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Y'know, when I signed up for this back in June I had grand plans for some grand writeup on the domestically produced unmagnified gunsights of Cuba. I had collected images and info and sources but I lost sight of it as life stuff happened and my time for the trans mega snuck up on me.

Que sera sera.

Anyways, today felt like the first whisper (you have no idea how hard I just thought about the ideal word for this metaphor) of autumn and that put me in the mood for one of my favorite autumnal albums. More Constant Than the Gods by SubRosa is a really lovely doom? sludge? metal album. I like how big it sounds. The lead vocalist is a really talented lady, and its got violins, also the lyrics talk about dying and stuff and I'm into that. Its very fall-y to me, as is Standard Time Volume 1 by Wynton Marsalis, but for extremely different reasons.

The funny thing is that, like the poster of the previous mega it is also my 5th transiversary, I started HRT half a decade ago today (ok technically it was the 17th but I'm gonna count it since thats when I started writing this). Now, I don't think that taking HRT was what made me "officially trans", rather it was the degree of self acceptance required to get to that point. It's a long story, and one I prefer to share privately, but it took a very, very long time before my fear and desperation gave me the strength to allow myself to have this. I think it all turned out pretty well, I experience existence in much higher fidelity, I'm this whole person, along with everything that entails.

I feel very blessed to be transgender.

I hope you all stay safe and have a good, or atleast tolerable week.


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[โ€“] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 1 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago) (4 children)

guess who's about to fly off the fucking handle if you don't sign up to make a mega? this gal (imagine i put my fist thumb-first through drywall)

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[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 5 points 2 hours ago

All tired and cuddly tonight.. One day. I have a few more posts cooking but I'll probably make them tomorrow at this point, eepy.

[โ€“] semioticbreakdown@hexbear.net 5 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

hey did you know that if you sit in your chair like a shrimp for 3 decades it will fuck your back up?? neat, huh???

the-more-you-know

[โ€“] semioticbreakdown@hexbear.net 2 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

spoilermy drain is still completely clogged and renting the pipe auger only served to make the pipes leaky and debilitate me from lugging it to and from the hardware store. i replaced the leaky bit but then another section started leaking cause there was an old part that got messed up while replacing the other bit. So I replaced that too, but now it's leaking where the pipes meet the sink. the clog is somewhere in the wall so I'm probably just gonna have to call a plumber. literally screaming

i hate plumbing i hate plumbing i hate plumbing!!! doggirl-growl

[โ€“] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 7 points 5 hours ago (2 children)

100% genuine, NSFW bottom surgery question. This is not a jokeis phantom limb syndrome for your dick a thing or no

spoilerOf the girls Ive known who've done it, there's a bit of ghost gock sensation but it goes away pretty quick as the nerves remap and come back online.

[โ€“] iridaniotter@hexbear.net 8 points 5 hours ago

spoiler

Given that you can give yourself phantom sensations by having a body map in your mind that doesn't reflect your physical body (eg. wings) and that trans people report phantom sensations pre-SRS of their desired genitals, I'd say yes but it's probably rare.

[โ€“] LeylaLove@hexbear.net 12 points 6 hours ago

Being on hormones makes me jump from being snuggly and romance yearning to horny. Today is a romance and snuggles day, I just want my hand held and my forehead kisses right now. I wish my partner lived closer because it would just make me absolutely melt right now.

[โ€“] Wmill@hexbear.net 4 points 5 hours ago

Being really really really ridiculously good looking is a burden sometimes ๐Ÿ˜” asked a receptionist if I needed to sign anything and I assumed she was stunned and she didn't say anything only as I leave I'm asked for my signature for a form. I didn't want to take advantage of this tremendous power so I left gracefully, really every potential relationship I'll have will be lopsided so ethically it's best I stay volcel-vanguard strongest solider

[โ€“] nemmybun@hexbear.net 11 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Tarot just told me I'd find love in an unlikely place. I can't think of anywhere more unlikely than Hexbear. So who is it? susie-blush

[โ€“] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 5 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

We found love in a hopeless place

[โ€“] nemmybun@hexbear.net 1 points 31 minutes ago

In a hopeless deep-nesting

[โ€“] yewler@hexbear.net 5 points 7 hours ago

Is it possible to achieve gayness singularity? If so I'm afraid I might become a danger to myself and others

[โ€“] rtstragedy2@hexbear.net 6 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

my corner of the internet feels so quiet today

I spent like 3.5 hours trying to make doors work in my game last night, nearly got it but had to write some glue code to get collisions on children remapped to a collision on the parent, and also sum bounding boxes to make proximity colliders idk I'm close though, pretty much everything else is working! Only 300 lines of code after a few iterations

[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 10 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Parents are talking about moving back to a good state in a year ish if my dad gets this new job, god please, please let this happen. Let them pay to move me out of this shithole. If I'm a year on E then too... Maybe that's enough time... We will see. I'm trying not to get my hopes up.

[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 7 points 9 hours ago

Oh also it's the state my cousin lives in- still tentative though.

