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It's right. But I'm proud of you!

Oh for fuck sake, every place that has gone to a four day work week has seen an_increase_ in productivity.

As always, it's about inflicting misery on others

Oof.

Well, at the least, he may still be coming to terms with how he feels about your transition. But, when I was twenty years younger, I was more self centered than I realized at the time. Society crams this idea down guys' throats that it's the only way to be a "man".

Sometimes relationships don't work out. We never want to see it, and unfortunately we often go into denial and insist on trying to force something after the "spark" has faded.

First, take a bit of time to self reflect; how do you really feel about all these things? About the relationship? It'll take courage and emotional fortitude. And I'm not saying you need to give up! Just, take the time to be honest with yourself first, otherwise you can't be honest with someone else.

Best of luck, and wish for you the courage and strength to find the right path!

Hmmm. Yeah, I'd recommend looking for ways to discuss the issue; be direct and blunt as you can, without malice though.

Also, try not to say "you made me feel"; frame it instead as "I find myself feeling this" type language.

And, incidentally, was never granted authority for this kinda crap. But the legislature has been neutralized, at least in terms of who's in charge.

Well, yes. It's a power game, believe it or not. Somewhat similar thing happened to me some years back with one of my "bros". In my case, I realized I was always the one to reach out to him; there were a lot of other red flags that showed me our friendship was not as solid as I thought, so eventually I forced myself to not be the one to contact him. It took three months for him to text me. I knew then the friendship had died. 😔

I'm waiting for the moth/beans crossover, myself

Ah, yeah, that might affect the landscape a bit!

Sorry to hear, though, it does sound like he's dissociating from you. Possibly unintentionally?

But anyway, I wish you luck. Most important issue is communication. Always is, but unfortunately lots of couples underestimate the importance. I hope you two can communicate honestly; and hope that helps you find a positive outcome for you both!

This sounds, well, toxic as fuck. I'm sorry, just being honest.

Well, my partner occasionally will. So that's at least one adventurous lady left out there sharing the fun just cause!

Laughable - as if that demented clown decides anything!

That's such a vulnerable and dangerous time for a mother. Just heartbreaking