wtf are you supposed to wear for summer? 
this post was submitted on 16 Jun 2025
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I finally got around to seeing "I Saw The TV Glow", and it definitely lived up to the hype.
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Hey, itβs me too.I really like thin linen short-sleeve shirts or shirts with rolled up sleeves, buttoned or open over a singlet, especially those with flowers or fruit embroidered on them. With short shorts and colourful hightops with ankle socks.
hoodie
Halfway through June and I'm still wearing it tbh
Sundresses, skirts, light flowy stuff in general if you don't want to show off skin. If you're okay with skin then shorts, short sleeved stuff, miniskirts, tanks, crops. Kinda everything, really.
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up with trans
up with trans
I should have gotten on the dating apps way sooner, I'm having such a fun time flirting with trans and queer cuties all day. Currently talking to a trans woman who's nearly twice my age because my higher power was smiling on me while I was swiping that day.
Lots of libs though. So many libs.
Dating apps seem to work a lot better for the queers than for the straights.
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Finding jobs suuuuuuuuuuuuuuucks
Been trying to grow out my facial hair since I found pomemade on sale, I look like I came out of a cave and can't settle on any style, I just know sideburns won't ever be a cool thing, and obviously due to work and such I can't keep the mountain man look for that much longer before I get a talking to.
Me over here thinking sideburns are hot and wishing for sideburns to come back :(
Around the holidays I grew mine out a whole lot and some foreign exchange students named dropped Disco Elysium and that made me realize 
lol
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down with cis
down with cis
aww yis first
Fuck yeah, favorite movie that I never want to watch bc it gave me an emotional breakdown the first time around
hii
mental health
I like how I look sometimes at the same time I feel like I could be more. I really wish I wasnt myself. Though idk if thats dysphoria or just really really bad self hate I have for myself for other reasons growing up. Always low energy and mind scattered and feel like I'm missing out on life. It feels unfair. Yet I don't want to say I'm deppressed cause a part of me refuses to believe lmao
Tommorow O_O
O_O
These are the eyes of a gal that woke up at 0450
hey you toooo??? 
Tommorow is the single last assignment I have to do for my entire bachelor degree.
It's a PowerPoint presentation.
No, I don't need luck. I need sleep.
good sleep upon yee
I have watched I saw the TV glow and it just didnt resonate with me and I feel shitty lmao
i sense you're partially joking but you shouldn't feel bad... it's a representation of one person's experience with transness which while common is far from universal. didn't resonate with me at all either and i think it's a pretty movie but fairly overhyped. everyone's experience is different, you don't need to conform to some cookie cutter trajectory of being trans to be cool and valid.
Yeah fair enough, I just saw it was overhyped, watched it and I was like "well, fuck" it wasn't according to my expectations that I heard from other trans people. I dunno feels like I have way less in common with other trans people regarding likes and common experiences and it sucks sometimes as I cant relate
i understand that. not trying to sound cynical at all but personally i feel like a lot of that stuff gets amplified online because baby transes who have just shattered their whole perception of self feel they need some sort of pre-made coherent identity to cling to. which is valid and all but i think moving on from it at some point is desirable. way less of a pronounced phenomenon irl in my experience. being your own person is fine and good actually.
being your own person is fine and good actually
yeah I have a problem with this rn (identity crisis 24/7) XD I'm trying but it feels like I'm staring from 10th floor through a glass pane observing others and learning their behaviors through a miopic lens
solidarity comrade, i've been there too. i'm autistic and i relate to your analogy for sure. nothing wrong with taking bits that you think are good and beautiful from other people, that's a lot of what the self is i think.
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I didn't resonate with it either, and I thinkfor me its cause I transed my gender in the real life nightmare realm and had been out for a while. If I had been an egg or closeted, it probably would've been more powerful
Lots reminded me of my own egg teenagerhood self, especially the beginning
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Clothes shopping and nothing decent in my size π there was this really cute jumperskirt and shirt combo but it was wayyyy too big for me. (like 20cm wider than my waist too big) Shame I had to leave it, but oh well, there'll be other dresses.