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[–] firewyre@lemmy.world 33 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Arrest the passerby for wasting police time and resources

[–] Trainguyrom@reddthat.com 15 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

The onlooker called the police because they observed a child walking alone along a rural highway with no shoulder or sidewalk. There's plenty of very reportable reasons for a child to be walking alone along the highway and plenty of perfectly normal reasons for that to happen

Honestly the police and prosecutor are the only ones who are in the wrong. The police should have simply stopped by the boy to make sure all was well, give them a ride home if possible, and notify the parents so they can take it from there. Charging the parent with Reckless Conduct for this incident is absolutely bonkers

[–] PedestrianError@towns.gay 12 points 1 day ago

@Trainguyrom @firewyre Better idea for people who observe a child walking where there's no sidewalk and think it's a problem: call the damned transportation department and demand proper infrastructure!

[–] AnUnusualRelic@lemmy.world 10 points 1 day ago

Then whip him on the public square.

[–] NoodlePoint@lemmy.world 20 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Makes me angry that removing the ability for self-sufficiency -- even just walking alone for errands -- only furthers dystopia.

Why most American GenXers thump their chests about being turn-key kids... yet they should be opposing such overreach.

[–] zululove@lemmy.ml 35 points 2 days ago (6 children)

Two things. One : that is ridiculous overreach.

Two : we shouldn’t accept a society so dangerous our kids can’t explore and have fun..

[–] AnUnusualRelic@lemmy.world 12 points 1 day ago

It's not dangerous, as long as you manage to evade the police.

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[–] sexy_peach@feddit.org 20 points 1 day ago

Of course in the US

[–] Spacehooks@reddthat.com 60 points 2 days ago (3 children)

I wonder if children walking home from school are now a problem? That was like my main source of exercise.

[–] Saledovil@sh.itjust.works 34 points 2 days ago

My theory is that it's paranoia born out of how the media handles crime, and how isolating suburbia is.

[–] Trainguyrom@reddthat.com 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

There's a town near me where the school is technically on a state highway. Any student who walks to school gets instantly suspended for the day for walking on a highway. In the last few years they started building a nice big sidewalk connecting to the actual town streets so that kids can legally walk to school, but it is pretty bonkers that that school is so far from where kids should be walking or biking

[–] Spacehooks@reddthat.com 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Was there a light to cross at least?

[–] Trainguyrom@reddthat.com 1 points 1 day ago

The town is too small to have any traffic lights at all. The new sidewalk in front of the school directly connects to the sidewalks of the nearest streets that intersection with the state highway that the school is on, but ideally the houses on the other side of the state highway would have a walking path to reach the school as well (they don't)

The school is also the school, it's shared between two neighboring towns and contains all of the elementary, middle and highschool classes. My wife graduated in a class of about a dozen from this school

[–] GladiusB@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

It's not. My 10 year old did it for some of last year. His teachers and principal supported it.

[–] TheObviousSolution@lemmy.ca 43 points 2 days ago

Instead of building sidewalks, they arrest working moms, amazing.

[–] Fedizen@lemmy.world 80 points 2 days ago (3 children)

America: "We will arrest you if you let a child out unsupervised"

Also America "kids sit in front of the screen at home all day."

Also also America " if somebody accidentally runs over your child with a car they will get a 6 month license suspension"

Also also also America "We think crime is way up even though its at record lows and a leading cause of death here is automobile accidents"

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[–] BarneyPiccolo@lemmy.today 18 points 1 day ago

When I was a kid in the 60s, during the school year, I walked a mile to and from school, starting at age 5.

On weekends or summers, I would eat breakfast, jump on my bike, and not be back until dinner at 5 (The Rule). I had no ID, no money, no phone, no watch, no water, no food, nothing. And my mom had no idea where I was, either.

If I got thirsty, I'd knock on a door, and ask for a glass of water, and always got one. If I needed to know what time it was, I'd ask someone. I got pretty good at judging the time of day by the setting sun, and could always get home before 5. I never felt unsafe, as long as I could avoid the Robolotto brothers.

