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[–] klemptor@startrek.website 4 points 1 hour ago

Country music. That twangy sound is super grating to me, I hate the way certain vowels get stretched out, plus I have no cultural touchpoints with it on either a lyrical or musical level. The stuff that seems most popular is the most obnoxious to me. I'm told this is "the Nashville sound". Different strokes for different folks, but I sincerely don't get the appeal of it.

But there's some country-adjacent music that can be alright. E.g., my husband got really into Sturgill Simpson and I ended up more or less liking his Sound and Fury album, even if some of the vocals do have that irritating twang. I guess I'd consider that more like country-infused rock.

And I guess some older country can be OK once in a while - e.g., Johnny Cash, Dolly Parton.

[–] corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca 2 points 6 hours ago

I find some types of rap include lyrics I find offensive, and so I skip them.

I do not enjoy a lot of country music. If it sounds like the theme song to firefly - I'm so conflicted - I wouldn't listen to it otherwise.

But that's a personal preference. I did some Algerian rap the other night, and it sounded really good.

[–] FeloniousPunk@lemmy.today 3 points 7 hours ago

I’m afraid of listening to Grateful Dead for the fear of possibly liking it.

[–] Almacca@aussie.zone 21 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Anything 'AI' generated, because fuck that uncreative nonsense.

[–] Booboofinget@lemmy.world 2 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

I've been noticing a ton of thosebon YouTube. Especially for goth music. I don't mind if they use AI for images as not all independent bands have money to produce a video. However, using it to make the song is pretty vile. Especially because the lyrics are trite to the point of screaming.

[–] Almacca@aussie.zone 1 points 2 hours ago

Honestly, I don't have a problem with trite lyrics. Some of my most favourite songs are pretty trite. I've long desired to be a songwriter, but the reason I haven't is because I don't think I could accept putting out anything trite. The difference is, that no matter how trite the actual words or meaning are, lyrics produced by actual human artists have a rhythm and flow that can't be matched by machinery, or even cynical human music industry producers.

[–] daggermoon@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago

Maybe music that reminfs me of people I hate. Perhaps I'm being petty though.

[–] AceFuzzLord@lemmy.zip 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

This is gonna sound like a pretty weird train of thought, but I cannot listen to that Pharrell Williams song "Happy" because I'm my brain has forever connected it to the time I had some bad pea salad from a local place, which completely ruined both of them for me. Every time I hear it, even in my own head, my stomach starts churning a little and I eventually start to feel like I wanna throw up. Thankfully that song has died and I hope to god nobody ever revives it.

[–] AngryRobot@lemmy.world 1 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

I guess you probably hate Weird Al' Tacky too, don't you??

[–] AceFuzzLord@lemmy.zip 1 points 3 hours ago

I haven't heard that one, or if I have it's been long enough that I don't remember it.

[–] BluuTato@sh.itjust.works 29 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Christmas music, because I worked in retail and had to listen to it 8 hours a day for months.

[–] Rebecca_Corndogs@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago

Fuck you Mariah Carey

I'm agnostic but I fuck with the black church specifically for the music.

[–] Broadfern@lemmy.world 33 points 1 day ago

Corporate country music. Bo Burnham specifically wrote a song about it (lyrics link, since the song is technically a podcast episode w/ no accessibility).

Americana/folk, like Dolly Parton and Woody Guthrie are a far cry from the fox-news-to-a-melody garbage that gets put on country stations.

It’s the musical equivalent of John Wayne vs John Brown.

PS: Fun fact - Woody Guthrie wrote a scathing song about Fred Trump, so the war between the working class and that cursed name goes back at least a century.

[–] Denjin@lemmings.world 9 points 1 day ago

Lost Prophets. I'm usually one for separating art from artist but fuck that baby raping piece of shit and if a member of your band rapes babies there's no way you're oblivious to the whole thing.

Fuck Ian Watkins, fuck those that ignored and/or enabled his despicably evil behaviour because he was your pay day.

Country. I associate with my upbringing in Klan country where I went to Robert E. Lee High School and got to experience federally mandated desegregation busing, which doesn't do shit to decrease racial divisions in housing but does drive white people into religious schools in droves to avoid letting their children ever mingle with minorities. They fucking love that country music, though. I will never listen to it voluntarily if I can avoid it.

[–] DrSteveBrule@mander.xyz 12 points 1 day ago

I believe every genre is filled with good and bad music. I used to think I didn't like country or reggae but it was really just the mainstream music of those genres I disliked. Mainstream country has a lot of stereotypical lyrics and mainstream reggae has a lot of slow single chord riffs. But after a bit of digging I found artists and songs that explore those genres in more unique ways.

[–] Flax_vert@feddit.uk 14 points 1 day ago

Hillsong, Elevation and especially Bethel music - basically "Christian Worship" music mass produced for money and has loads of dodgy theology

[–] WhatGodIsMadeOf@feddit.org 17 points 1 day ago

"Patriotic" rap.

[–] garbagebagel@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago (2 children)

There's certain classical music that goes into very high notes, it hurts my ears and I can't stand it. My dad loves classical music and I feel bad not being able to share his joy for it, though there is some that I don't mind.

Also metal for same type of reason, some guitar noises just hurt my ears.

[–] cheese_greater@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

Wanna try an experiment? Whats a piece you might otherwise like but for the crazy treble?

Unrestrained treble can drive people temporarily insane

[–] hedge_lord@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

Songs where someone is singing about loving (not in a platonic way) their "baby". I'm just unable to get it out of my head

[–] Zachariah@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Saxophone. It should always be replaced by vocals, strings, or trumpets. Maybe synths.

[–] DeadPixel@lemmy.zip 8 points 1 day ago

This is blasphemy!

[–] DrSteveBrule@mander.xyz 5 points 1 day ago

Try given Kamasi Washington a listen!

[–] tatterdemalion@programming.dev 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

100 Gecs makes me cringe. It's mostly the lyrics and the nasal auto-tune voice.

Don't get me wrong, I can enjoy heavy auto-tune a la T-Pain, but that's quite more enjoyable to me.

[–] zxqwas@lemmy.world 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] GreyEyedGhost@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 day ago

Best reason, and a legitimate reason to not listen to anything. What exactly is the point of consuming art you don't enjoy?

[–] cloudless@piefed.social 10 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Metal - basically I don't enjoy loud music.

[–] Tattorack@lemmy.world 28 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] pwalshj@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

Welp, there's the jacket for the next single.

It just doesn't resonate with me. I've heard people say it's an outlet for certain feelings, but I guess I just don't feel those feelings very strongly.

[–] Semester3383@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

You don't have to listen to it loud...

I can’t listen to Tim Minchin’s “White Wine in the Sun” because I’ll bawl like a baby

[–] Ephera@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I genuinely get headaches from techno. A colleague was recently on a techno festival and that just sounds like the seventh circle of hell for me...

[–] gilgameth@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

I physically can't stand it.

[–] kubok@fedia.io 2 points 1 day ago

I have a special hate for Phil Collins's solo work. Take a decent drummer from a sort-of-interesting band and have them throw away all their talent to make drivel that has all sharp edges filed off. Also, I was forced to hear this throughout my teenage years all the time.

[–] charade_you_are@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

All music I don't like which is a lot. I'm annoyingly sensitive to music that doesn't click with me and it'll actually make me angry. Luckily, I only hate 90% of music that exists but the other 10% is pretty damn entertaining.

[–] Arkouda@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 day ago

Classic rock.