[โ€“] musicenjoyer@hexbear.net 1 points 5 hours ago

Dorley Hall and Serious Weakness

spoilerI've been reading some books mentioned here, only have read he first Dorley Hall book , love it, I think I'll start the sequel after I finish Serious Weakness. Serious Weakness is quite long but I'm flipping through pages quickly. Only thing I dislike is how much the r-slur is used. Other than that I'm pretty captivated with the plot around Trianon and Insul.

exercise

spoilerFor some reason, I think I'm not getting enough gains even though I'm exercising everyday with the exception of a rest day.

[โ€“] Des@hexbear.net 7 points 10 hours ago

almost finished with Children of Time it's been a banger it's so good to read good sci-fi again

feels good to just read fiction again i don't know why it was so hard to start. internet really put a block on my brain

@MoonElf@hexbear.net my partner still has the Inanna hymn book on their work truck but they are going to send me good ones to post

[โ€“] yewler@hexbear.net 12 points 11 hours ago (2 children)

It feels like just over the past few days it's become so much more obvious to myself that I have boobs. They're still itty bitty, but just over the past week it's like I've had to change the way I sleep and when I'm laying down and move my arm sometimes I brush against my chest and actually feel them. It feels like just a week ago I had to actually go out of my way to check that the estrogen was doing anything to my chest and now it's unavoidable. Kinda cool

You can wear a bralette!

[โ€“] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 13 points 10 hours ago

Congratulations!

Better buy a bra and get used to wearing them. Start with a simple sports bra.

[โ€“] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 15 points 12 hours ago (4 children)

bisexual
bigender
vers
switch

fuck you, i refuse to pick a side

[โ€“] SpookyBogMonster@lemmy.ml 7 points 8 hours ago

True centrism

[โ€“] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 9 points 10 hours ago

Picking a side catgirl-cry

Picking no sides doggirl-smart

Picking both sides !? catgirl-sorry

The options you give me are not satisfactory, I am choosing Communism whether you like it or not xi-lib-tears

[โ€“] nemmybun@hexbear.net 10 points 11 hours ago
[โ€“] peanutbuttercupola@hexbear.net 11 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

It is kind of a blessing. We get to create ourselves in a way most cis people never do. cat-trans

[โ€“] SuperZutsuki@hexbear.net 6 points 10 hours ago

Most cis people are too boring to create themselves

[โ€“] yewler@hexbear.net 8 points 10 hours ago

I feel like I'm at a very exciting point in my transition. I'd kinda stagnated for a while not I just wanna do alllll the gender shit

[โ€“] Wmill@hexbear.net 10 points 12 hours ago

Me when author writes a plot hole catgirl-disgust

Me when I write a plot hole bleh

[โ€“] Wmill@hexbear.net 7 points 11 hours ago

The same way white people within earshot of me go "it's just so easy to treat people like people and not be racist" I hear from straight dudes say the same but interchange racist with homophobic. Don't get me wrong I think it's great people aren't mean to me but it's a bit kiryu-stare

[โ€“] RION@hexbear.net 4 points 10 hours ago

DIY Xander Cage be like "stop thinking prog police and start thinking PlayStation"

trans-gun If you ever feel like making another thread I'd be interested to see your original idea about the Cuban gun sights.

[โ€“] lilypad@hexbear.net 9 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

::: spoiler cw more kink tools and toys

I may have found a cheapish supplier of rattan.... Hmmmmmm... I mayyyy need to buy some and make some right propper canes for all the dommes i play with, as a thank you for treating me so ~~poorly~~ well... Last cane i made was from scrapwood and it broke the first time i used it. I want to find something a bit more reliable

[โ€“] Des@hexbear.net 5 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

response

i've always been a wimp for impact play. like i can be tied into a pretzel or cocooned or something but even little spanks are too owie. where would you rate it compared to a crop/spank/etc?


[โ€“] lilypad@hexbear.net 1 points 8 minutes ago

::: spoiler spoiler Well, canes are... Canes. Idk how to describe it. They can be firm taps when used softly, but can be the stingiest mfers in the world when someone really opens up. Certainly more intense than a crop imo, unless youre getting hit with the stick of the crop in which case theyre similar. Do you like impact thats more stingy or thuddy? Cause thuddy canes arent really a thing (i guess you could use a baseball bat sized cane?).

Also ime spanking intensity realllly varies depending on person and technique. The power put into it, as well as how they hold their hand (fingers spread being stingier, closed fist spanking/palmstriking being thuddier) all changes how it feels, so idk how to describe a cane in terms of spanking. Generally a thinner cane will be whippier and stingier, and a thicker cane will be thuddier (but still firmly in the sting end of the spectrum). But it feels different to a hand...

If youre wanting to try being caned, it can be very fun even at lower intensities. Also the bottoms of the feet are a spot that can be fun to have caned!

[โ€“] Alisu@hexbear.net 13 points 15 hours ago (1 children)
[โ€“] 0x2640@hexbear.net 8 points 11 hours ago (1 children)
[โ€“] Alisu@hexbear.net 5 points 8 hours ago

I am less sad now, thank you

[โ€“] Wmill@hexbear.net 4 points 12 hours ago

It's come to the point that it doesn't matter how bad my nail polish looks as long as I got some on ๐Ÿ’… it's pretty bad rn lol

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