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[–] dustyData@lemmy.world 1 points 20 minutes ago

Go into teaching. I love to assist others in their learning voyage, I love science, research, classes. However, financial realities mean that I would be starving if I pursued that path. So I find fulfillment in adjacent activities in my current line of work. I would also have an electronics workshop, repairing computers and other electronics for fun.

[–] MissJinx@lemmy.world 4 points 1 hour ago

do you want a list?! I have adhd and 1.324 different hobbies and projects in different stages of completeness. If I had free time I would get 200 more hobies and start 200 more project without finishing the ones before lol

[–] FeelzGoodMan420@eviltoast.org 2 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

I would take classes for stuff that actually interests me. And spend more time on hobbies. It's pretty obvious to me honestly. I don't understand how people get depressed and bored when they retire. It actually makes no sense to me. It's super common too. People feel like they "have no purpose" and absolutely crumble in retirement. It blows my mind. I feel like those people are super fucking boring and have no interests.

[–] mrodri89@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 hour ago

I wish I could be a perpetual student attending college. And open a business that im passionate about.

[–] Almacca@aussie.zone 4 points 2 hours ago

Chill on the couch. Watch Youtube. Go for bike rides. Learn the ukulele and go busking for fun. Do papercraft. I was able to do this for about 5 years, and then I had to go back to work, just as I was really getting my creative juices going.

[–] T00l_shed@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

Metal, leather and wood working. Bee keeping and running a little shop

[–] arararagi@ani.social 4 points 2 hours ago

Would finally make my dream game.

[–] slingstone@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

Exercise to get healthy and work on my garden, to start. Then I'd handle any necessary projects for my home. Then I'd find causes to support by volunteering.

[–] brygphilomena@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 3 hours ago

I'd work on cars. And my house. It feels like I'm fighting entropy, I fix one thing and find 2 more problems in the process. But I know some of that is just the previous home owner doing a bunch of diy.

Learn to wood work and build furniture. I have a deep, deep loathing for flat pack furniture.

Garden. I'd love to have a proper garden.

Honestly. I'd just like to be rid of my anxiety over finances.

[–] Aggravationstation@feddit.uk 5 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

Work out, do DIY at home, volunteer at my local cat shelter and dedicate more time to making music, gaming and general computer fiddlin'. If it was literally just basic needs with no cash maybe host some services for people on a small scale or teach about self hosting for money to afford luxuries.

When the weather is good, be outside as much as possible. Do more long-distance, or even multi-day treks. Dick around in the woods more (survival skills for fun, learn more about identifying local plants and fungi, etc). Bring a book and some basic snacks, and hang out in public park space more often (we've got some beautiful spaces here). Basically just a lot more exploration, primarily on foot, bike, or skateboard depending on distance and energy level.

When the weather is crap, spend more time keeping my place in order and looking nice. Listen to music, read books, maybe try and get more deliberate about a writing habit. Pick a public indoor space of some kind and become a regular. Maybe volunteer.

Spend more time working on good habits to keep the energy level up for the above long term.

[–] Batmancer@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

Haha I like to be silly at work sometimes after I’ve already paid the big monthly expenses. I say, “I’m here to do two things help kids and pay bills, and I’m all outta bills.” I would continue to work in my field on a part time basis. Then I would make time for a few doctor appointments and start going to therapy again. I’d walk my dog at different parks more often. Hopefully id make more time with my friends and family assuming they have the same deal. I would want to be more involved with my community too.

[–] DamienGramatacus@lemmy.world 3 points 3 hours ago

Volunteer at a rescue centre to help the dogs and other animals

[–] redwattlebird@lemmings.world 1 points 2 hours ago

Make video games or digital interactive art pieces for VR

[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 4 points 3 hours ago

Make and restore furniture. Build shit. Garden. Read. Organize and fill out my media library. Learn programming and try to fix some of the problems I'm dealing with on Linux. Probably socialize more because I wouldn't be tired of dealing with people and stressed out from work all the time.

[–] conditional_soup@lemm.ee 1 points 2 hours ago

I'd be one of those old school naturalists and just, like, go live in a swamp for three years with one pair of clothes, a cot, a journal, and a pencil.

[–] FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world 2 points 3 hours ago

Exercise, drink wine, read more, and take tons of road trips.

