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cross-posted from: https://lemmy.world/post/33704049

Wanted to add, "Fuck Cars!!"

Car payments for decades of one's life are not the way to go.

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[–] flamingo_pinyata@sopuli.xyz 41 points 1 week ago (3 children)

I remember talking with some Americans a few years ago, they worked in the tech industry, so definitely on the upper side of the income range. And even they said they were feeling the crunch around 2022-2023. I can only imagine how it felt for the regular people.

Quite the contrast with the official numbers which claimed the American economy is growing. Let's just say that the election outcome was not surprising.

[–] Zizzy@lemmy.blahaj.zone 34 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Well the rich are gaining obscene amounts of money. So many of the large companies are pulling in record profits. So in that sense, the american economy is growing. The peoblem is theyre squeezing the rest of us for that.

[–] sunzu2@thebrainbin.org 20 points 1 week ago (1 children)

60% of Americans living pay check to pay check for whatever reason. In 2008 this number was 40%.

There is no way to tell why this is happening. 🤡

[–] sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Its actually up to 68% now.

[–] Pulsar@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Article:

https://www.financialexpress.com/world-news/us-news/living-pay-cheque-to-pay-cheque-you-are-not-alone-68-of-americans-are-too/3923390/

Source Study:

https://www.pymnts.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/PYMNTS-New-Reality-Check-February-March-2024.pdf

Oh hey, Forbes says nearly 72% of those living paycheck to paycheck have less than $2,000 in savings!

https://www.forbes.com/advisor/banking/living-paycheck-to-paycheck-statistics-2024/

Yeah, this is what an economic collapse looks like, Great Depression 2.0, hold onto your butt, and good luck.

EDIT:

We also have a massive negative net worth problem.

Negative net worth means you have more debt than assets.

Because this is difficult to measure accurately, unless you are a credit bureau....we've got anywhere between 1 in 10 and 1 in 3 Americans with more debt than assets, ie, they are de facto debt slaves.

https://www.creditkarma.com/about/commentary/americans-have-a-net-worth-problem-and-its-not-positive

https://www.nasdaq.com/articles/whats-your-net-worth-25-of-americans-say-theirs-is-%240-or-less

https://www.aspeninstitute.org/blog-posts/thirteen-million-us-households-have-negative-net-worth-will-they-ever-move-from-debt-to-wealth/

These are all from 2 or 3 years ago, I imagine its now closer to 1 in 3 than 1 in 10.

[–] TheBat@lemmy.world 21 points 1 week ago

Every time you hear about 'the economy', replace it with 'rich people yacht money'.

And it only works when 'the economy' is strong, rising, booming, zooming, etc.

[–] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Quite the contrast with the official numbers which claimed the American economy is growing. Let’s just say that the election outcome was not surprising.

Between that and Biden refusing to take action regarding Gaza, the election was forfeited in 2023.

[–] Blue_Morpho@lemmy.world 16 points 1 week ago (5 children)

Biden refusing to take action regarding Gaza, the election was forfeited in 2023.

Which is bizarre because Trump promised the extermination of all Palestinians.

"Don't vote for Biden because he won't stop genocide. Let Trump win because he promised to help genocide."

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[–] mrgoosmoos@lemmy.ca 24 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

$150k household income is not enough to afford a house, middle class standard of living, children, and retirement savings since you don't have a pension. at least in my area.

it'll get you lower middle class, maybe.

I'm not saying these people should be having money issues, they need to budget appropriately. but what used to be possible 20 years ago just isn't now, you need to choose one big thing to drop, whether that's a detached house, children, expensive hobbies, trips, etc

there's too much shifting of the goal posts for what middle class is, I think it has slipped too far downwards

[–] Hazor@lemmy.world 25 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (5 children)

Imo the entire concept of the middle class should be abandoned as capitalist propaganda. There's the rich and there's the working class. Anything else is a distraction to keep us from focusing on the rich stealing from the workers. Bezos owns a $500,000,000 yacht while thousands of his employees rely on government assistance programs which are funded by taxes he doesn't even pay.

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[–] possumparty@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

children? when we've hit the climate crisis tipping point? no thanks, i'd rather not bring people into this world who are going to die a painful death from a climate related catastrophe.

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[–] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 20 points 1 week ago (7 children)

Well that's just living beyond your means. We really need to teach financial responsibility in schools. But we won't, because then people might liberate themselves from bondage and then who'd work all the service jobs that white collar types want to abuse?

[–] sp3ctr4l@lemmy.dbzer0.com 16 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Here's how America "works":

Fuck you, there is barely any public transportation, and anyone who uses it or some non personal csr transist system is literally hated by most of society.

Oh and of course, cost of housing goes up exponentially as you try to live closer to where jobs actually exist.

Also, cars are all wildly unaffordable, and most places won't even consider hiring you if you don't have one.

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[–] taiyang@lemmy.world 19 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I qualified for a needs based preschool for the kid. The cutoff was 11k a month. They consider anything less to be struggling. It seemed laughably high, but it must be based on what they've surveyed.

