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some straight guy i was friends with was obsessed with me. he only cared if i liked men and had a bf for some reason, and would ignore that i liked women. he would act like i was straight and that if i dated women, that just meant i was single and obviously interested in him.

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[–] AmidFuror@fedia.io 8 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

It's 2025, yet I automatically assumed Dr. Bollocks was a male. Not because of the doctor honorific, mind you, but because of the testicles.

I will try to be more enlightened moving forward.

[–] drbollocks@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 hour ago

the character it’s based off of is male, it’s based on someone mishearing a name

[–] spittingimage@lemmy.world 5 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

You make it sound like this is your first experience with human beings.

[–] drbollocks@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 hour ago

nah, just upset me a lil

[–] jol@discuss.tchncs.de 11 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Bi erasure comes in all flavours. Gay guys around me also often don't believe guys can be really bi, just gay in denial, or closeted gays living a straight life. The B in LGBT+ might as well be the bigotry in the community for how prevalent it is.

[–] LibertyLizard@slrpnk.net 7 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago) (1 children)

Ironic because bi is the largest queer demographic but also the one that can blend in the easiest which hasn’t forced people to advocate for acceptance.

[–] jol@discuss.tchncs.de 4 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

And is also a spectrum. Most people would probably be bi, if social pressure didn't exist. It's honestly weird to think that anyone would be 100.00% gay or straight.

[–] KSPAtlas@sopuli.xyz 5 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

If you think about it enough you realize that the labels aren't perfect and sexuality isn't split into neat labellable categories

[–] jol@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 1 hour ago

And on top of that, it's malleable, changeable.

[–] earphone843@sh.itjust.works 11 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

That's just narcissism. Can't comprehend someone not being into them.

[–] drbollocks@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 3 hours ago (1 children)
[–] earphone843@sh.itjust.works 6 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

The funny thing is I bet he's also the kind of guy to call a straight woman a lesbian if she rejects him too.

But regardless, anyone who does what he's doing to you isn't a friend; they're a predator.

[–] yesman@lemmy.world 6 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Tell him he should smile more.

[–] drbollocks@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 3 hours ago (2 children)

he also told me “i love what females smell like, especially during sex. i bet you smell nice” or something like that :,)

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 11 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

That whole comment is creepy as fuck, but using the word "females" especially sets off my ickometer.

[–] drbollocks@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 hours ago

oh yeah same!!

[–] jol@discuss.tchncs.de 4 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

You should put as much distance from this fella as possible...

[–] drbollocks@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 hours ago

he’s blocked haha!

[–] JackGreenEarth@lemm.ee 6 points 3 hours ago

Sounds like a combination of homophobia/gay erasure and misogyny (I know what women want, not them) to me

[–] Flagstaff@programming.dev 2 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

some straight guy

Based on everything else you said, I'm unsure about this.

[–] xc2215x@lemmy.world 3 points 3 hours ago

Homophobic.