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[–] whotookkarl@lemmy.world 1 points 50 minutes ago* (last edited 37 minutes ago)

Time for leisure is great. Read a book, play an instrument, daydream, learn something new, challenge your beliefs about whether certain institutions are beneficial or not, take a walk, ask someone in a position of authority subversive questions, fly a kite, take a nap.

https://harpers.org/archive/1932/10/in-praise-of-idleness/

[–] sparcipx@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 hour ago

I don’t have a lot of time for the boredom I so desperately deserve, but in my rare instances of free time I often think of immanetizing the Eschaton.

[–] barneypiccolo@lemm.ee 4 points 11 hours ago

I used to eat out of boredom, and I gained a lot of weight. Then I took up the guitar during Covid. Now when I get bored, and tempted to eat something, I pick up the guitar and start playing. Soon I forget that I was bored, and forget about eating. I've lost 85 pounds, and I'm still losing.

[–] Cocodapuf@lemmy.world 8 points 14 hours ago

You mean besides masturbate?

[–] quediuspayu@lemmy.world 4 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago)

Embrace boredom, that's where the best ideas come from.

[–] DigDoug@lemmy.world 35 points 21 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Senseless@feddit.org 10 points 19 hours ago

Ladies and Gentlemen, boys and girls, we have a winner. Close this thread.

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 35 points 22 hours ago

I scroll Lemmy.

[–] Drusas@fedia.io 25 points 22 hours ago (2 children)

I watch birds. I'm not even that old. But birds can be interesting.

[–] theskyisfalling@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 20 hours ago

Dude. I started feeding birds in my garden around 3 years ago, I wasnt even that interested in birds, now I have a shit load of regulars and I love watching those little bastards.

[–] kratoz29@lemmy.zip 2 points 22 hours ago (2 children)

Really? how so?

Honest question.

[–] Drusas@fedia.io 6 points 20 hours ago

You can see the different personalities between species and between individual birds. They are often smarter than you would think.

[–] Mothra@mander.xyz 3 points 21 hours ago

The same way anything can be interesting.

[–] Kissaki@feddit.org 10 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago)

I never feel bored. The closest, I guess, is feeling lost and not motivated for anything or stressed and jumpy between things.

In those cases or more when I don't "have anything to do" in general, I open Lemmy, or YouTube, or watch anime or some series, read manga, or watch documentaries. Depending on motivation and mood I open games or do open source or personal project work. Sometimes open specific news or test websites, or my RSS feed accumulator. Or do whatever else is open to do.

[–] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 20 points 22 hours ago

Sort Lemmy by new

[–] Green_Mouse@piefed.social 2 points 14 hours ago

Sometimes I lie down and listen to music or a long video, sometimes I play with my dog, sometimes I just rest, or play some games from my backlog.

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 17 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago) (1 children)

Games. Board or video.

Usually with an old TV series in the background.

And Kitty time. Can't forget them!

[–] return2ozma@lemmy.world 2 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

I've recently started watching Columbo and it's actually a great series to have on in the background.

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 3 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago)

We're at the last season of Malcom in the Middle.

How have I never seen this until now?! Such a good show, and as we were about halfway through the series, they announced a reunion season coming out soon. (Just like every other show, but this one I'm actually excited to see) Talk about perfect timing!

[–] SayJess@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 22 hours ago

Lately…eat out of boredom. I’ve been trying to curb it, but not succeeding. I’ve got 8 days off starting tomorrow. Not looking good for my waistline. 😔

[–] Libb@piefed.social 6 points 18 hours ago

Being bored is not a bad thing. If by being bored you mean 'not doing something' and not being 'busy' because then it means one can start thinking by oneself. Something that seems to be severely lacking in our so modern and so constantly busy societies.

If you want to know what are my usual activities, beside welcoming boredom, I would say: read, write, paint, go out for a walk (that's amazing too, for the body as well as the mind), spend time with my spouse, making stuff with my hands.

[–] Montagge@lemmy.zip 12 points 21 hours ago

I don't remember the last time I was bored lol

[–] toomanypancakes@lemmy.world 7 points 21 hours ago

Usually either put on a record, take the dog for a walk, or diddle the skittle

[–] Nemo@slrpnk.net 7 points 22 hours ago
[–] AFKBRBChocolate@lemmy.ca 6 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

I read an obscene amount of science fiction and play a lot of classic wow.

[–] partial_accumen@lemmy.world 4 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

and play a lot of classic wow.

I'm wondering if you can tell me where I can find Mankrik's wife.

[–] AFKBRBChocolate@lemmy.ca 2 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

I've never played horde, but she's at 49, 50. I can give you a straight answer since I haven't had to deal with horde barrens chat.

[–] kubok@fedia.io 3 points 19 hours ago

I wish that I had the luxury to be bored.

[–] Zombiepirate@lemmy.world 4 points 21 hours ago

Play music, read a book, draw something, play a game, or watch a movie.

[–] Fondots@lemmy.world 3 points 19 hours ago

Read, watch TV/movies/YouTube, play video games, take the dog for a walk, work on one of my many hobbies that I've been neglecting, see if any of my friends wants to do something, take a nap, listen to music,

And if I get really bored, there's probably something I'm supposed to be cleaning or some other chore that needs attention

[–] scytale@lemmy.zip 3 points 20 hours ago

Watch a movie, listen to music while browsing lemmy, or take a nap. If there’s something that needs to be done like repairs or chore, I do that too.

[–] Maeve@kbin.earth 3 points 20 hours ago

Take a walk/with a fur baby, play with/pet a fur baby, clean (always something), nap, video, read, scroll, meditate/pray, talk to a neighbor.

[–] kratoz29@lemmy.zip 4 points 22 hours ago

Customize Android root stuff, watch anime, play videogames, that has been my life as of lately.

[–] StrawberryPigtails@lemmy.sdf.org 4 points 22 hours ago

Can’t say that happens frequently enough for me to have a set thing to do.

The list of things that need to get done never seems to get shorter. So I’m usually working though my todo list. Recreation time has to be scheduled sadly.

[–] shartworx@sh.itjust.works 4 points 22 hours ago

Put things into other things. Take things out of other things. Push stuff. Sleep. Look at stuff.

[–] Crankenstein@lemmy.world 2 points 20 hours ago

Nap

Disassociate to music.

Jork it.

[–] BossDj@lemm.ee 2 points 22 hours ago

Text around see who else is home and bored. Time to not be at home.

If that fails, scroll scroll scroll then maybe some gaming (marvel rivals and death stranding right now)