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Thank you for enjoying the Frida Kahlo mega

β€œI am not sick. I am broken. But I am happy to be alive as long as I can paint.”

Biography of Frida Kahlo

Considered one of Mexico's greatest artists, Frida Kahlo was born on July 6, 1907 in Coyocoan, Mexico City, Mexico. She grew up in the family's home where was later referred to as the Blue House or Casa Azul. Her father is a German descendant and photographer. He immigrated to Mexico where he met and married her mother Matilde. Her mother is half Amerindian and half Spanish. Frida Kahlo has two older sisters and one younger sister.

Frida Kahlo has poor health in her childhood. She contracted polio at the age of 6 and had to be bedridden for nine months. This disease caused her right leg and foot to grow much thinner than her left one. She limped after she recovered from polio. She has been wearing long skirts to cover that for the rest of her life. Her father encouraged her to do lots of sports to help her recover. She played soccer, went swimming, and even did wrestle, which is very unusual at that time for a girl. She has kept a very close relationship with her father for her whole life.

Frida Kahlo attended the renowned National Preparatory School in Mexico City in the year of 1922. There are only thirty-five female students enrolled in that school and she soon became famous for her outspokenness and bravery. At this school she first met the famous Mexican muralist Diego Rivera for the first time. Rivera at that time was working on a mural called The Creation on the school campus. Frida often watched it and she told a friend she will marry him someday.

In the same year, Kahlo joined a gang of students who shared similar political and intellectual views. She fell in love with the leader Alejandro Gomez Arias. On a September afternoon when she traveled with Gomez Arias on a bus the tragic accident happened. The bus collided with a streetcar and Frida Kahlo was seriously injured. A steel handrail impaled her through the hip. Her spine and pelvis are fractured and this accident left her in a great deal of pain, both physically and physiologically.

She was injured so badly and had to stay in the Red Cross Hospital in Mexico City for several weeks. After that, she returned home for further recovery. She had to wear full-body cast for three months. To kill the time and alleviate the pain, she started painting and finished her first self-portrait the following year. Frida Kahlo once said,

I paint myself because I am often alone and I am the subject I know best".

Her parents encouraged her to paint and made a special easel made for her so she could paint in bed. They also gave her brushes and boxes of paints.

Frida Kahlo reconnected with Rivera in 1928. She asked him to evaluate her work and he encouraged her. The two soon started the romantic relationship. Despite her mother's objection, Frida and Diego Rivera got married in the next year. During their earlier years as a married couple, Frida had to move a lot based on Diego's work. In 1930, they lived in San Francisco, California. Then they moved to New York City for Rivera's artwork show at Museum of Modern Art. They later moved to Detroit while Diego Rivera worked for Detroit Institute of Arts.

In 1932, Kahlo added more realistic and surrealistic components in her painting style. In the painting titled Henry Ford Hospital(1932), Frida Kahlo lied on a hospital bed naked and was surrounded with a few things floating around, which includes a fetus, a flower, a pelvis, a snail, all connected by veins. This painting was an expression of her feelings about her second miscarriage. It is as personal as her other self-portraits.

In 1933, Kahlo was living in New York City with her husband Diego Rivera. Rivera was commissioned by Nelson Rockefeller to create a mural named as Man at the Crossroads at Rockefeller Center. Rivera tried to include Vladimir Lenin in the painting, who is a communist leader. Rockefeller stopped his work and that part was painted over. The couple had to move back to Mexico after this incident. They returned and live in San Angel, Mexico.

Frida Kahlo and Diego Rivera's marriage is not a usual one. They had been keeping separate homes and studios for all those years. Diego had so many affairs and one of that was with Kahlo's sister Cristina. Frida Kahlo was so sad and she cut off her long hair to show her desperation to the betrayal. She has longed for children but she cannot bear one due to the bus accident. She was heartbroken when she experienced a second miscarriage in 1934. Kahlo and Rivera have been separated a few times but they always went back together. In 1937 they helped Leon Trotsky and his wife Natalia. Leon Trotsky is an exiled communist and rival of Soviet leader Joseph Stalin. Kahlo and Rivera welcomed the couple together and let them stay at her Blue House. Kahlo also had a brief affair with Leon Trotsky when the couple stayed at her house.

