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[–] piefood@feddit.online 1 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I've always tried to phrase it as "What do you do?", skipping the "for a living" part. That opens it up to more than just work. It could be "What do you do for a hobby?", or "What do you do for fun?", or "What do you do in your free time?", etc.

Sure, it's not the best conversation starter, but when I know nothing about someone, it's a good way to get the ball rolling.

[–] LaunchesKayaks@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

Best answer for that is: suffer

Really makes a person stop and thing lmao

[–] shalafi@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

See my comment here:

https://old.lemmy.world/comment/18418113

Got ghosted every single time I asked what they did for fun.

[–] piefood@feddit.online 1 points 1 week ago

Huh, weird. I haven't dated in a looooong time, so I cant say if anything would be off about that.