Finally out of that mixed shampoo conditioner that I was using for the past year, time to start my haircare era. Did a decent amount of research on what's good for silky straight hair and I'm hopeful that it'll help me have more consistently nice hair instead of always jumping between overly oily from too much conditioner and overly dirty from not enough shampoo
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I finally got around to seeing "I Saw The TV Glow", and it definitely lived up to the hype.
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With straight hair, people's scalps typically don't need conditioner. Conditioner directly on the scalp can make hair oilier. If it itches without conditioner it's typically because it's used to having moisturizer added to it. If you don't condition the scalp for maybe a month your scalp could possibly return to normal self produced moisture.
My hair isn't as oily anymore now that I don't add extra conditioner to it. Right now I use a 2-in-1 shampoo and conditioner because that's what I have available. But before this, I had plain shampoo of the same exact brand, and my hair was least oily. It lasted a whole day longer unwashed.
That's the plan! I did pick up a conditioner too but I'm not putting it anywhere close to my scalp. My hair's always been naturally pretty oily so the mixed I was using made it sooo bad
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Also istg why does every person in every store I go to recognise me now this never used to be the case. Is it just that I go to these places more often or is it that my style is so distinctive everyone remembers it. It's probably the first but I'm gonna pretend it's the second.
Uhhh... your style is VERY distinctive. I pretty much never see anyone wearing the kind of fancy dresses that you are wearing.
Okay in my defense I do not go out every day in my lolitas. Only once a month.
~~I want to start wearing them weekly though when fall rolls around~~
With the red one even going out once would be enough for people to remember you for the rest of their days. 
wtf are you supposed to wear for summer? 
You should wear dolphin shorts
I like shorts, they're comfy and easy to wear
Trans fems with sleeveless tops 
hi that's me!
Hey, itβs me too.
I really like thin linen short-sleeve shirts or shirts with rolled up sleeves, buttoned or open over a singlet, especially those with flowers or fruit embroidered on them. With short shorts and colourful hightops with ankle socks.
hoodie
Halfway through June and I'm still wearing it tbh
Sundresses, skirts, light flowy stuff in general if you don't want to show off skin. If you're okay with skin then shorts, short sleeved stuff, miniskirts, tanks, crops. Kinda everything, really.
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up with trans
up with trans
up with trans
up with trans
I should have gotten on the dating apps way sooner, I'm having such a fun time flirting with trans and queer cuties all day. Currently talking to a trans woman who's nearly twice my age because my higher power was smiling on me while I was swiping that day.
Lots of libs though. So many libs.
Dating apps seem to work a lot better for the queers than for the straights.
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Yeah it's pretty disappointing how many trans libs there are 
It's a coin flip whether a trans person is a based communist or lib. (Landing on the side is rightwing grifter). This is still a better ratio than the cis though.
Finding jobs suuuuuuuuuuuuuuucks
Been trying to grow out my facial hair since I found pomemade on sale, I look like I came out of a cave and can't settle on any style, I just know sideburns won't ever be a cool thing, and obviously due to work and such I can't keep the mountain man look for that much longer before I get a talking to.
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down with cis
down with cis
aww yis first
mental health
I like how I look sometimes at the same time I feel like I could be more. I really wish I wasnt myself. Though idk if thats dysphoria or just really really bad self hate I have for myself for other reasons growing up. Always low energy and mind scattered and feel like I'm missing out on life. It feels unfair. Yet I don't want to say I'm deppressed cause a part of me refuses to believe lmao
Fuck yeah, favorite movie that I never want to watch bc it gave me an emotional breakdown the first time around
hii
Tommorow O_O
Tommorow is the single last assignment I have to do for my entire bachelor degree.
It's a PowerPoint presentation.
No, I don't need luck. I need sleep.
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I have watched I saw the TV glow and it just didnt resonate with me and I feel shitty lmao
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Clothes shopping and nothing decent in my size π there was this really cute jumperskirt and shirt combo but it was wayyyy too big for me. (like 20cm wider than my waist too big) Shame I had to leave it, but oh well, there'll be other dresses.