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[–] 420blazeit69@hexbear.net 66 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I find it incredibly boring and unoriginal

suggests something cool and unique, like getting a coffee

Simple first dates (like getting a coffee, or a drink, or just walking around) are great because if you have a good time, you know you had a good time because you like the person! You didn't just have a good time doing a fun thing and the person was decent enough not to ruin it.

[–] CthulhusIntern@hexbear.net 15 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Especially in online dating, the first date is just supposed to be a "see if we're compatible" thing. The second date is when you get more complex. The third date is, if you haven't already, largely just an excuse to get inside of one of your houses.

[–] edge@hexbear.net 11 points 1 year ago

*takes notes as if I’ll ever get a date*