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Imagine being afraid of the ‘friend zone’ (hexbear.net)
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Oh no, my miserable life that’s devoid of any connection and anyone altogether otherwise *at least contains a friend.

What the fuck man, is this a real concern average people have that I’m way too fucking alienated to understand

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[–] WithoutFurtherDelay@hexbear.net 3 points 2 years ago

No, like, i don’t think they’re talking about the person being asked as being the one being emotionally ambiguous- they’re talking about the person doing the asking. It’s emotionally ambiguous to ask someone out and then have them say they just want to be friends.

It’s possible to be friends from then on but it’s difficult and definitely ambiguous.