[–] Bamboodpanda@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

When I was 7, I would mow a lawn for 10$ and then ride my bike to a movie rental store and rent video games. It was about 5 miles away.

[–] Malfeasant@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

When I was 8 or so, I rode the subway to the end of the line and back just for fun...

[–] JackbyDev@programming.dev 15 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I never thought rural Georgia would be so car-brained about it but I guess I'm not surprised

Was it a dangerous walk? This, too, was subjective. The prosecutor, Emma Harper, certainly thought so. Later, in a phone call to Patterson’s attorney, David DeLugas, which DeLugas legally recorded and shared with CNN, the prosecutor called it “a busy highway with no sidewalk” and said, “It’s not walkable. It’s not safe … That’s not a thing that you do here. Because you’re gonna get hit by a car.”

[–] Malfeasant@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

Cars are dangerous - I know, let's arrest people who don't use them!

[–] igg@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago

this is from december and she has a gofundme for her legal defense apparently (might be : https://www.gofundme.com/f/support-parentsusas-fight-for-brits-parental-rights )

[–] canajac@lemmy.ca 18 points 2 days ago (1 children)

My mother sent me to the corner store for milk when I was 6. Should I call the cops now and stool her out?

[–] slaneesh_is_right@lemmy.org 8 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I grew up in a small town, by the time i was 6 or 7 i did groceries with my bike. When i was 10 we went pretty much everywhere by bus, bike, inline skates or by foot. The next city was like 10km away where we would traverse all the time. My mom should be in Auschwitz i guess.

[–] fishy@lemmy.today 6 points 2 days ago

Yeah, I definitely walked further than a mile everyday to and from school from 7-14. Sketchiest thing was the old dude handing out those mini Bibles trying to indoctrinate children and shitty drivers.

[–] SaharaMaleikuhm@feddit.org 39 points 2 days ago

Dumbest country on earth. You cannot change my mind.

[–] Tuxman@sh.itjust.works 72 points 2 days ago (5 children)
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[–] Theoriginalthon@lemmy.world 296 points 3 days ago (1 children)

“I stopped to ask him if he was okay and he needed help, and he lied, and said that his mother works here at the post office,” the caller said. “And then he just took off away from me.”

Which is exactly that id want my kids to do, if some random person pulled up next to them in a vehicle. When in doubt get the fuck out of there

[–] wheezy@lemmy.ml 102 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Yeah. Literally a smart kid. Quick thinking.

[–] Glytch@lemmy.world 52 points 2 days ago

Sounds like he was taught about stranger danger. Good parenting.

[–] blimthepixie@lemmy.dbzer0.com 229 points 3 days ago (12 children)

You lot really hate walking don't you

[–] QuoVadisHomines@sh.itjust.works 105 points 3 days ago (12 children)

I used to walk to my elementary school (roughly ages 5-10) which was a mile away. Lots of kids in my town walked to school.

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[–] ExLisper@lemmy.curiana.net 130 points 3 days ago (6 children)

Everything about this is insane. Making it illegal to walk, calling cops on kids, arresting people for any fucking reason. People created a hell hole they have to live in now.

[–] Th3D3k0y@lemmy.world 66 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Why is this kid walking, he should have a car. This is the USA, we don't walk here.

[–] br3d@lemmy.world 59 points 3 days ago (2 children)

By walking, that kid was stealing money from oil and car corporations

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[–] rozodru@lemmy.world 57 points 2 days ago (5 children)

I'm in my 40s and now I realize that my Parents would have likely been arrested several times over if I were a kid today. Hell I Imagine most of us would be in the same boat.

I mean on weekends or during the summer I was told to get out of the house, be with friends, have fun and told to be home either for dinner or by the time the street lights came on and if I wasn't going to be home in time then to find a phone and call my parents and let them know. Hell I could be like miles/Kilometers from home at any given moment. I could be in a friends house and their parents offered me dinner.

