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[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

hi, does anyone wanna make the mega in the upcoming weeks? if so, reply to this post and i'll add you to the list!

the list as it stands:

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[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 5 points 2 hours ago (2 children)

so our friend called the police on us, that was fun

luckily we scored a nat 20 perception check and then two nat 20 charisma checks and everything is fine (and yes we are fine too it was very uncalled for)

we are once again solidified in our lesbianism, men is too headache

[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 2 points 16 minutes ago

That sounds terrifying, hope you're okay

Friends should not call the cops on each other

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 5 points 2 hours ago

Not as bad as the cops but I had to talk my way out of the ER once, definitely feels like rolling a nat 20

I am glad you're okay cat-trans

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 7 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

random trans core memory that just popped back into my head out of nowhere

i remember laying in bed very late one night in my late teens having just admit to myself that i actually did like the idea of wearing women's clothing and i was freaked the fuck out because i had zero idea what on earth to do with this information other than to sleep on it because there was nothing i could do about it at 11 pm so I decided to sleep on it. I then woke up and promptly forgot about it for years and continued to be cis for some reason

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 3 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

I have a memory of being like 6 or 7 doing a lucky dip at a school fete. There was a blue boys lucky dip and a pink girls one. A girl I knew did the pink and got a fantastic giant pretend emerald ring and I got a stupid little red plastic biplane (wasn't even cool). I remember having a tantrum and being so mad I threw it on the ground and stomped it breaking it.

Wonder why that stuck in my memory somehow and I can barely remember anything else from that time.

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 8 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

I fucking love ramen yum yum

I love fish seafood taste, dried seaweed is such a great umami booster and I love the taste!

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 7 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Ramen? πŸ€”
Raw men? πŸ€”

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 5 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

walter-yell Terminal, NO! Consuming men raw is not recommended by medical professionals!

[–] nemmybun@hexbear.net 4 points 5 hours ago

My hair kinda sucks right now, style-wise. There's not much I can do until my transplant area grows out except like get curtain bangs coming from above my hairline to hide the short hair. There's a style I wanted to try but I can't even think about for at least a whole year from now, probably longer

i read more theory doggirl-smart i swear i will understand hegel/phenomenology of the spirit at some point but it feels illusory. i think i understand terms or ideas for a brief second and then it's gone and i put the book down again.

I really liked Capitalist Realism tho so i'm probably going to try to find more of Fischer's books.

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 5 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago)

Used to sign my emails "warm regards" or "kind regards", since transitioning it's "warmest regards" or "kindest regards", because you better believe those regards are kinder and warmer than when I thought I was a sad man.

I keep thinking about Gale in breaking bad brewing the perfect coffee to take out the bitter taste with this advanced chemistry equipment and knowledge

The bitterness of coffee is kind of the point. Im not a "I want coffee flavored coffee damn it" style person, but I do like black coffee and I do like milk sugar lattes. When I drink a black coffee, the bitterness, the tannins, its all part of the point. Gale couldnt handle even the little bit of roughness in coffee, he was not going to last in the drug business. And he second Gus put him in finally, he fucking got merced so hard so quickly and he didnt even do anything wrong. Also, it was weird to see him in the wire when I saw it later lol

[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 11 points 8 hours ago (3 children)

when you arent okay and your friends can tell you arent okay and they ask if youre okay but you cant talk to them about it because you dont want to bother them but then they get worried about you and then you feel bad for worrying them and then feel like youre bothering them so cant talk to them about it which then worries them more and.....

not that we would know anything about that or anything :3

[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 7 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

so anyway our friend called the police on us

hfkdjsnasnnrfkjsnsndf aaaaaaaa

pain

[–] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 3 points 56 minutes ago (1 children)
[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 2 points 44 minutes ago

a very unreasonable one yeah

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 11 points 9 hours ago (2 children)

In our training we're gonna be having a sub come in on friday, classmates were like "Wmill you should be the sub" soviet-bashful took me a bit to realize what they were talking about ngl I was just thinking how'd they know meow-tableflip

