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so who is playin deltarune? i finished it through chapter 4 and now i'm gonna get both types of run in the can so i can pretend i'm not back to waiting a year for the next part. how bout those new secret bosses? how bout that damn

spoilerroaring knight?

it's nice to have parts of this game be as hard as sands undertale.

also, susie is my favorite, she's precious, everyone drop your favorite susie moments in the comments


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[โ€“] thirstyskyline@hexbear.net 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

ventmy partner just had a breakdown in public about getting her period and being dysphoric+embarassed about it as she had nothing to cover herself with, i offered to call with her as i wasnt with her, she agreed and i was trying to be empathic and get her out of that but idk god it fucking felt like i had fuck all empathy tbh i was trying and i do have empathy it just i dont know i feel broken i was worried out of my mind and i kinda didnt know how to react and my partner told me to shut the fuck up cause it doesnt help and it feels like i dont give a shit and i was like fuck; idk through a phone it's so hard to convey emotion and meaning to words, instead of that I sounded like I was dismissing her, I majorly fucked up I wish I knew how to handle people better instead of proceeding like I did right now

really feeling useless and asking what the fuck is wrong with me for proceeding like this, I should have had things to say and calm someone down than 'yea' and 'im sorry' and platitudes but I felt useless being so far away, fuck and I kinda locked up cause usually when I comfort anyone it's irl not over a call ahhh fuck

ventam I really like this checked out dissociated husk so much I cant even help someone close to me? What the fuck is wrong with me, genuienly. My god. Fuck.