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For me it was Terraria, Satisfactory, Tetris Effect Master Mode, Minecraft with Mekanism mod & CSGO / CS2 (almost 2000 hours in CS alone).

Edit: There are so many answers that I might only reply if I have something interesting to say. I will read all of your answers though. πŸ™‚

Edit 2: It has become too much for me and I have to disable notifications. Thank you for the massive response and please continue to discuss with everyone here. ❀️ 🫑

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[–] Soapbox@lemmy.zip 1 points 16 hours ago

I'd say the first one that really got me was Roller Coaster Tycoon when I was a kid. It got to a point where I was playing so much that my dreams were all in isometric grid form. Mostly about park designs, but even other dreams were set in that reality.

After that, it was WoW for my first 3 semesters of college. I didn't go to class most of the time and got academic suspension for a year. After that I was very cautious with MMOrpgs. Never got too invested into a guild again.

[–] zerozaku@lemmy.world 17 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (2 children)

Rocket league. Scrolled all the comments and slightly disappointed to not find this one :/

This was a game I was truly addicted. Uninstalled it many times recognising it as an addiction but kept coming back to it. I feel lucky that I could break out of it. It was THAT addictive. Around 1200-1300hrs on that game.

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[–] grrgyle@slrpnk.net 4 points 3 days ago

Asheron's Call hit me at just the right age. That was my mmo. I remember people going on about WoW like it was the most incredible thing, but it always felt like a hollow world to me.

I tried many other mmos over the years but none of them ever hit like the first one.

I think I was really just chasing that sense of wonder I felt at my first one, which is increasingly hard to capture as you move forward through life.

[–] frank@sopuli.xyz 72 points 5 days ago (14 children)

Factorio. I blinked and a month went by the first time I played it. It ruins my sleep schedule like no other.

Absolutely love it

[–] slazer2au@lemmy.world 23 points 5 days ago

There is a reason we call it Cracktorio

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[–] Mediocre_Bard@lemmy.world 12 points 4 days ago

World of Warcraft. I don't even try to think about quitting anymore.

[–] Justas@sh.itjust.works 14 points 4 days ago (4 children)

Modded Factorio. I did 450 hours of pyAnodon's recently and it just broke me. I didn't win the game. I feel like I lost at it and life.

It seems impossible to manage the side products properly. Ridiculous amount of materials that are all interrelated means that if you are low on one thing, it is very hard to fix it because you need the thing to work to make anything.

Too many recipes means it is very difficult to make modular, adaptable designs to copy and paste. Advanced recipes seem better, but they end up just exacerbating the issue even more.

[–] Bloodyhog@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Factorio quite literally made me ill. Had to have my back fixed after a few months playing as i spent many, many hours sitting way too still. This game must come with the health warnings!

[–] Justas@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 days ago

Yeah I hate how I mostly look at a single point when playing it because of precision required to place things.

[–] 18107@aussie.zone 6 points 3 days ago

There's a reason it's called cracktorio.

[–] Supercrunchy@programming.dev 3 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Pyanodon changes factorio so much. The byproducts are a big issue, and you need to get in the mentality that often it's fine to burn up items just to avoid the logistical nightmare. The biggest change for me is how expensive infrastructure is. You often need buildings that eat up 10 minutes of production just in materials. Scaling up is a challenge also because of how huge he buildings are (both a blessing and a curse) and how expensive everything is. Even conveyor belts are expensive at the beginning.

I played py hard mode until py science 1, then later on I started what was supposed to be an easier playthrough in pyblock, but i still stopped with a few parts missing for logistical science.

I still consider it one of the best mods out there (it's really well balanced), but you should start playing it only with a "I will not finish it" mentality, since it's thousands of hours long.

[–] Justas@sh.itjust.works 2 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Yes and it makes you feel like you should plan everything in advance, but you keep getting new recipes that keep changing the math.

I was about to get to the fourth science pack. I was tearing down the old factory to build one for the trains while also setting up the trains and upscaling my factories.

Now I feel like even after 400 hours, I upscaled too fast and maybe in the wrong places and used too many advanced recipes that would stop working at the slightest imbalance.

Maybe hardmode would actually be a bit easier psychologically if they add enough extra recipes to use everything up so you don't have to burn things or turn guts into biomass and then into subcritical water and rocks into saline water only to dump it into a hole while another side of your factory is low on rocks and you can't make fish because your auog meat warehouse is full of guts and can't make any more lard.

[–] P13@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 4 days ago

Vanilla factorio had me at β€œjust one last thing” until dawn numerous times.

I had an old housemate who lost his very lenient student job due to being late and missing work multiple times due to the game.

It’s great :)

[–] Iron_Lynx@lemmy.world 7 points 3 days ago

Most games that spark a Tetris Effect with me, where I'm still playing them in my mind while I've put them down hours ago, are industrial automation games. So the likes of Factorio, Satisfactory, Captain Of Industry.