In 1938, Frida Kahlo became a friend of AndrΓ© Breton, who is one of the primary figures of the Surrealism movement. Frida said she never considered herself as a Surrealist "until AndrΓ© Breton came to Mexico and told me I was one." She also wrote, "Really I do not know whether my paintings are surrealist or not, but I do know that they are the frankest expression of myself". "Since my subjects have always been my sensations, my states of mind and the profound reactions that life has been producing in me, I have frequently objectified all this in figures of myself, which were the most sincere and real thing that I could do in order to express what I felt inside and outside of myself."

In the same year, she had an exhibition at New York City gallery. She sold some of her paintings and got two commissions. One of that is from Clare Boothe Luce to paint her friend Dorothy Hale who committed suicide. She painted The Suicide of Dorothy Hale (1939), which tells the story of Dorothy's tragic leap. The patron Luce was horrified and almost destroyed this painting.

The next year, 1939, Kahlo was invited by AndrΓ© Breton and went to Paris. Her works are exhibited there and she is befriended with artists such as Marc Chagall, Piet Mondrian, and Pablo Picasso. She and Rivera got divorced that year and she painted one of her most famous paintings, The Two Fridas(1939).

But soon Frida Kahlo and Diego Rivera remarried in 1940. The second marriage is about the same as the first one. They still keep separate lives and houses. Both of them had infidelities with other people during the marriage. Kahlo received a commission from the Mexican government for five portraits of important Mexican women in 1941, but she was unable to finish the project. She lost her beloved father that year and continued to suffer from chronic health problems. Despite her personal challenges, her work continued to grow in popularity and was included in numerous group shows around this time.

In the year of 1944, Frida Kahlo painted one of her most famous portraits, The Broken Column. In this painting, she depicted herself naked and split down the middle. Her spine is shattered like a column. She wears a surgical brace and there are nails all through her body, which is the indication of the consistent pain she went through. In this painting, Frida expressed her physical challenges through her art. During that time, she had a few surgeries and had to wear special corsets to protect her back spine. She seeks lots of medical treatment for her chronic pain but nothing really worked.

Her health condition has been worsening in 1950. That year she was diagnosed with gangrene in her right foot. She became bedridden for the next nine month and had to stay in hospital and had several surgeries. But with great persistence, Frida Kahlo continued to work and paint. In the year of 1953, she had a solo exhibition in Mexican. Although she had limited mobility at that time, she showed up on the exhibition's opening ceremony. She arrived by ambulance, and welcomed the attendees, celebrated the ceremony in a bed the gallery set up for her. A few months later, she had to accept another surgery. Part of her right leg got amputated.

With the poor physical condition, she is also deeply depressed. She even had an inclination for suicide. Frida Kahlo has been out and in hospital during that year. But despite her health issues, she has been active with the political movement. She showed up at the demonstration against US-backed overthrow of President Jacobo Arbenz of Guatemala on July 2. This is her last public appearance. About one week after her 47th birthday, Frida Kahlo passed away at her beloved Bule House.

https://www.fridakahlo.org/frida-kahlo-biography.jsp


The Wounded Deer, 1946


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[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 22 points 1 week ago

I will not crashout today doggirl-thumbsup

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 22 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Yeah I'm AFAB. Assigned female at bureaucracy because my paperwork came back cat-trans

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 16 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

I've done notice of births, I've been there when the baby's come out, listened to the heart and lungs, counted fingers and toes, looked for congenital anomalies, kinda weird to look at a baby - realize I had to assign a gender even though I knew it only meant I was putting the baby in a category based on the literal exterior anatomy I saw, not anything in baby's head, not their genes, not even anything internal. Made me think back on when the nurse had initially assigned ME female when I was born but "corrected" herself on the paperwork later lol. I forgive her, it took me a while to figure it out too

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 14 points 1 week ago

Yeah it certainly is silly.