[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 13 points 8 hours ago (2 children)

We can all tell who the subs are

[–] buh@hexbear.net 10 points 8 hours ago (1 children)
[–] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 8 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Well, theyre usually a new face mid year and it helps that they always announce there's gonna be a substitute teacher πŸ˜‡

What'd you think I meant~

[–] buh@hexbear.net 8 points 7 hours ago

Uhhhh nothing~ πŸ₯ΊπŸ‘‰πŸ‘ˆ

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 7 points 8 hours ago

This what I get for apologizing a lot and not being so eager to throw down like the rest of them.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 9 points 8 hours ago (2 children)

People at work are finally starting to talk to me a bit. At first everyone kinda ignored me. Also (and don't ruin this for me) women complaining to me about men being creepy/pushy always feels nice, idk it feels kinda dumb now that I'm typing it out but that kind of thing has always felt like girl talk to me. Obviously sucks that men be that way,

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 9 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Nah it's legit, being excluded from being considered a man is nice, and often shortly comes before inclusion and being considered a woman.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 3 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Okay cool, I thought so but was a bit worried I was making a fuss about nothing. That'd be nice, if a bit optimistic 😒

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 4 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Early in this year I was talking to a friend who is a trans woman (and knew I was non binary then) and the topic of Neil Gaiman came up, she made a comment like "why are men like that?" and it was clear I was intentionally excluded from being considered a man. And it felt really good and was probably one of number of factors that made it finally click that I was a woman.

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 4 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago) (1 children)

Sorry was just feeling negative about actually being seen as a woman when I socially transition/actually doing that at this job. I don't feel like I'll be in a good place to be public about it for a while :/

[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 3 points 5 hours ago

No need to be sorry. I get it. I had to socially transition almost immediately being an extremely minor public figure, instead of the timeline I might have wanted. And it's been a lot of highs and lows.

We all believe in you.

[–] Beetle@hexbear.net 8 points 8 hours ago

Men… bringing women together by simply being godawful

[–] Wmill@hexbear.net 7 points 8 hours ago

Sonic Adventure is fr comfort gaming for me, I've no beer no money just a yt vid of the ost made in the style of a old vhs tape. One day I'll get back into sonic gaming but mean time gonna kick back and relax with the time I got comfy-cool

[–] lilypad@hexbear.net 9 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Ahhhh i hate canceled plans its so upsetting when the schedule is disrupted ahhhhhh!!!! Even when its me disrupting the schedule its really upsetting ahhhhh!!!!

[–] 0x2640@hexbear.net 7 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

sigh real doggirl-gloom and we are always the ones to disrupt the schedule cuz disability so its like simultaneously hating the schedule being disrupted while also feeling bad for disrupting the schedule doggirl-tears

[–] lilypad@hexbear.net 7 points 8 hours ago

Ugh ikr!? Like, im slowly accepting that im probably autistic, and viewing this through that lens. And even when im the one disrupting the schedule its really upsetting and i need an hour or two to calm down, and it totally throws the rest of my day off and fucks up my mood and sometimes continues into the next day. And here it was someone else disrupting the schedule and like its ok they have needs that should be respected but also theres a part of me thats just screammmmmmiiiinnnggggg inside, cause i was looking forward to group time and really need to be around people who get me right now (and also cause ttrpgs are super fun) but also like fuckfuckfuckfuckfuck my entire evening and the only structure to my day today has been disrupteddddd and it suuuccckkkksssss.

[–] Edie@hexbear.net 5 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

What was the name of the gay underwater communism literature?

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 5 points 8 hours ago

Unjust Depths

[–] TheSpectreOfGay@hexbear.net 8 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

starting hrt technically. not the fun gender kind tho it's just supposed to give me periods which i just didnt get before. which was kinda gender affirming ngl but im kinda sick of randomly bleeding and rly dark body hair kitty-birthday-sad

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 5 points 8 hours ago

Critical support to making your bleeding timely fidel-salute-big

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