[–] Lushed_Lungfish@lemmy.ca 6 points 3 days ago

I was in university and had just passed my midterms and as a treat for myself picked up both KOTORs. Mainlined that shit.

[–] TriflingToad@sh.itjust.works 8 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (2 children)

I once calculated my Minecraft hours across all platforms I've played on and it's over HALF A YEAR. I was like mega addicted in middle school, I still play often.

servers SUCK now though, they're all pay to win and have custom texture packs that look horrible :(

the best one I've found (that isn't private) is UltraVanilla, and I actually found it from firefoxes "Minecraft Indy wiki redirect" plugin which crashed once and there was a little box on the side which mentioned the server bc the person that made the plugin is an admin of the server. When I joined the discord I had already interacted with several members from other modding discords.
As far as I know im the ONLY person that checked it out due to that popup lol

I don't play on that server because some friends made a different (private) server.

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[–] mrlemmyhimself@lemmy.world 6 points 3 days ago

Factorio, Europa Universalis IV, Victoria 3, Baldur's Gate 3 when it was new, and special shout-out to Outer Wilds which hooked me unforgettably

[–] Kn1ghtDigital@lemmy.zip 11 points 4 days ago

I love this thread, so many people passionate about their experiences with games makes me happy.

[–] Lightsong@lemmy.world 6 points 3 days ago

Diablo 2, Skyrim, BL2, BL3, Tiny Tina's Wonderlands, Valheim, V Rising, Oblivion Remastered, D3, and now Helldivers 2. Roughly in order.

[–] stoy@lemmy.zip 43 points 5 days ago (5 children)

Minecraft, holy shit, I have a singleplayer, creative world that I spent hours every day building on for 8 years or so.

That map is gigantic, and I even saved it from a hard disk crash

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[–] ArchmageAzor@lemmy.world 37 points 5 days ago (5 children)

AuDHD means every game is part of an addiction phase. I will binge a game for like 100hrs then drop it out of nowhere. Then return right where I left off anywhere between 6 months and 4 years later.

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[–] WanderWisley@lemmy.world 5 points 3 days ago

Valkyrie Chronicles, I legitimately called off work sick for 2 days when the game came out on ps3.

[–] VonReposti@feddit.dk 6 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Payday 2 probably takes the gold medal for me. I was once playing casually with a friend of me after work, chatting about the day, and when we were about to finish the level we noticed that we damn near broke the world record for that level, a record made by 4 players.

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[–] CPMSP@midwest.social 4 points 3 days ago
[–] Minnels@lemmy.zip 7 points 4 days ago

About 20 years ago I played world of warcraft every day and every awaken hour of the day or just about. School was over and I lived with my parents and was "looking for work". Let's just say that I played vanilla so much that I had guild members calling in the middle of the night to get together for world boss killing.

Since then I have realized that is not how to go about in life and last time i really got stuck was with Factorio.

[–] BackgrndNoize@lemmy.world 5 points 3 days ago

Subnautica, Witcher 3, Far Cry 4, Metro Exodus, Dead By Daylight so far

[–] aeternum@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 4 days ago (2 children)

GW2. When i first started playing it many moons ago, I couldn't stop playing it! It was so addicting.

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[–] orgrinrt@lemmy.world 11 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (2 children)

I wasted some 2-3 years of my life in CSGO too when I was younger. All my free time, down the drain basically. It wasn’t even fun after a while, just a hard, tiring grind. Attempted to compete on semi-pro level, somehow got it to my head that it was possible. Did compete ultimately, but none of my teams made it. Never got anywhere and the day I finally got off it was the best day of my adult life. It was bad.

I feel ashamed to admit this out loud. It’s just so cringeworthy. But it does some good to keep my head level and remember the shortcomings of my younger days.

Nowadays the closest I get to β€œaddiction” level is bingeing a few months worth of evenings on the likes of Crusader Kings 3, M&B Bannerlord, Stellaris or Rimworld. Much more sane since it’s not as intensive, it can be paused at any moment, and ultimately there’s an end to it, so it just naturally withers away from my days eventually.

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[–] jpreston2005@lemmy.world 6 points 4 days ago

DOTA 2, man. Once you get past the massive learning curve, there is just so much to do in-game. Every match is entirely unique, with constant updates, tournaments, battle passes, and what have you. When I feel like disappearing, I disappear into DOTA.

[–] jerkface@lemmy.ca 5 points 3 days ago

Urban Terror, it has such a high skill ceiling. Spent many hours just happily running jump maps, let alone all the thousand of games. Thinking of going back.

[–] Underwaterbob@sh.itjust.works 7 points 4 days ago (1 children)

My most played Steam game is hilariously Tametsi. It's a Minesweeper spin-off with different layouts and shapes and zero guessing required for its ~200 puzzles. Some of the later puzzles require some absolutely bonkers chains of logic to figure out. It helps there's a fantastic YouTube series of videos by innocentive going through puzzle solutions that are some of the most relaxing and entertaining things I've ever watched. He almost always points to the next thing you need to consider first, so you can just pause a video after he mentions where the next step is and follow the logic yourself rather than spending hours hunting for it.

