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so who is playin deltarune? i finished it through chapter 4 and now i'm gonna get both types of run in the can so i can pretend i'm not back to waiting a year for the next part. how bout those new secret bosses? how bout that damn

spoilerroaring knight?

it's nice to have parts of this game be as hard as sands undertale.

also, susie is my favorite, she's precious, everyone drop your favorite susie moments in the comments


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[–] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 1 points 6 days ago

Between transphobic in-laws, my broken phone screen, the Iran-Israel War, and general chumpfuckery, this has been a cromulent fuckcrustable of a day. Xia needs drinky.

[–] Z_Poster365@hexbear.net 1 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Death to Israel

They have β€œpreemptively” attacked Iran. Join the news mega for updates

[–] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 1 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Did Iran say they would do anything in response to this kind of attack before? I can't remember. Will go look at the thread too though o7

[–] SevenSkalls@hexbear.net 1 points 5 days ago

Beware. It's pretty doomer πŸ˜”

[–] musicenjoyer@hexbear.net 1 points 6 days ago

bloom: in a t4t relationship. i feel amazing , she makes me so happy flag-pan-pride flag-agender-pride lets-fucking-go

doom TW dysphoria

spoileri hate how I look, not even a big shirt hides everything. want to go on t but it's 30 $ from RxAisle. There's no reason to wait but I'm so scared.

[–] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 1 points 6 days ago

padded sports bra my beloved dysphoria destroyer

[–] nemmybun@hexbear.net 1 points 6 days ago

So many basic femme things I'm behind on. Not only have I been slacking on voice training, but I've also never learned how to do that thing where you flip in the air and land on an enemy's shoulders and snap their necks with your thighs. What have I been doing all this time

[–] Bolshechick@hexbear.net 1 points 6 days ago

My tits are actually pretty big now, I'm just so tall and my ribcage is so big and stuff that I feel like they still look pretty small

[–] Tommasi@hexbear.net 0 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I got over one of my big make-up fears and got a deep red lipstick doggirl-happy

Was very careful to get something that matches my skin tone so I don't look like bozo the clown when putting it on. The color is gorgeous, but it's definitely a bit overpowering. Once I put it on the rest of my make-up looked really bland, it almost didn't look like I was wearing any blush at all despite using quite a bit. I basically had to use either an extra layer, or a more intense color, for most of everything else to compensate, and then it looked great.

Very happy with it, but will probably save it for weekends or special occassions due to the extra work it takes to make it look nice.

[–] inTheShadowOf@hexbear.net 0 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

That's great! :3 I find lipstick to be the one thing so overwhelmingly intimidating to figure out. How did you pick yours?

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[–] thirstyskyline@hexbear.net 0 points 6 days ago (2 children)

hi everyonee

trying to post shit for the billionth time cause im shy and dead inside and trying to externalize and stop lurking

i am transfem but not on estrogen and i hate admitting that, i want to hopefully get on DIY in a good bit but that's another issue for me because of various factors ill probably mention later on, tldr distrust in myself, insecure about some other things

I am a ML and love my politics, although the past year has been rough on me and I, dont know, feel like I have lost my "spark". Feel out of life, trying to learn to be a person again, which is why I lurk here so much and read about how others do, feels like insight for me

other things about me, computer nerd, very sociable but awkward, have a loving gf that i love a lot

i find it hard to bond with people cause mostly everyone else has better things to do but id love to meet people i get along with on here (i talk too much if prompted)

also im very prone to selfhating and dysphoria like 80% of the time so yay

[–] Des@hexbear.net 1 points 6 days ago

i am transfem but not on estrogen and i hate admitting that

i really get this feeling. also factors I can't readily discuss and makes me feel like a fraud sometimes. but know you aren't, and I'm not

i've posted before that i'm in a similar boat as you. i even got some DIY (which i later gave away to a former co-worker in case she gets cut off, since she's terrified of ordering it)

you're transfemme even if you never put a drop of estrogen in you. I've found myself surprisingly contented just being socially transitioned with my partner and a few close friends (and in spaces like here)

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 0 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

Hi,

I'm transfem and also not on HRT :]