I remember a story she's ago about a cis woman who was accidentally assigned male at birth and her parents were functionally illiterate and didn't notice so as an adult her birth certificate said male and her red state wouldn't let her change it because they kept assuming she was trans.

[–] Arahnya@hexbear.net 22 points 1 week ago

Down with cisheteropatriarchy

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 21 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Doing a forklift test today and it was odd, all the guys were shit talking each other hard but when I was up it was "you got this wmill" which I don't mind but the contrast is very stark ngl

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[–] buh@hexbear.net 20 points 1 week ago

I'm not "too old to transition", I'm doing twink necromancy

[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 19 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 15 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] Mari@hexbear.net 14 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] BtownNobody@hexbear.net 14 points 1 week ago (1 children)
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[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 18 points 1 week ago

Venting about transphobiaI've become radicalised to the point of thinking anyone that uses the terms theyfab or theymab to invalidate nonbinary people should have rocks thrown at them until they stop.

[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 18 points 1 week ago (6 children)

i'd get mad if someone sent me a self-portrait

[–] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 17 points 1 week ago

@Grok make a watercolor of gay bugs bunny

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[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 18 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Cis people thinking they know better then me, and being transphobic, and all of that shit is making me crash out so hard this morning. I can't cope with this in a healthy way. Fuck them. Even the best most caring, whatever etc normally good people do this. I hate them. I hate forever being surrounded by them my whole fucking life.

Cis people will literally tell you diy is bad and you need to go to the doctor while telling you they do coke and molly. "oh no I don't know anything about trans stuff" then stfu and help me you stupid fucking ********.

Feel like I'm losing my mind I literally can't deal with ts. Why are people so fucking stupid and horrible?

aren't you overreacting

No not really, this isn't just about another person not helping me either. Sick to death of cis people.

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[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 17 points 1 week ago

Trans mega, they could never make me post in general mega. I appreciate the vibes here.

[–] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 17 points 1 week ago

The Bus, 1929 by Frida Kahlo

[–] RION@hexbear.net 16 points 1 week ago (2 children)

During therapy earlier this week I talked about how envious I was about a work acquaintance and her smooth legs. And as I kept talking I started tearing up which took me completely by surprise. I didn't realize how important that was to me until that moment

Another nail in the coffin for my brain worms (said after 5+ months on HRT :clueless:)

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[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 16 points 1 week ago

And thus I sacrifice my free time to sleep early like a nerd nerd I can wake up tomorrow feeling refreshed and ready to take on any forklift challenge placed before me.

[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 16 points 1 week ago (2 children)

we would like a temporary break from existing so shit stops happening to us pretty pretty please bottom-speak

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[–] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 16 points 1 week ago

Self Portrait with Monkeys, 1943

[–] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 16 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Art should be challenging. I like Frida. She's so expressive, so unafraid to explore herself, and not afraid to depict herself earnestly. She's very free

[–] GayTuckerCarlson@hexbear.net 14 points 1 week ago

Also monkeys are cool

[–] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 16 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Went out to a crafts market tonight, was really lovely. Also got genuinely like 20 compliments on my outfit at least. Like 2/3rds of the artists and then a solid couple random people. Even got a free pair of earrings from one specifically because my outfit was so nice. The fashion privilege is real.

Actually now that I think about it this is also like the first public thing I've done in months. Huh. Maybe I should go out more, maybe I could make friends by just being cute..

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[–] yewler@hexbear.net 16 points 1 week ago (3 children)

I'm realizing in about a month I'll be coming up on the anniversary of my egg crack. It's crazy to me I'm almost a year in

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[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 16 points 1 week ago (1 children)

getting some kind of weird gender envy from how well the WKUK guys pass for just being some cis dudes crossdressing for a sketch comedy show

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[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 15 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Went hiking today and came across a former monastery with a cool crypt that had a 1000 year-old sarcophagus inside it. But what really made my day was the statue in front of it.

