bisexual punk who loved tabletop roleplaying games (like Dungeons & Dragons).


I was raised vaguely Christian, and when I was realising I didn't believe in God, I felt a lot of conflict, because I was still scared of going to hell. I was getting stuck on the idea that if all good morality came from God, does that mean that I would be evil as an atheist?

In the end, I concluded that if all morality came from God, that the many atheists who lead good and virtuous lives must still have the favour of God. On the other hand, morality existed independently of God, but that unbelievers would go to hell no matter how good they were in life, then I'd rather be defiantly good and go to hell than be coerced into belief.

This was before I understood that hell has historically often been understood as just a place without God (which, to a Christian view, is a hellish existence).

[–] nickiwest@lemmy.world 1 points 13 hours ago

I was raised super fundamentalist, but I eventually came to the same realization as you.

I don't believe in heaven or hell, but I like to think that this clip from Blackadder sums up how they would work. (Sub in listening to punk rock, playing D&D, dancing, drinking, and everything else my church said would send you to hell.)

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[–] Geodad@lemm.ee 42 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Neither heaven nor hell exist, so you can all stop worrying about them.

Enjoy your life because it's the only one you get.

[–] samus12345@lemm.ee 17 points 1 day ago

You should only worry about them if you're a sociopath who requires the threat of eternal torture to keep you from hurting others.

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[–] Confused_Emus@lemmy.dbzer0.com 46 points 1 day ago (5 children)

What a pleasant thought for the child diddling priests he did nothing about.

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