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so who is playin deltarune? i finished it through chapter 4 and now i'm gonna get both types of run in the can so i can pretend i'm not back to waiting a year for the next part. how bout those new secret bosses? how bout that damn

spoilerroaring knight?

it's nice to have parts of this game be as hard as sands undertale.

also, susie is my favorite, she's precious, everyone drop your favorite susie moments in the comments


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[โ€“] gaystyleJoker@hexbear.net 1 points 5 days ago

hi, does anyone wanna make the mega in the upcoming weeks? if so, reply to this post and i'll add you to the list!

the list as it stands:

oscardejarjayes* (6/16 - 6/22)
GayTuckerCarlson* (6/23 - 6/29)
Eco* (6/30 - 7/6)
Disaster_of_Passion (7/7 - 7/13)
sodium_nitride (7/14 - 7/20)
peanutbuttercupola* (7/21 - 7/27)
BountifulEggnog* (7/28 - 8/3)    

Seryph (8/11 - 8/17)

โ€‹ * after name denotes someone who has posted before and will be skipped by first-time posters

[โ€“] KrupskayaPraxis@lemmygrad.ml 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

lonelyMy loneliness is eating me away from the inside. It's been so long since I was intimate with someone.

[โ€“] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 5 points 1 day ago

I know what it's like, it sucks. I'm sorry you're dealing with that. I hope you can find someone to be close to soon. care

[โ€“] thirstyskyline@hexbear.net 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

ventmy partner just had a breakdown in public about getting her period and being dysphoric+embarassed about it as she had nothing to cover herself with, i offered to call with her as i wasnt with her, she agreed and i was trying to be empathic and get her out of that but idk god it fucking felt like i had fuck all empathy tbh i was trying and i do have empathy it just i dont know i feel broken i was worried out of my mind and i kinda didnt know how to react and my partner told me to shut the fuck up cause it doesnt help and it feels like i dont give a shit and i was like fuck; idk through a phone it's so hard to convey emotion and meaning to words, instead of that I sounded like I was dismissing her, I majorly fucked up I wish I knew how to handle people better instead of proceeding like I did right now

really feeling useless and asking what the fuck is wrong with me for proceeding like this, I should have had things to say and calm someone down than 'yea' and 'im sorry' and platitudes but I felt useless being so far away, fuck and I kinda locked up cause usually when I comfort anyone it's irl not over a call ahhh fuck

ventam I really like this checked out dissociated husk so much I cant even help someone close to me? What the fuck is wrong with me, genuienly. My god. Fuck.

[โ€“] 0x2640@hexbear.net 11 points 2 days ago (4 children)
[โ€“] Seryph@lemmygrad.ml 6 points 1 day ago

Marisa ๐Ÿ’œ Women

[โ€“] Thallo@hexbear.net 6 points 2 days ago

Me every moment of every day

[โ€“] VibeCoder@hexbear.net 11 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Are dysphoria naps a thing?

[โ€“] Thallo@hexbear.net 9 points 2 days ago

Consciousness not working for you? Turn it off for a bit

[โ€“] buh@hexbear.net 3 points 1 day ago

maybe, but I feel like I've been having the opposite lately (dysphoria insomnia)

[โ€“] 0x2640@hexbear.net 8 points 2 days ago

dont see why not

[โ€“] Washburn@hexbear.net 17 points 2 days ago

I went to pride with my girlfriend this weekend and we had a great time! We met some folks from a trans org, and we're hoping to get involved in their like social/community aid nights :3

[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 15 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Accidentally started thinking this morning, how about we don't do that

[โ€“] LocalOaf@hexbear.net 8 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[โ€“] BountifulEggnog@hexbear.net 7 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

One of these days I'll finally quit this bad habit kitty-cri-potato

[โ€“] WIIHAPPYFEW@hexbear.net 7 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

before the new thread i just wanna make it clear that i'd break into the watergate hotel if susie asked me to, noelle and kris could be the howard hunt and gordon liddy equivalents

[โ€“] Kuori@hexbear.net 10 points 2 days ago (2 children)

healthcare woesfinally got healthcare again only to notice i'm missing a surgery appointment. gave 'em a call and "oh uh we're not scheduling for ffs anymore because we don't have anyone who does it". interesting! because the surgeon who was supposed to do it still works there. he's even still on the trans healthcare page of the website. but according to the person i spoke to, for the few months they've been working they haven't had anyone on staff doing ffs. gee i sure do wonder what happened thonk-trans

I'm not sure if I'm misreading this, but are the doctors literally just lying so they don't have to do gender affirming care?

