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[โ€“] Wmill@hexbear.net 11 points 16 hours ago (8 children)

Working with dudes in construction really just breaks whatever crushes I have on them, I said it before but guys getting angry and shouty when the heat gets turned up is ugh. I get being frustrated but like chill or at minimum don't lash out, hoping this puts a stop to my gay dreams towards them I really don't wanna be a therapist or something.

[โ€“] segfault11@hexbear.net 5 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

men can be so emotional ๐Ÿ˜’

[โ€“] Wmill@hexbear.net 4 points 14 hours ago (1 children)

stoicism? I wish you'd practice it... seriously the manosphere branding themselves as emotionless badasses falls apart fast under actually trying conditions.

[โ€“] segfault11@hexbear.net 4 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

fr, mabye the whole stoic shit might actually be appealing if any of them could abide by it instead of coming up with excuses for why they're exempt all the time. as I see it, it's more of a way for guys to shame other guys for minor "infractions" like wearing a jacket when it's cold lol

[โ€“] Wmill@hexbear.net 2 points 3 hours ago

This exactly, I don't know if I been doing stoic stuff myself but I've been learning to sit with my emotions in a "que sera sera" mindset. Maybe it's just me masking so much creature but I know how to control myself when things are going bad

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