I have a wife that I love a lot :3

also im very prone to selfhating and dysphoria like 80% of the time so yay

You'll fit in here~

[–] thirstyskyline@hexbear.net 0 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I want to get on HRT eventually I hope once I move out, but will see, I'm like still visibly gender trangressive and I get shit for that lol but I really would want HRT probably I think

sex, hrtI hope HRT just fucks up my libido cause I just hate the T libido, although this is probably me selfhating than dysphoric, dunno, always disliked it and found it "disgusting" and forceful on my partner, but I probably shouldnt view HRT as a means to this. I do find my current body repulsive but I dont know if the self hate stems from dysphoria or the dysphoria comes from self hate lmao

I had a discussion a bit ago with my partner about this and she kinda told me she felt objectified by me in certain instances as I'm just overwhelming with T libido and I'm trying not to self hate about it but... Dunno, sucks.

I want to qualitatively achieve a better point in life but I dont feel like "deserving of it" at all and idk brain pep talk is bad, as usual

Sapping my energy by debating myself about selfhate moment

Thank you for the welcome though ^^ i talk a lot sorry lol

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 0 points 6 days ago (1 children)

You're pent up because you have been lurking instead of posting catgirl-happy

Stick around and I'm sure everyone here will agree you "deserve" to have good things~

[–] thirstyskyline@hexbear.net 1 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I gaslight myself into thinking I:

  1. dont have things to say
  2. I bother others
  3. why would anyone read my shitty thibgs
[–] sodium_nitride@hexbear.net 0 points 6 days ago (1 children)

dont have things to say

You will have many things to talk about if you just look at the random dumb incidents in your life.

[–] thirstyskyline@hexbear.net 1 points 6 days ago

..I guess there is the apprehension that I dont want to get "judged" in a negative sense, even if silly and if people are supportive

[–] Hestia@hexbear.net 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Most of the way through chapter 2. Susie is pretty great, I loved having to warn the enemies of how psychopathic she was in the beginning

[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 1 points 1 week ago

she's a genius and a gem

[–] other_platypus@hexbear.net 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

oh god do I have to skip this entire thread this week to avoid spoilers?

Edit: yes

[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 1 points 1 week ago

most people are marking them ub

[–] Thallo@hexbear.net 1 points 1 week ago

I haven't played deltarune since chapter 1, but I sure like Susie.

One of my favorite emojis, too susie-laugh

[–] Moss@hexbear.net 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

chapter 4 is so much fun oh my god the old man? brilliant, i love him

also

spoilerim fighting the roaring knight on the weird route currently and i would say this is way harder than genocide sans. at least with sans its possible to tell what you were supposed to do

[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

spoilerdark world gerson kind of sheds more light on undertale gerson knowing the tricks of surviving by not fighting in undertale. honestly i think even in the first universe we saw he is a tactical genius, albeit too old to actually put up any resistance. it makes me wonder what he was like in his prime

chapter 3 spoilerIT CHANGES??? I KNEW IT... at least for the mercy version there's a set sequence of attacks they do and you can plan for them

[–] Moss@hexbear.net 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

spoilerThe knights attacks are the same, but they happen so damn fast that it's nearly impossible to react to some of them. There's one in particular where fly through most of the screen and I truly have no idea how you're supposed to dodge them.

[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

spoilerthe sword tunnel? for that one you unfocus your eyes and try to see everything so you can see whether to go up or down. the second sword pattern has you basically going to the wall and moving along the edges of the box

[–] Moss@hexbear.net 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

spoilerokay i finally beat it! that swords tunnel is the one i was struggling with. it turns out you just need to focus on keeping susie alive and doing damage with rude buster and holding the shadow mantle. revive kris or ralsei when you need to, then use their actions to heal susie. still it is easily harder than sans imo

[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 1 points 1 week ago

spoileroh absolutely. i'm pretty sure that final attack is a snowgrave which was terrifying the first time i saw it

[–] Lurkerino@hexbear.net 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I love it, undertale and deltarune even unfinished are games that I hold close to my heart

Undertale was really special for me, my abusive parents were making me depressed and the game filled me with determination to continue until I could run away from home

[–] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 1 points 1 week ago

i agree, there's something really unique about the universe and all the characters that makes it feel unlike most games i've played recently

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