[โ€“] awth13@hexbear.net 10 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

cis oopsieHad a surgeon go "sawwwy my plastic surgery license has just expired and I frogor to renew :(" on me. For orchiectomy.

[โ€“] Kuori@hexbear.net 9 points 2 days ago

happens all the time i'm sure!"aw fuck! i can't do brain surgery today, i forgot to update my scuba license!" fr though that is so insulting, i'm sorry that happened. i swear doctors really think we're dumb as dogshit and half as valuable

[โ€“] CDommunist@hexbear.net 9 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (4 children)

Im going to make today a good day! comfy

Journalposting below

[โ€“] CDommunist@hexbear.net 9 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (2 children)

Started the day off with some self care, exercise, and friday rice for brekky!

[โ€“] Boynomoder@hexbear.net 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[โ€“] CDommunist@hexbear.net 5 points 2 days ago

Everyday is friday when you have friday rice

[โ€“] 0x2640@hexbear.net 6 points 2 days ago

friday rice on a sunday? doggirl-shock

[โ€“] 0x2640@hexbear.net 6 points 2 days ago

yayayay you go girl doggirl-happy

[โ€“] CDommunist@hexbear.net 4 points 2 days ago

Ran some cardio, did my injection for the week, and now Im off to shave my whole body

[โ€“] CDommunist@hexbear.net 2 points 2 days ago

Ended the day with reading, voice training, and games with friends

[โ€“] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 14 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Im gonna miss working with children. They're so adorable, babies, toddlers, little kids, big kids, teens. Maybe Ill go back or focus on the peds population one day.

[โ€“] 0x2640@hexbear.net 4 points 2 days ago

tiny humans

[โ€“] EstraDoll@hexbear.net 19 points 3 days ago (2 children)

i still get dysphoric a lot

but come to think of it, it used to be way, way worse before transitioning

so that problem has gotten better for me, actually. this is weird to think about for me for some reason

I get less dysphoric now, but when it hits, it hits harder

[โ€“] XiaCobolt@hexbear.net 11 points 3 days ago

I used to get dysphoric, I mean I still do, but I used to, too.

[โ€“] Tommasi@hexbear.net 15 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Just woke up and my devious plan worked catgirl-smug

That's a big dopamine hit

[โ€“] buh@hexbear.net 8 points 2 days ago (1 children)

bit idea: guy whose kink is going to orgies and being ignored by everyone

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[โ€“] TerminalEncounter@hexbear.net 17 points 3 days ago (2 children)

I had a very sad dream about my old cat. She was in a puddle, mewing pathetically, sick maybe? Its just a dream but still, I cried

[โ€“] Wmill@hexbear.net 6 points 2 days ago

I'm sorry to hear the few times I dreamt of my cat Rosa had been when I felt I was losing my way and she'd show up to save me.

sad shit/similiar to what you wrotewe had to put her down because of her kidney failure last year, she just kept getting weaker and weaker her last days. We did manage to all be around her when it happened at least and we all grieved

Every time she appeared in my dreams other than the first time she was a tiger pretty much. The first time I dreamt of her I remember I had to carry her somewhere far away and I knew I had to prepare myself by becoming healthy. I those dreams gave me the motivation to go all in in looking after my health.

[โ€“] semioticbreakdown@hexbear.net 12 points 3 days ago (2 children)

have grown very tired of my typical pasta + lentils/chickpeas recipe so gonna have to find a different way to flavor it besides tomatoes. maybe pesto?

Also i think i've just grown super bored of the typical italian sofrito + tomato base + oregano/thyme/bay leaf because i use it for basically every meal cause it's cheap as hell and tasty. But I barely even taste it anymore. It's about time to rotate spices I think lol

[โ€“] awth13@hexbear.net 5 points 2 days ago

May I talk to you about our lord and saviour five spice powder

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