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[–] ShinkanTrain@lemmy.ml 51 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

23 bucks just for the leash with no collar, that's the horny tax

[–] PyroNeurosis@lemmy.blahaj.zone 24 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

Are you trying to imply that you don't have the collar (and tag) ready to go?

[–] ShinkanTrain@lemmy.ml 21 points 3 days ago

My real passion are good deals

[–] bjoern_tantau@swg-empire.de 57 points 3 days ago
[–] AFC1886VCC@reddthat.com 35 points 3 days ago (10 children)

Who wants me to drag them around in one of these?

[–] Zizzy@lemmy.blahaj.zone 17 points 3 days ago

Me, pick me

[–] SkyeStarfall@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 3 days ago

...hiiiiiiiii

[–] ChaoticCookie@sh.itjust.works 9 points 3 days ago

I personally think everyone in this thread should be leashed! (As long as they consent to it ofc)

[–] itslilith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 3 days ago

^...woof?~^

[–] WeLoveCastingSpellz@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)
[–] coldsideofyourpillow@lemmy.cafe 6 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

^meow~^ ^:3^

[–] Enkers@sh.itjust.works 7 points 3 days ago

N.. not really...

[–] ChaoticCookie@sh.itjust.works 7 points 3 days ago

Oh me! Me me!

[–] calisti@lemmy.blahaj.zone 32 points 3 days ago (3 children)

Why are they selling it, though?

To make money usually.

[–] SayJess@lemmy.blahaj.zone 30 points 3 days ago

Because they know

Contract overrun.

[–] Rozauhtuno@lemmy.blahaj.zone 27 points 3 days ago
[–] Zwiebel@feddit.org 22 points 3 days ago

To take their gf out for walkies? :3

ARF ARF ARF :3

[–] kibiz0r@midwest.social 13 points 3 days ago (1 children)
[–] Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 7 hours ago

for that price it better be indestructible

[–] idegenszavak@sh.itjust.works 13 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (3 children)

What would they use it for?

[–] Zzyzx@lemmy.blahaj.zone 34 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Probably to construct an elaborate trap for wild catgirls

[–] idegenszavak@sh.itjust.works 10 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Ok, im more confused than before.

[–] itslilith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 3 days ago (1 children)
[–] idegenszavak@sh.itjust.works 16 points 3 days ago (1 children)
[–] coldsideofyourpillow@lemmy.cafe 11 points 3 days ago (1 children)
[–] IndieSpren@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Actual catgirls

[–] fushuan@lemm.ee 10 points 3 days ago

Bondage, BDSM, dom/sub play.

[–] SkyeStarfall@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Put a collar and leash on themselves and do kink stuff

[–] Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 3 days ago (1 children)

:o

............ m........ Mm...... >~<

[–] ChaoticCookie@sh.itjust.works 10 points 3 days ago (1 children)
[–] Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 3 days ago (1 children)

*looks left*
*looks right*

O//-//O ...

>//~//<

(CW: somewhat adult audio link)~lil~ ~chain~ ~noises~

[–] ChaoticCookie@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Cute~ ;3

Also, that asmr is amazing. I need someone to do that to me irl!

[–] Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

~yisyes~ ~that~ ~audio~ ~rlli~ ~is~ ~something~ ~<3~
~its~ ~not~ ~too~ ~spici~ ~its~ ~vrri~ ~comf~ ~bt~ ~alsuuu~ ~like~ ~-~ ~isso~ ~uhm...~ ~direct...~

[–] ChaoticCookie@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I'm such a good puppy girl >~< (still cis man tho)

[–] Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 days ago

iss all fine <3 <3

u dun hav to be trans or anythin to be cute comf puppigurl <3 🐕 👧

I'd totally buy it.