watching my gf play persona 5 for the first time and I'm just wondering if I could become the kind of person who drinks coffee in the evening, it sounds nice
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I can drink coffee in the evening and go right to sleep, or stay up until 3am. Never sure which one it will be.
probs just have to get older. i put years of "effort" and now i'm a solid evening coffee drinker. used to be if i had caffeine after 2 i was up all night, but now? i can now drink a cup or 2 at ~6pm and still fall asleep by 9-10 just fine. by the time I'm 60 i might be housing espresso right before bed lol
you will never be a coffee at night
don't limit me
ok then drink a damn coffee ub
no I cant
don't limit yourself
no I have to or else I could maybe be up all night
Scrutinizing this pic my sister sent of me as a very young kid to see what kind of doll I was playing with
It looks like a girls doll! This is very important for my gender narrative!
I convinced my brother we had to dress up as girls in order to let my sister experience what its like to have sisters... also did drag every Halloween. Still didnt figure it out until way after uni lol
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I tried the new blue monster after reading @Shaleesh@hexbear.net's comment and it is really good. Adding that to my rotation haha
+1 on that rec
I found a peach one the other day and I kinda like it. Ultra peachy or something, not too much sugar and tastes like peach
Will have to add this to my stash of pink and white ones. For cis reasons.
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Henlo mega thread. I am nonbinary
hi nonbinary I'm no longer dad ๐
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hot? yeah i guess it was a little toasty overnight now i've had to crack out my second blanket, its the middle of winter! This is southern hemisphere erasure!
im doing okay, someone in the vague 'activist scene' in my city is kinda making my life hell atm, theyre not well, but neither am i. So i'm fading out of existence. For how much people all talk about 'community', i'm yet to have many people check in with me.
Theyre going to be living in a worldwithoutlawyers.jpg now i'm gone. no one else is going to tell them to reexamine their preconceptions, theres going to be unexamined racist shit going down, i tell you what.
i kept being told 'well remember what you were like when you were young!', and i kept thinking, yeah damn, they should all be doing drugs instead of crowing themselves godking of the 'movement'.
this has all really destroyed my confidence i'm actually too anxious to even check replies here atm, for a while i couldnt even comment because i felt like everyone was so mad at me lol.
The 'scene' is good for them, but has been a disaster for my mental health. so i'm dropping everything so i can rekindle my energy and re engage myself with my union organising.
i dunno this feels like too much, maybe im too much. I'm getting echoes of an ex telling me 'i'm not availible to do emotional labour for you'. haha hehe hoho yes
if people are treating you like shit, you should leave, its not easy, but its for the best
AAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!! That is all.
Addendum:
Today I gave the birds some fresh corn. The pigeons were skeptical and afraid. The sparrows loved the corn, taking single kernels and flying off with them.
damn, maybe my complexion is more summer than autumnal. I'm rocking these warm, bright colors today
down with cis
about to eat some really spicy noodles, if I never post again yall know what happened ๐
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Coffee coffee
Black coffee, Brown coffee
Make rumbly in my tummy 
Make my head feel funny 
Coffee coffee
A cup of no good coffee 
Not sweet like toffee
Not creamy Not dreamy
Coffee coffee
taken at 23*
I feel like puking 
*hour of the day, 11 PM
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CW for Government Transphbia
Apparently the state department is intentionally defying the court order to let trans people have correct gender markers. Past few weeks have been pretty tough and I keep catching L's. I can't wait until I get that shit in the mail and have yet another emotional episode about it. Im mostly angry at myself because none of the bad stuff would be happening if I just stopped fucking up all the time.
The new blue sugar free monster tastes fucking amazing and I can't get enough of it.
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Memory is so shit lately, can barely remember what I actually did or what's happened. Lost my headphones. Literally no clue where they could be or when I even lost them.
Also a ton of negativity bubbling
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