Holy shit I had no idea it had been that long but I got a cake day message and it made me check lol. Anyways thanks for all the laughs and learning over the years. I am so grateful this space exists...maybe it's finally time to get on the liberapay lmao.
Some of my best personal writing has started as comments or posts where I got too pressed/invested and the pen ain't turn off. Overall, I still really struggle with setting appropriate boundaries with the internet but the lower speed and higher quality of this forum have been real boons to me.
Keep posting. 
damn, we're already too old for