[–] jet@hackertalks.com 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I just picked up Tametsi based on your recommendation, its super addictive, thank you!

[–] rammer@sopuli.xyz 10 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Civilization, Civilization 2, Civilization 3 and FreeCiv

Just one more turn. Looks up. Where did the day go?

I finally kicked the habit with FreeCiv.

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[–] Guitarfun@lemmy.world 4 points 3 days ago (3 children)

All FromSoftware games including most recently AC6. Also Stardew. I've beaten Stardew probably more than any other game and there's a ton of mods that expand the experience.

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[–] Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world 7 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Pretty much everything I’ve ever played. Going all-in on a new hobby for periods of time (before cycling to another interest weeks later) is just how my brain works.

But right now? I’m very into playing Surviving Mars. Something about escaping from Earth and creating a new society on another planet just feels so appealing right now, for some reason. Nervously glances at news headlines

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[–] cobysev@lemmy.world 22 points 5 days ago (8 children)

I spent over a decade addicted to World of Warcraft. Like, I would come home from work and immediately jump on WoW and do nothing else until bedtime.

Thankfully, Activision buying out Blizzard and then ruining the game made me eventually quit. I've tried to go back, but I can't get into it anymore. It's just no fun.

The last few expansions, I've spent a week burning through the main questline, then I walk away until they announce another expansion. Endgame content is not interesting enough to keep me after the main story is over. I never even finished the last two expansions; I checked out partway into the story. I think I'm officially done buying expansions for WoW and hoping I can get back into it.

Other games that I've been addicted to in recent times have been Satisfactory and Enshrouded. Both base building games that have no end, but rely on your creativity to enjoy.

I have ADHD (the hyperfocus type) and Satisfactory really scratches that itch. Focusing on minute details, trying to make a seamless, efficient, organized factory to produce an end product. And the sky's the limit (literally). You can build hundreds of factories across a massive map and get really creative about style, design, efficiency, etc. it's a really fun creative game.

Enshrouded is the same, except instead of efficient factories, you're building homes, villages, castles, etc. in a fantasy medieval setting. With questing and monsters and magic too! It's been loads of fun and my friends and I have been super addicted to that game for a while now too. I actually just posted a review about it in !games@lemmy.world yesterday.


On a side note, I find it interesting to see Minecraft mentioned a lot in this thread. That game first came out when I was in my 20s (I'm in my 40s now) and it was pretty popular when it first dropped. I played it a bit, but besides running around and digging (mining?) a bit, there wasn't really any direction or goals or anything, so I kind of lost interest. I found out years later there's a whole endgame to it, but without any in-game directions, there was no way I would've ever progressed in that game without online help.

Decades later, Minecraft got a resurgence of popularity with younger generations and now it's suddenly the game of Gen Z and Gen Alpha. One of my baby nephews is addicted to that game now and speaks of almost nothing but Minecraft. Crazy how it can continue being so popular across multiple generations like that.

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[–] Jinarched@lemmy.ca 7 points 4 days ago (4 children)

Project Zomboid. I have over 1000 hours of playtime. I always come back to this game.

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[–] crash_thepose@lemmy.ml 4 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Sad to say league

Less sad to say hades. Incredible game that I have preemptively already told my partner she won't see me for a week after hades 2 comes out

[–] jnod4@lemmy.ca 4 points 3 days ago

After ten thousand hours in league I realised there's actually ten idiots in each game not nine

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[–] MomoGajo@sh.itjust.works 18 points 5 days ago

Stardew Valley. I have it on my computer and switch. I even made myself a perfection guide.

[–] HeyJoe@lemmy.world 9 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Sadly, Fall Guys. Little did I know when I started playing it when it released for free on PSN that it would become my most played game of all time. Having 8 of us to make 2 complete teams with every night was a lot of fun. It was just an easy game to play, but not think while playing and just talk with friends for an hour or 2 a night. Some of the funniest conversations I've ever had was during this game. This month marks 5 years of playing this on average 5 times a week. Sadly this year we all finally drifted and I barely played the last few months but maybe once or twice a week and with 1 or 2 others on a good night. 5 years is crazy long for me, so I will be shocked if we find anything else that grabs us like this ever again, but im hoping.

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[–] praxis_jack@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago

Star wars galaxies, RuneScape, Minecraft, destiny 2, red dead redemption, dark souls 3, elden ring, bloodborne, and currently dayz

[–] ace_garp@lemmy.world 11 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (2 children)

At different times:

Luanti (AKA Minetest)

0AD

Sauerbraten

Battle for Wesnoth

Shattered Pixel Dungeon

and further back:

Action Quake 2

WipeOut 2097 (AKA XL)

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