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[–] damdy@lemm.ee 8 points 16 hours ago

Right now, as someone not from the US, star spangled banned would ruin the evening more than anything else I could think of. Everyone can recognize it, arguments would follow.

[–] MTK@lemmy.world 3 points 14 hours ago

"what what in the butt" with the dance, no censorship to save them when it's live.

[–] NigelFrobisher@aussie.zone 2 points 14 hours ago

I did this with “Everybody Hurts”. Everybody went outside.

[–] pantyhosewimp@lemmynsfw.com 2 points 15 hours ago

I looked for this to upvote it, but y’all ain’t listed it yet so here goes:

The Drugs Don’t Work by The Verve

[–] GeeDubHayduke@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Saw this irl once. Two dudes, totally tone-deaf decide to sing Aqualung by Jethro Tull...

...as a duet.

[–] GeeDubHayduke@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 20 hours ago

Same bar had a dude that would sing Disney princess songs every night. He never went home alone.

Shout out to Dante's in Seattle!

[–] RavenFellBlade@startrek.website 2 points 17 hours ago

In-A-Gadda-Da-Vida. Long song with not a lot of singing.

[–] LunarLoony@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 18 hours ago

A Passion Play.

The entire thing. Including the Hare Who Lost His Spectacles.

(Side note: I love this album, but as a karaoke performance I can't imagine it'd go down well)

[–] CaptKoala@lemmy.ml 6 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

Wrecking Ball- Miley Cyrus.

I could butcher anything, but that, I'll butcher it with glee.

[–] Notyou@sopuli.xyz 3 points 16 hours ago

If you would have said Party in the USA, I would be up there butchering it with you.

[–] Snowpix@lemmy.ca 1 points 16 hours ago

"Peace and Love (Blind Man's Penis)" by John Trubee

[–] Aggravationstation@feddit.uk 4 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago)

In the UK any of the below should do the trick, with the added bonus of possibly getting you stabbed and/ or glassed:

Gary Glitter - My Gang

Rolf Harris - Jake the Peg

Lostprophets - Last Train Home

[–] ZDL@ttrpg.network 10 points 1 day ago

The Wreck of the Edmund Fitzgerald. It's a Debbie Downer of a song, it lasts forever, and it gets really repetitive.

[–] apotheotic@beehaw.org 1 points 18 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Daemnyz@lemmy.ml 2 points 16 hours ago* (last edited 16 hours ago) (1 children)

I don't know how you got to that anwer, this would go hard as balls

[–] apotheotic@beehaw.org 1 points 15 hours ago

I'm killing the "hyped up" vibes and getting everyone to cozy comfyville

[–] sik0fewl@lemmy.ca 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Meat Loaf - I'd Do Anything For Love - the original album version where there's around 20s of motorcycle sounds and vocals start around 1:50.

[–] waz@lemmy.world 3 points 22 hours ago

This was my favorite song to play on a jukebox back in the day. I could put it on 3 times in a row for a dollar at the local bar, and it would take over the sound system for over half an hour. There are enough transitions in it that it flows back into itself fairly well.

[–] Gustephan@lemmy.world 2 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

Such Small Hands - La Dispute

I think I saw you in my sleep, DARLING

[–] prettybunnys@sh.itjust.works 2 points 21 hours ago

La Dispute would get my up my guy.

[–] SLVRDRGN@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

My Heart Will Go On - Celine Dion

[–] damdy@lemm.ee 1 points 16 hours ago

I literally cannot imagine a situation where the whole group doesn't sing along to this. This is a batter answer to, 'what song to bring people out of their shells?'

[–] iamjackflack@lemm.ee 1 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Hum the Russian national anthem

[–] borokov@lemmy.world 2 points 14 hours ago

Was thincking the same thing

[–] burgersc12@mander.xyz 3 points 1 day ago

I Need a Hero. Can't live up to the best version, but I'll try my best!

[–] hihi24522@lemm.ee 18 points 1 day ago
[–] inlandempire@jlai.lu 3 points 1 day ago

The Smallest Church in Saint-Saens

[–] Dogiedog64@lemmy.world 11 points 1 day ago

Baby Shark, followed by Wonderwall.

[–] MechanicalJester@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

The Mash movie theme song...

Through early morning fog, I see Visions of the things to be The pains that are withheld for me I realize and I can see That suicide is painless It brings on many changes And I can take or leave it if I please The game of life is hard to play I'm gonna lose it anyway The losing card I'll someday lay So this is all I have to say Suicide is painless (suicide) It brings on many changes (changes) And I can take or leave it if I please The sword of time will pierce our skins It doesn't hurt when it begins But as it works it's way on in The pain grows stronger, watch it grin Suicide is painless It brings on many changes And I can take or leave it if I please A brave man once requested me To answer questions that are key "Is it to be or not to be?" And I replied, "Oh, why ask me?" Suicide is painless It brings on many changes And I can take or leave it if I please And you can do the same thing if you please

[–] Sprinks@lemmy.world 23 points 1 day ago (1 children)

In the arms of an angel....

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[–] Hossenfeffer@feddit.uk 22 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)
[–] white_nrdy@programming.dev 10 points 1 day ago

"Hey hey wait. Let's throw in one It's Not Unusual"

[–] son_named_bort@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] prettybunnys@sh.itjust.works 2 points 21 hours ago

If you went up there and did the entire songs including informing when they movements began and ended … frankly you’d be a legend.

[–] HeartyOfGlass@lemm.ee 10 points 1 day ago (2 children)

The Mountain Goats' "No Children", but very intensely.

[–] suckdings@sh.itjust.works 1 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago)

Depends on the crowd. I did this song once because I was just so excited to see it (any Mountain Goats, really) available.

The crowd absolutely loved it. People at the front row singing along, having a great time. A guy thanked me after. Surreal. Like a "then everybody clapped" moment.

Must have been a bunch of Moral Orel fans, I guess? Or, I suppose after people butchering Bohemian Rhapsody all night, this was the palate cleanser. Who knows.

[–] Klordok@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago

I would be so hyped that someone is playing The Mountain Goats in public I would probably join in.

Instrumental version of Tequila

[–] Nusm@yall.theatl.social 19 points 1 day ago (4 children)

The Wreck of the Edmund Fitzgerald by Gordon Lightfoot. A jaunty little sea shanty about a ship sinking in a storm and killing everyone on board.

https://youtu.be/FuzTkGyxkYI

[–] gramie@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 day ago

I sang that two nights ago, at our local open mic. Went over very well, but then again the average age was probably over 70.

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[–] Lodespawn@aussie.zone 15 points 1 day ago

Urgh just whatever I think might be fun at the time, it's always bad

[–] sik0fewl@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 day ago

Live - Lightning Crashes

People would get into it, but it would definitely kill the vibes before then.

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