Credit cards and car payments must be part of that. We have neither type of debt and get by with a fraction of that need cap! But the average car I see around here is either a new F150 pickup or a Dodge Charger, neither of which come cheap.

[–] LodeMike@lemmy.today 10 points 1 week ago (1 children)

120k per year is like, 80th percentile in the US.

[–] taiyang@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago

Yeah, this is California in particular and I think it's the median income.

[–] Formfiller@lemmy.world 17 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

What this article fails to mention is that all houses within 2hrs of the San Francisco Bay Area are close to a million dollars plus at least 1k a month in property taxes. With insufficient public transportation cars are a necessity

[–] outhouseperilous@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Yeah public transit in the bay area is famously trash. You just need one more lane.

Move to sacramento and spend six hours each morning on the commute so you dont have to use amtrak like some cucked little bitch who likes to sleep and read.

[–] psx_crab@lemmy.zip 14 points 1 week ago

About 38% of all new jobs created in the five years before the pandemic paid above-average wages, VantageScore's data shows. But this year that share has fallen to 7%, signaling that companies are creating fewer white-collar positions. That poses a challenge to higher-income Americans who suffer a job loss because it may be tougher to find new employment than in previous years.

I feels like this is very important as it actually the reason why they're struggling on repayment, because technically they aren't making 150k per year but 0 per year.

But the financial management criticism still sound.

[–] sevan@lemmy.ca 13 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I was curious what this might look like, so I ran some numbers. It would be easy to hit this in a high cost of living area where rent will easily run 5-6k per month, but what about a medium cost of living place? I assumed a family of 4 with both parents working for 75k each and a 20% total tax rate (FICA, federal, state). All of this is based on what I know of typical cost of living items in the US.

After Tax Income (monthly) 10000

Housing 2500 Child care 1500 2 Car Payments (25k each) 1000 Groceries 800 Medical (incl. insurance) 800 401k (6% deduction) 750 2 Student Loans (30k each) 700 Utilities 400 Auto Insurance 300 Total Core Expenses 8750 Leftover for Discretionary 1250

So, you'd have 1250 per month to cover clothing, auto fuel, dining out, pets, fun money, subscriptions, activities for the kids, gifts, etc. You could easily run that to zero or below every month.

Now, there may be some room to cut in this budget, like not funding your retirement and giving up your 401k match or living in a much smaller home. But I would also say some of these numbers are very generous. Rent could be over 3k, most people don't have a 25k car loan, if you own your home you can get hit with random major repair costs, and probably most parents would laugh at my estimated child care cost.

I think a key takeaway here is that kids are really expensive. Aside from the child care costs, most people with kids will want a little more living space than is doable in an apartment and kids go through food and clothes like crazy. You could probably chop at least 2-3k per month off this budget if it was a couple living in an apartment closer into the city core, with shorter commutes and maybe even options for public transit, biking, or walking.

[–] Dozzi92@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Childcare is closer to 1500 per child, FYI, at least in Jersey.

[–] FenrirIII@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

It's $500/week/child near me.

[–] Dozzi92@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago

I have friends who quit working. Two kids in daycare, you got a clear 30k take-home to make it work, and if you're barely making it work with that, on top of killing yourself, that income stream just doesn't make sense. It's dumb.

I had a friend who was the director of a YMCA daycare, and I have no idea how they kept functioning. I crunched numbers and they barely had enough to pay their teachers. She made jack shit. It was crazy. And we still paid a fortune to go there.

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[–] tawsi@sopuli.xyz 12 points 1 week ago (4 children)

POV: You’re a USian on disability benefits who is just assumed to be able to survive on 12k a year whilst being literally disabled and unable to do most things healthy people can. And now people with 150k a year, 10 times my income, are complaining. 👁️👄👁️

[–] rektdeckard@lemmy.world 13 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

There's room for all of us to be angry. I think it's reasonable to complain if you work 50 hours a week for that income, have to be away from your family, who also need to be housed and clothed and to eat and care for their health, and all you have is scraps left over and aren't saving much, if any.

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[–] refract@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 1 week ago (2 children)

oh no. are those poor people ok? they cant budget 150k? i feel really bad for them. is there perhaps a venmo? I make less than 50k, but gosh, i didnt realize they had it so hard.

[–] seejur@lemmy.world 14 points 1 week ago

Amazing. Class war between poor and middleclass while billionaires laugh all the way to their private jet

[–] janus2@lemmy.zip 7 points 1 week ago

if you make $150k but live in a HCOL area and have kids, and perhaps one or two expensive medical conditions in the family, maybe some student loan debt and a mortgage, congrats you're paycheck to paycheck

I literally know someone like this.

It's not about the numbers. Working class is working class.

[–] Cocopanda@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago

Only 3 718$ payments left on my car and I paid off 4/5 credit cards. Turned them all off to. Just being slow with my Best Buy credit card.

[–] Mac@mander.xyz 8 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Not to detract from the statement being made but many people will sign away all their money regardless of their income.

