marzhall

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[–] marzhall@lemmy.world 16 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

If he suddenly really wants to do his laundry one morning, don't ask questions. (Wet dreams and embarassment being the context here.)

That's about all I can think of that's gendered, really.

I was ~9 when I got the talk from my Dad, and it was basic stuff about just the mechanics. It set things up so that, around 13, I went to him with questions about how I was feeling re: puberty. So even now it'll be helpful to do the talk and show that you're available as a resource.

In your case, your son likely has some idea from internet pornography and whatever he got in school, but it would still be helpful to go through the basics with him. I'd frame it as "I'm sure you know most of this, but i just want to make sure you know what's important." It might also be helpful to make clear that pornography is as much acting as TV is - don't set his expectations on it, it's people faking things for money.

Going over the importance of condom use also helpful at his age. Keep in mind, it's not necessarily about what he's going to use right away, but making sure he knows when he does need to know.

Then, I'd just be there for him and ask if he has any questions, and answer them frankly. Tell him he can come back later if he's unsure.

It's awkward and tough I'm sure, but it'll be a help not just now, but going forward. Good luck!

[–] marzhall@lemmy.world 4 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

Damned if I went looking for it and couldn't find it. I've since lent it to an intern, put it in a funny place, moved twice, wasn't anywhere I hoped.

In any case, I'll try to recreate what I remember of "What I Heard 1.0":

  • Daft Punk - One More Time
  • Kavinsky - Nightcall
  • Benny Bennassi - E.T remix
  • Madeon - Yelle Que Veux Tu remix
  • Eric Prydz - Call On Me
  • Lemaitre - Blue Shift
  • Digitalism - Blitz
  • Justice - D. A. N. C. E
  • Duck Sauce - Barbra Streisand but a remix that said "Adam Jensen" which I can't find :(
  • Digitalism - Circles
  • Daft Punk - Digital Love
  • Studio Killers - Ode to the Bouncer

YouTube playlist here!!

There is one missing track here as far as I remember - a Benny Bennasi bomb that I've looked for many times over the years, but haven't found. And I've listened to a lot of Benny Benassi :(. Hopefully the CD shows up one day!

Edit: added nightcall, remembered I had that on there!

[–] marzhall@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Geeze, I gotta make sure never to wear a Daft Punk shirt to bed, I'll wake up Around the World.

[–] marzhall@lemmy.world 13 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (3 children)

At a buddy's wedding. Said buddy had endured college years in my car with my one mix CD, which included the classic "Call On Me" that he'd heard so many times it had become a running joke - and which one night when he was out switching his laundry, he heard in the distance at surreal volume and realized that there was an apartment close to us that was blasting it, just as I happened to be walking from that direction (and jamming to it).

Well, of course, it started blasting at his wedding twelve years later, and we went mad - I gave him props, and he said he didn't ask for it, the DJ just picked the right jam. Was a great moment.

[–] marzhall@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

Every birthday card with your name in it is for you.

[–] marzhall@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

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Was surprised it took "regex", made me happy

[–] marzhall@lemmy.world 3 points 3 weeks ago

Since I saw a couple "read more"s - my trick, if you'd like one, is to put a book on the turlet. I open it up when I'm urinating, too - but usually I hit a point where I'm into the story enough where I start taking the book and reading it as my activity. But I've certainly taken months to get through a book just using bathroom time for nonfiction, less narrative stuff.

[–] marzhall@lemmy.world 3 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

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[–] marzhall@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I have a friend who, years later, still brings up when I said "K as In Cat." That poor customer

[–] marzhall@lemmy.world 10 points 1 month ago

Bussin on God, lil man

[–] marzhall@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

hey everypony

Cackled, I'll have to try and get this working on Linux

[–] marzhall@lemmy.world 30 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Feels especially well timed, what with the new presidential rugpull coin announcement

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