LadyButterfly

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[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 1 points 1 week ago

That's a greater idea I'm doing that

[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 7 points 1 week ago

Thanks pretty bunny, as requested you're permanently banned. ❤️

[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 2 points 1 week ago

Sounds good! Glad it went well

[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 20 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I love that meme! I can see this one being real though

[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 6 points 1 week ago

I'm torn on this, I'm gonna go navy but I don't know what. I think I'll go for a navy polo t shirt with my chunky big silver locket. I have silver ballet pumps I'll wear it with and I'm gonna make my hair big

[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 4 points 1 week ago

That's a fantastic outfit 😍

[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 5 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Thanks doh I didn't know it's name

[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 2 points 1 week ago

Ahhh I didn't know thanks

[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 15 points 1 week ago (3 children)

I'm really sorry this has happened to you, it's shitty. You should be able to come into work without being sexually harassed. You're clothing says "NOT INTERESTED GO AWAY" and you're literally verbalising it. As always this isn't a misunderstanding, it's harassment and it's wrong.

Feeling bad for asserting ourselves is natural, women are taught to be polite and assertive women are bitches, arrogant etc. You're also neuro which adds an extra layer of difficulty.

What would you say to another woman? Would you say she should feel bad, or tell her she's doing right protecting herself? It's the latter and you deserve that same kindness. Always remember as well, what he's doing is literally unlawful!

The law didn't spring up overnight, people pushed for it cos there was a need. Courts, politicians and practitioners had to agree that it was wrong, pass the law and make it fact. That's a lot of work in a male dominated system, but still it was seen as wrong.

I'm a DA outreach worker and I reckon although you're safe, he's a domestic abuse perp. Its impossible for him to just not know this is bothering you, itll be obvious from your reaction. The obsession with sex, the refusal to accept a no, the blatantly ,making you uncomfortable... it's red flags. You really don't need to feel bad about saying no to a man that could hurt you if you got involved with him.

Overall, you really deserve better than this and you've got an army of sisters here backing you up.

[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 7 points 1 week ago

This is horribly frustrating mate. And thanks for what you do!

[–] LadyButterfly@lazysoci.al 4 points 1 week ago

Literally nothing would surprise me about him. Well, nothing bad.

 

I just don't have the record button at all! I've tried phone, tablet, laptop none show an option, not even greyed out. I just tried googling for 30 minutes and I couldn't find the settings bits suggested to me!

Sorry for being useless but I'm old and neurodiverse so this really ain't easy

 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Women are often really hard on ourselves and it's really understandable. Society expects a lot of us, and women are seen badly for seeing themselves well.

Let's think positive! What's your favourite thing about you?

 

Self care is important, it's part of how we take control of our own mental health. How are you going to practice it this weekend?

 
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