I was like any kid, I got up to no good. I stole candy sometimes. I once opened a Captain Planet action figure in a store cause I wanted the power ring that was inside. I got in trouble at school cause one time during recess me and my friends just decided to start cussing at the top of our lungs.

I'd hate to be a kid today. hell, I'd hate to be a parent today.

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[–] theangryseal@lemmy.world 104 points 3 days ago (19 children)

I am currently babysitting a 13 year old boy almost every day. Why? Because CPS says he can’t be alone.

He’s mature. He’s smart. He’s quiet. He is COMPLETELY capable of taking care of himself. His dad works 6 hour shifts at most.

The issue is, his dad went to jail for drugs. He’s been sober, he’s been working, he’s been fighting like hell to provide a decent life for his kids.

He’s not allowed to have his girlfriend around them, so he’s paying for two apartments and they can only spend time together coming up when the boy is in school.

I mean, sure, the dad hasn’t been a saint. But man oh man, they’re doing everything the can to make sure he fails.

He was taking suboxone, got the shot instead, realized he wasn’t experiencing withdrawal and dropped that. Well, now he has to prove that he will have detectable amounts in his system for up to a year, and then they’re going to MAKE him go back on suboxone to keep his son.

It’s madness the hoops some people have to jump through, meanwhile a childhood friend was starved and beaten regularly and they wouldn’t remove him from the home until his parents burned down a neighbor’s house and went to prison for arson.

When we were kids and we’d discuss what we wanted to be when we grew up, his answer was, “my mom’s murderer.”

When she did pass, he cried his eyes out for never reaching out to her and was one of the pallbearers.

I don’t get why things have to be such a mess.

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[–] billwashere@lemmy.world 42 points 2 days ago (1 children)

It was very early 1980s and I was maybe 10 or 11. I went on a 10 mile bike ride from my house to a friend’s house in another town. According to Google maps it was an hour bike ride. Pretty sure it took me much longer. And I’d guess my parents had no clue I did it.

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[–] ColeSloth@discuss.tchncs.de 74 points 2 days ago (13 children)

I'm 42. I fucking walked for miles all over the place when I was a kid. This being a "problem" is straight up retarded. Shit was actually a lot more dangerous back in the 80s and 90s than it is now. Kids are safer today than 30 years ago.

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[–] TheFeatureCreature@lemmy.ca 33 points 2 days ago

Pathetic. My sister and I used to explore around the whole city when we were that age. We'd walk streets and roads, explore parks and trails, visit malls across town, get into mischief like sneaking into people's backyards, exploring abandoned properties, and building forts in the woods. Some of my strongest memories are of the adventures we went on.

You know what the worst thing that happened to us was? The occasional scrape or bruise from falls when climbing on shit. We both remembered all the phone numbers we needed to know and my sister, being a bit older than me, was very streetwise and knew the layout of the city like the back of her hand. We did our own purchasing, bought our own food, tended our own wounds, and so on.

My sister grew up into one of the smartest and most independent people I've ever met.

[–] Bubbaonthebeach@lemmy.ca 24 points 2 days ago (3 children)

The really weird thing is that back before the 1990s, when it was common for kids to be free range, there was far more stranger abductions and violent crime than there is today. We just hear about everything so quickly and so much that people think they are now living in a more dangerous time. But then that was the plan since 9/11 - have Americans live in constant fear so the government could take over.

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[–] A_norny_mousse@feddit.org 134 points 3 days ago

Once again the rest of the world wonders how a whole country can be so... unreal

[–] avidamoeba@lemmy.ca 60 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (7 children)

This is what suburban carbrain disease does to a mfker.

Having grown up in Eastern Europe, walking to the kindergarten since 4, walking to the primary school since 7, walking / pubtransiting to mid/high school since 11, the North American suburban carbrain disease is just shocking, even after living alongside it for two decades.

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[–] hperrin@lemmy.ca 22 points 2 days ago (1 children)

If this is in America, I honestly don’t blame the cops. There are republicans lurking out there.

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[–] Apocalypteroid@lemmy.org 35 points 2 days ago (3 children)
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