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This is a 2-in-1 question, I suppose. I type the way I do. I’ve always typed this way, but I’ve noticed when interacting with people (not on here) that people always think I’m far older than 19. They think I’m in my forties or fifties.

Also, I tend to type using full stops, which people may think are rude. When I’m typing a full sentence, though, I end it with a period. If I say, “He’s being an asshole,” (with a period), I mean that as a fact, not out of anger. It just happens to be ended with a period since it’s a sentence.

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[–] andrewta@lemmy.world 18 points 3 hours ago (2 children)

The idea of periods being rude or something is moronic.

[–] roguetrick@lemmy.world 5 points 2 hours ago

I've never had one, but they seem to be assholes in general. Cramps, bleeding, unwanted hormone surges.

[–] KSPAtlas@sopuli.xyz 1 points 1 hour ago

It's simply linguistic evolution, and I find it interesting how the internet has shaped language. Writing on the internet tends to be very short and conversation-like, so if you want to get a point across there's no need for a full stop. This meant, that when people put full stops at the end of messages on the internet, it started being seen as more formal and serious, which became a tone marker

[–] idiomaddict@lemmy.world 7 points 2 hours ago

Older people grew up writing less than younger people have, because of texting, so they’re more accustomed to taking their time with the proprieties of grammar. Younger people began using grammar as a tone marker differently from how it had previously been used, so they tend to see a bigger difference between “no” and “No.” as an answer to a question than older people do. For younger people, the latter tends to seem more abrupt and final, which could come across rudely.

[–] bjoern_tantau@swg-empire.de 46 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Well, I only know that people who don't end their sentences properly sound like rambling idiots.

[–] originalucifer@moist.catsweat.com 32 points 5 hours ago (4 children)

no offense, but mature people wouldnt ask this question. its attention-seeking behavior often found in children.

[–] Jarix@lemmy.world 1 points 24 minutes ago

What an insensitive take

[–] False@lemmy.world 9 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

I'd say it's more insecurity

[–] brygphilomena@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 4 hours ago

I think it's trying to understand society and his place in it. These aren't bad questions. At a certain point you rather know where you fit and other people be damned. But at 19, your trying to understand how other people think still. You have your own thought process and are still getting used to other adults not processing information the way you do.

[–] CatDemons4@lemmings.world 6 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago) (6 children)

Oh? Thanks for your input. Well, I’m a mere 19 year old.

[–] cRazi_man@lemm.ee 3 points 1 hour ago

This community is literally called "no stupid questions". Don't worry about it.

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[–] magnetosphere@fedia.io 11 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

The way you type is like any other form of self-expression. If others want to read into it or decide they don’t like it, that’s on them. Type however you like and don’t give it another thought.

[–] Flax_vert@feddit.uk 4 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

I've seen certain parts of the internet develop "accents" as well in ways of typing.

[–] Flagstaff@programming.dev 1 points 3 hours ago (2 children)
[–] Flax_vert@feddit.uk 1 points 1 hour ago

Like slang and acronyms that appear more in various communities and chatrooms, or Minecraft servers, people start using them more.

[–] Soggy@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

The obvious examples are people typing in Scots or AAVE but that's more just phonetic transcription of existing language.

https://youtu.be/SDPasRas5u0

This video is ten years old so the examples are outdated but the idea is sound.

[–] KSPAtlas@sopuli.xyz 1 points 1 hour ago

Scots is its own language with its own writing system, people have been writing in Scots for centuries before the internet and it's not just colloquial. Scottish English is seperate, being an actual dialect, but there is an English-Scots dialect continuum so finding the exact difference is hard

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 21 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago) (2 children)

Because old people like me view written correspondence as less disposable. When jotting down personal notes, we don't worry about spelling or punctuation, but writing a letter? You double check that shit so there isn't documentation of how illiterate you are!

Youth grew up with texting. It's designed to be fast and efficient. Sup? OMG 👍 They just need to get the point across, it's not a grammar competition.

Neither is right or wrong, it's just a generational difference.

[–] card797@champserver.net 4 points 2 hours ago (4 children)

Oh, no. It's wrong. Punctuation makes everything clear!

[–] lud@lemm.ee 3 points 1 hour ago

There is absolutely no difference between "no" and "No.". Both can be understood perfectly well.

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[–] Skua@kbin.earth 9 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

it's not a grammar competition.

While I agree that there's less of an expectation of grammar, informal text communication has definitely developed grammar of its own. OP mentioned full stops, for example — ending a message with one is a tone marker now

[–] KSPAtlas@sopuli.xyz 2 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

Full stops are slowly becoming a separator instead of a terminator in colloquial chats, which I find interesting, since some scripts use an equivalent character like that

[–] Skua@kbin.earth 1 points 1 hour ago

Ooh, that's interesting. I'm not really sure what to look for here, could you give me an example of a language/script that has that?

[–] Zip2@feddit.uk 18 points 5 hours ago (3 children)

I am only assume it’s because your written communication is of a higher standard than your contemporaries. Keep it up.

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[–] SuiXi3D@fedia.io 6 points 5 hours ago

Twenty years ago when I was your age, I felt the same way. People are just ignorant.

[–] HappySkullsplitter@lemmy.world 10 points 5 hours ago (9 children)

This forces my own question

People can tell my age just by my punctuation or lack thereof?

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[–] roguetrick@lemmy.world 6 points 5 hours ago

You're asking the wrong crowd. People likely think you're old because you talk to us too much.

[–] iAmTheTot@sh.itjust.works 4 points 5 hours ago

If it makes you feel any better, this is the most 19 year old post ever.

[–] Flax_vert@feddit.uk 2 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

I quite like your way of typing, tbh. Looks quite elegant.

[–] CatDemons4@lemmings.world 3 points 3 hours ago

Thank you! You too.

[–] cheese_greater@lemmy.world 6 points 5 hours ago (6 children)

type using full stops

wat?

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[–] GlassHalfHopeful@lemmy.ca 2 points 4 hours ago

For the first question, you might find answers more helpful if you ask the aforementioned people that you're actually interacting with.

And regarding the second question, it's probably related to the first. Young people who grew up texting and using social media have adopted abbreviated writing styles. Older people using the same technologies tend to retain more proper forms. Of course, people aren't monoliths. There's plenty of young people writing in complete sentences and plenty of older people utilizing short form words.

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