[–] Goldholz@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 3 hours ago

Travel, learn culture science theologie languages and so much more, teach

[–] olafurp@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago

I'd spend more time playing guitar and chess and spend more time with my son.

[–] Rin@lemm.ee 1 points 2 hours ago

I'd make things like drones or robots or something.

[–] Kualdir 2 points 3 hours ago

Game (and probably stream myself doing so) a lot, get more exercise, volunteer a bit, probably contribute to open source projects a lot more

[–] Angry_Autist@lemmy.world 1 points 3 hours ago

Write sci fi novels and take care of stray cats

[–] MintyFresh@lemmy.world 1 points 3 hours ago

I would build affordable housing.

[–] Wahots@pawb.social 5 points 5 hours ago

I'd love to go back to school, not for better grades, but purely for learning. There are some interesting af fields out there!

[–] Delphia@lemmy.world 4 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

If I were rich Id open a "Nerd-pub" board games, tabletop games, arcade machines, pool tables, pinball machines...

If I were just "doing ok" id probably start a youtube channel buying really cheap cars of FB marketplace and just reviewing how much of a piece of shit I've bought this month.

[–] dustyData@lemmy.world 1 points 20 minutes ago
[–] daniskarma@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago)

House in the middle of the woods, with internet connection. It's the weird eremite techno wizard life for me.

Exactly what I am already doing. imagineering my top rated VR Theme Park and explore SE Asia and other parts of the world. Love both.

[–] Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 6 hours ago

Still work but at a reduced rate and else I would actually think about volunteering or improving my living conditions like a garden or tech at gome :)

[–] adp1314@lemmy.world 4 points 8 hours ago

I can answer this because it's true. I work out daily, cook every meal, hangout all day with my dogs, explore YouTube rabbit holes, and read scifi. Without an alarm, I'm suddenly a morning person. Up by five with energy. I'm trying to figure out my next move. Weird thing is, it's probably another career. Just on my terms

[–] wabafee@lemmy.world 16 points 12 hours ago

Get a proper sleep.

[–] kittenzrulz123@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 10 hours ago

Id probrally learn programming and become a Linux distro/software maintainer for projects like Debian and maybe Libreboot.

[–] JTskulk@lemmy.world 9 points 11 hours ago (1 children)
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[–] Sp00kyB00k@lemmy.world 3 points 9 hours ago

The same life but without the pressure of a job.

[–] LordCrom@lemmy.world 1 points 7 hours ago

Kung fu, charitable volunteering, and any intellectual challenge I could take on.

play more games learn to draw maybe pick up a new language.

[–] Dogiedog64@lemmy.world 7 points 12 hours ago

Ride my Motorcycle and brew beer. Then go work out. Hang with friends. Hike, swim, explore the world.

[–] WindyRebel@lemmy.world 7 points 12 hours ago

DM or GM tabletop games for groups

[–] Zacryon@feddit.org 1 points 8 hours ago

I would become an author and write plenty of fiction, poems, short stories. I might also get into game development. And if time permits, I would even pick up on astronomy.

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 12 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago) (2 children)

I would do nothing while also not stressing out about doing nothing.

[–] blackn1ght@feddit.uk 1 points 5 hours ago

I think you wouldn't stress if you know you have no restriction on the free time.

For me I stress that I want to maximise the use of out of my very limited free time and can't decide what I want to do, only to completely squander it.

[–] MisterOwl@lemmy.world 5 points 12 hours ago

"Know what I did yesterday? Nothing. I did nothing. And it was everything I thought it would be."

[–] blarghly@lemmy.world 6 points 12 hours ago (2 children)

I achieved this 2 years ago. I spend my time rock climbing, travelling to rock climbing, hanging with friends, lifting, running, tackling little diy projects, working part time in a fun job to get some extra spending money, and trying to sleep with as many hot women as possible.

This is a lot of fun, and I highly recommend it.

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[–] ipkpjersi@lemmy.ml 9 points 13 hours ago

I would work on open-source software and play games, which is what I already do, I'd just have more free time to do it.

[–] Azal@pawb.social 2 points 10 hours ago

I don't think I'd ever leave the makerspace.

[–] _cryptagion@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 12 hours ago

Spend as much time as I could in nature or playing video games. Or playing video games while in nature. Lots of camping.

[–] GreenKnight23@lemmy.world 5 points 13 hours ago

I would make handcrafted furniture, work on my garden, and contribute to open source software that supports both farming and woodcrafts.

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