it's hot. also i'm growing cacti from seed which is new to me and i'm excited, a few of them are sprouting now. how are you?
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Finally looking at the local queer events and I once again have a bunch of conflictsI once again ask, how the fuck and when the fuck am I supposed to be making friends
I really need there to be explicit "well, I guess that makes us friends" kinds of moments or, I shit you not, I will not make any inferences from the interaction. I'll assume you meant well but would ultimately rather never see me again.
If you indicate that you will see me around, or express interest in future plans, that's pretty clear too, although if we don't set it up then, I don't really know if you meant it. I myself don't feel this agency in most situations, because I assume that the other person is more in the position to say "I like this person, the interaction shall continue". Like I have less of an opinion, somehow, or less of a say?
I can't do the lonely thing my whole life like some people can. This is gonna whittle me down.
sorry for reading most ur posts here like im studying u in a microscope but yeah why is it so fucking confusing to make friends or any connections and when and how do social cues and why is no one coming TO ME
god and you know i go out of my comfort zone (death sentence) bcs ok i guess i gotta feel inconvenienced if i want to rlly get to know ppl after all and BOOM they dont reply or return the same energy. like oh oops i became over familiar its all over!!! hence why i also cannot presume the position of "the interaction shall continue"....well...! idk i just saw myself in all the stuff ur saying and being raised by the internet and i cant even make friends in fandom it gets to a point where yeah , i cant do the lonely thing all my life either. solidarity. and an ear if u need it.