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[–] Engywuck@lemm.ee 9 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I can't surely keep track. I get lost after the Q.

[–] oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (3 children)

2SLGBTQIANBP+ or LGBTQIANB2SP+

  • Two Spirit
  • Lesbian
  • Gay
  • Bisexual
  • Transgender
  • Queer/Questioning
  • Intersex
  • Asexual/Aromantic/Agender (never for allies)
  • Nonbinary
  • Pansexual/Polyamorous
  • Plus (for other identities)
[–] Engywuck@lemm.ee 9 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (2 children)

No way in my fucking life I'll be able to remember all of that. I'll need a cheat sheet.

$ cat /dev/random

[–] rbos@lemmy.ca 3 points 5 days ago (1 children)
[–] enbiousenvy@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 4 days ago

feeding random device into your cat and then string it up is cat abuse /j

[–] rbn@sopuli.xyz 5 points 5 days ago (2 children)

I guess it's pretty discriminating that some orientations get more letters than others, one even is allowed to have a number and potentially many more have to share just one single +. Why not use only the + for everyone? ♥️

[–] oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 5 days ago

This is why most of us just use 'queer' nowadays, even though it's not very accurate in some ways for some people.

[–] piccolo@sh.itjust.works 5 points 5 days ago (2 children)

Personally think GSRM should be more popular. Its short and includes everyone, and isnt making a a hidden declaration that some minorities are more special by having their own letter (thus the reason for appending more to the alphabet soup)

[–] oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 5 days ago

We believe it was coopted by pedophiles or they tried to claim it for themselves or join in with using it in some way, so sadly there's a lot of baggage which comes with it and why any in the know don't use it.

[–] m0darn@lemmy.ca 2 points 5 days ago

Thanks for teaching-me-about/reminding-me-of that acronym.

I've been advocating for the adoption of "people with minority Sexual Orientations and/or Gender Identities" ie "SOGI minorities" or "SOGIm".

I think I still prefer " SOGI minorities" because it's inclusive, and the acronym sort of stands on it's own e.g. I recently learned my province has SOGI curriculum as part of the school system. It's not just about SOGI minorities, it's about helping kids understand what gender is, and isn't.

I do like how GSRM articulates the difference between sexuality and romance though.

[–] hungryphrog@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Yeah, that's why people should just settle for queer.

[–] oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 5 days ago

Queer is slightly contentious in some ways (and we don't mean it having been a slur previously), but yeah, generally better.