[–] Dozzi92@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago

Yeah, this seems like part "things are bad" and part "I'm bad with money."

[–] Taleya@aussie.zone 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

More income means more spendy spend

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[–] sunzu2@thebrainbin.org 8 points 1 week ago (15 children)

If a median new car is 50k and used car is 30k that's a out 1k or 600 per month note alone.

Insurance is 100-200 per month plus gas and maintenance prolly another 200-300 per month so for a single adult to "drive with dignity" it costs 1k to start

Now double it for a couple and household is 2k on vehicles alone.

Makes me wonder if high school kids still get cars like people did pre covid lol

This cost structure doesn't make sense. When suburban family has to run a fleet of 3-4 cars

[–] Witchfire@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (4 children)

Insurance is way more than $100-200 a month. For my partner and I (both women with fairly clean histories since we don't drive much) to insure a 2020 Fit, it was about $2500 for 6 months. That was the cheapest we could find for basic coverage.

We ended up fleeing to Canada and importing the car. Insurance costs went down to almost 1/3 of that, a little under $2k for the year

I own and fully paid off the car fwiw

Edit: exact amount was $2493.00, after discounts

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[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

We don't make this much but do make enough it seems like we ought to be easily comfortable (two good salaries, cars paid off) but -

How did we get here? Nobody comes out the gate making that much, we each started out making little to nothing, then went to school, had kids, got school debt and a credit card for the monthly deficit, paid off the school debt, the credit card still paying on so long after. It's still the deficit debt, for emergency situations that come up. I funded HSA so those are not usually medical now but dogs, car repairs, house repairs. We are making progress but it's dead expensive and slow to do so.

Basically those people making so much and credit card debt may be paying off their path to making so much.

And I know better than to complain, having been in much worse situations.

[–] janus2@lemmy.zip 5 points 1 week ago

ITT: the working class shitting on each other just like the billionaires intended

[–] blarghly@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago (3 children)

I know this is going to go against the "everything is terrible" narrative. But unpopular opinion - these people are just dumb. If you are making 150k per year and struggling to pay your bills, then that is your own fault. Live somewhere cheaper. Buy a cheaper car and learn to do your own repairs and maintenance. Cook your own food. Dont rack up credit card debt. And dont have kids if you can't afford them.

I'm sure some people in the comments will all be like "no, no, you dont understand - it's impossible to save money even at $150k incomes!" Bullshit! There are people who manage to get by on minimum wage. Or on $50k per year. Or hell, on $100k per year. I managed to retire at 31 and never broke the six figure mark. Now, I'm a cheap bastard and basically dedicated my life for 8 years to giving my cubical the middle finger - but if it is possible for me to do that, then yes, it is completely possible for people making $150k to not go deep into debt. It is absurd that I have to not only say this, but defend it against delusional doomers who just want to say that literally everything is hopeless and no one can ever get ahead.

Yeah, no. You know all the brand spanking new lifted pavement-princess pickups you see everywhere? Those were bought on credit. You know how DoorDash and McDonalds continue being profitable despite being absurdly expensive these days? They can do that because people keep paying them! Or the shopping malls that continue churning out shit fast fashion clothing that will disintegrate in 6 hours? Lots of them are packed on the weekends!

Straight up: outside of some very unusual circumstances, if you are bringing in $150k and still can't keep up with your bills, You. Are. A. Dumbass.

[–] Blue_Morpho@lemmy.world 23 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

I agree except the reason they are making $150k is because they aren't living someplace cheaper. Move to cheap rural and there's no job. Companies are forcing back to office even when it makes no sense.

[–] blarghly@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago

Our housing shortage is a serious issue, and we should work on resolving it.

But at the same time, this is still not a real reason. After all, many people live in these same places with lower wages and still don't go into debt.

Again, there are certainly people out there for whom it truly is not their fault. Like, they're underwater on a house they bought in SF when prices were at their highest and have to stay there to take care of their ailing mother who can only see one specific doctor in the whole country - or whatever. And while these cases are tragic, they are not the majority.

The majority of these cases are going to be people who made a conscious choice to live beyond their means, who are unwilling to tighten their belts and give up their luxurious lifestyles. Yes, there are outliers. But most of these people are, like, suburban moms working as project managers in Omaha who are driving their new Buicks to Starbucks every morning. Sorry, but I don't have sympathy for these people. Buy a used Toyota and brew your own coffee, it's not that hard!

[–] PedestrianError@towns.gay 22 points 1 week ago (4 children)

@blarghly @miss_demeanour This kind of animosity within the working classes (including the relatively privileged middle class) is exactly what the oligarchs want. If you're busy casting aspersions at couples earning $75k each in New York City who probably don't own a car much less a pavement princess and are struggling to
keep up with the bills their parents were easily able to afford, you're looking away from how a handful of billionaires are dismantling the country and trashing the planet.

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[–] sunzu2@thebrainbin.org 4 points 1 week ago (21 children)

managed to retire at 31 and never broke the six figure mark.

How does the math om that look like

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