Want some virtual head pats? You'll be okay eggnog

It’s an unfortunate reality but a ton ton ton of people don’t actually reach out to make plans even though they are my friends. I generally make things happen. I know who my friends are because they show up when I invite them :)

I have found that with people with similar interests (lots of my friends climb) I just made a group chat with everyone and am like “Hello everyone I am climbing today at this location and this time, come join me!!” And I usually get a few people. They’re not always the same people either so I get a lot of quality time with different friends this way, while leaving it completely up to them to show up or not.

I’m sorry you deal with understanding social cues, there’s a lot of nuance and it’s pretty subtle :/ the way I go about it is if I like hanging out with a person I’ll reach out to them and ask if they want to do something. If they reject me a few times without trying to set something up I just give up

sorry for reading most ur posts here like im studying u in a microscope but yeah why is it so fucking confusing to make friends or any connections and when and how do social cues and why is no one coming TO ME god and you know i go out of my comfort zone (death sentence) bcs ok i guess i gotta feel inconvenienced if i want to rlly get to know ppl after all and BOOM they dont reply or return the same energy. like oh oops i became over familiar its all over!!! hence why i also cannot presume the position of "the interaction shall continue"....well...! idk i just saw myself in all the stuff ur saying and being raised by the internet and i cant even make friends in fandom it gets to a point where yeah , i cant do the lonely thing all my life either. solidarity. and an ear if u need it.

I went to Ireland a while ago, I was at a museum in Cork (after kissing the blarney stone, I ain't going to Ireland without kissing the fucking stone) - there was a video exhibit on Artaud. A nice gentleman sat next to me, we watched it and chatted afterward.

He said "I think Artaud went crazy and started carrying around a Sheleligh because of the weather" - and honestly, he mgihtve been right lol. Artaud was a French playwright. No way that continental disposition could handle Irish weather

Cold weather means fuzzy socks and cute scarves and nice hats tho

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You can get zero depth (no cavity, just labia, looks like any other vagina externally), a friend of mine got it cause she doesnt really do penetrative sex. You can get phallus preserving vaginoplasty where they give you a cavity and labia but keep the other thing around. Sometimes they line you with a little bit of viscera for more wetness, or a little section of intestine. Theres a couple girls I've been with who has the standard inversion and they both got wet while... we were uh in use... and both looked like any other birth vagina I've seen that close.

this is a lie i was worried i would run out so i stopped my antiandrogen for like a month and my testosterone reactivated. The maintenance dose i was on must not have been enough after restarting. fucking shit