Got a few web friends to use my real pronouns and my new name. It just makes me feel euphoric, but somehow still feels wrong. Maybe some internalized transphobia or just the disphoria (probably because I haven't started any part of the transition yet). But I'm happy anyways for getting some validation.
this post was submitted on 30 Jun 2025
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I have absolutely been there. In my experience is does get better the more you experience it
transphobia
Imagine deadnaming someone in your birthday message to her
I wish I could thanos snap these people into a pocket dimension so I don't have do deal with them. Fucking hell
Up with trans. Down with cis
In other news I got invited to a thing on Friday that I'm suuuuuper excited about. I'm going to get to flex my gay muscles
Is it possible to do HRT badly enough that it permanently messes up your transition or is it a kind of thing where it would just mean it takes more time?
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Am I crazy or is allergy season getting longer every year holy crap I want to call in sick and I'm on antihistamines
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Coworker gave me a hair tie and another put my hair up for me 
Low key have shed a few tears about it... just really nice of them to help me and feels kind of like something women would usually do for other women. Not out to them or anything but still you know.. needed something nice to happen to me today too.
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ride or die? guess I'll die then π€·ββοΈ
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Weβve only raised $66 so far, so we still have a long way to go. If you can help us by donating, sharing, or even giving advice on safe places, it would mean everything to us right now. My mutual aid link is in my profile. Thank you so much for being here for us. Love you all so much. πππΏ
I had two drinks over the course of several hours, how am i somehow drunkish? Like, im not drunk drunk, but im more than tipsy??? Granted, i havent had alcohol in weeks, but still two drinks (not even super heavy pours either, like an extra 20% cause the bartender likes meeee) shouldnt hit me like this???? New calibration point for alcohol ig?
If you started hrt semi-recently, it's probably that. I know when I started T my alcohol tolerance increased quite noticeably, so assuming the timing makes sense, you're probably experiencing the inverse of that
My tolerance went way down when i started E, but that was a couple years ago lol so i dont think its whats going on. I think i just havent had alcohol in a while and am no longer used to it
Yeah, must be tolerance then! Or the pour was heavier than you thought? (I've had that happen, I was hammer drunk after only 3 gin and sodas one time. Not a good night, actually.)
Its the E
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hair worry
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am worried if I finally buzz my hair , it'll show how big my forehead is.
wtf... someone keeps peeing in my bed while i'm sleeping. what the fuck
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I've been passing at work and wirh all my patients, weird feeling. Besides a little voice work all I did was move to a city.
Male tomboy with a little bit of E busts it down agender style, are they goated with the sauce?
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Is there a way to buy estrogen online (in the US) that doesn't involve having to use crypto?
prescription, or get a friend to buy it with crypto, and reimburse them with cash
but seriously, dragon ordnance (ships from china) accepts bank transfers from a service called wise, I've never used it so I don't know if it's a good option but if you really don't want to go through crypto, look into that
My partner had used wise to buy reproduction goods from China. Worked and got the stuff but our bank kept trying to block it early on.
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should i drive over to saudi arabia and see if i can meet any trans ppl there