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[โ€“] SterlingPooper@hexbear.net 3 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

for what it's worth, i've undeleted pretty much every comment i ever made on this account. how am i supposed to know that people even want to read my old comments? stuff that i feel is too identifying stays deleted. i can't undelete the Wendy account but like, nobody was telling me that i should stay, nobody made it clear that they'd be reading things i posted in the past. like if that had been made clear to me then i wouldn't have just up and deleted it.

i find it slightly ridiculous for people to call me out for deleting comments that they didn't read in the first place, as if i'm under special direction to make sure this information gets 150% through to you. if people are working as hard as i am to simple communicate, i don't know where those people are. when you all delete comments i don't think all that much about it, i generally respect that people will post something that they later want to delete. why am i held to a higher standard lmao

Im not trying to call you out or drag you, I had hoped you would see how I had come to be confused because to me it seemed you would get engagement and then delete your comment and then later complain you dont engagement. You don't have to undelete stuff, delete as you will and leave it deleted. I've deleted plenty of comments of my own. I just didnt understand why you would do it when you seemed (to me) to be getting what you wanted. It was just regular ol confusing, not a call out or a bone to pick.