It had a pride flag around it's shoulders and there was a sign right next to it condemning bigotry (including that of the Catholic Church) and calling for solidarity. Good to know that some Catholic institutions do actually take Christian love to heart. flag-gay-pride

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[–] Mari@hexbear.net 15 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] Moss@hexbear.net 14 points 1 week ago (4 children)

I had sleep paralysis for the first time ever this morning and it was not fun. I didn't know what was happening, I kept hallucinating that I struggled out of bed looking for help, but I was really weak and couldn't keep my eyes open. Then I would realize I was hallucinating, find myself back in bed and the hallucinations would start again. It went on for ages,.like at least fifteen minutes, and it was really scary. Also at one point I hallucinated that I was in work and about to collapse.

I finally woke up, checked my alarm and then went straight back to sleep

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[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 14 points 1 week ago

cis people are so annoying

[–] SorosFootSoldier@hexbear.net 14 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Hey I'm so sorry I'm late with my post. Turns out I had the OP in my blocked list, no clue why and I hadn't seen the mega til I checked. And I was wondering why no one had decided to make one.

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[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 14 points 1 week ago (2 children)

sex dreamI dreamt I had sex with Carrie-Anne Moss. It was fucking awesome. And her at her current age, not like a nostalgic version. No idea what could've triggered it, I haven't thought of her since Matrix 4 lol. She was more the top which is unusual for me but whatever

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[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 13 points 1 week ago

Uh I haven't really considered bottom surgery. But I realize I dropped my middle name which is a euphemism for penis. And the bits about losing my "Dick" (not the one) would be pretty hilarious.

[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 13 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Stood in the checkout line behind a guy who was like 6'3 just towering over me crush

~~I should get back on the apps~~

[–] WoodScientist@hexbear.net 14 points 1 week ago (2 children)

As a trans gal married to just such a 6'3" guy...I have to say, I highly recommend.

Standing next to each other, he can rest his chin on the top of my head... :3 <3

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[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 13 points 1 week ago (3 children)

I may have gone overboard buying cute girl hats, but the logic I have is that's my head is the one part of my body estrogen won't really change. So I can invest now.

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[–] onandrah1@hexbear.net 13 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Hey comrades πŸ’œ We were attacked in the camp for being trans ...two of my sisters were hurt, and our shelters were burned. We’re now in a hospital that gave us just a few days to pay or they’ll call the police.

We’ve raised $533 out of $1500 so far thank you to everyone who’s helped. Truly, you’re keeping us going.

If you feel okay reading or sharing, the link’s in my profile. No pressure even just seeing us means a lot. πŸ™πŸΏπŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈ

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[–] buh@hexbear.net 13 points 1 week ago

My favorite thing about women’s clothing is that instead of being shamed for being short, I get to be 𝓅𝑒𝓉𝒾𝓉𝑒

there's a lot i could say about my negative feelings towards my appearance, but i know this much to be true: i look fucking good in a tank top

[–] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 13 points 1 week ago (2 children)

confused emotionallylol shit, I think I'm in love with my best friend? Has anyone ever realized that they're in love platonically? The idea of our relationship becoming romantic is weird and daunting to me and we're more like really close siblings that aren't related but I think I realized the other day that I really deeply love this person and could easily see myself living together and being affectionate but not necessarily romantically? idk

ohnoes

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[–] Kuori@hexbear.net 13 points 1 week ago (3 children)

luffy-exhausted it's so hot. why the fuck is it so hot.

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[–] other_platypus@hexbear.net 12 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

job stuffI hope I get laid off this year with severance so I can take some real time off. I know the market sucks and it would suck to find a new job and they need me at this job and I have bills and such, but Im just dreaming about having time and energy to be creative and make music and silly little games I never finish again.

I miss learning and making things. But realistically I'm probably stuck in this job until I quit and instead other people will get the axe instead of me due to this stupid merger.

[–] Carl@hexbear.net 12 points 1 week ago

cash rules everything around me

[–] yewler@hexbear.net 12 points 1 week ago (7 children)

I'm nearing a year into transition and I'm just now thinking about middle names haha

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[–] SamotsvetyVIA@hexbear.net 12 points 1 week ago (5 children)

Wait, why hasn't any totransitarian regime implemented forced feminization/masculinization camps

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