work_towards

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[–] work_towards@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 23 minutes ago

that's not what gaslighting means.

[–] work_towards@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 24 minutes ago (1 children)

in this case we WERE disagreeing. but basically I was right so the other person changed their position. which is what I wanted, except then they immediately forget that they held the opposing position but we are still in an argument when that happens so it must be my fault for starting the argument over nothing.

[–] work_towards@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 28 minutes ago (1 children)

I mean both of us have ADHD

We were arguing about personal matters that we are both involved in.

This just happens with this one person. I'm not like, delusional. Or such a big bully that people back down to placate me.

 

When I challenge something the other person said then they get upset and we start arguing. But then they change their position to agree with me. And claim to have held the same position as I do from the start.

So now I am the asshole for arguing when we agree on everything!!

Everybody has ADHD and I don't think it's on purpose. I just won the argument very thoroughly and this is what it looks like. I feel like I have to get a written record of what the other person is saying before I respond so they don't accuse me of starting an argument over literally nothing.

(And I have 3rd party witness who confirms my view of the situation is not skewed.)

And how can I go to the one that's playing the audio

In what situation would one not be researching somethingS?

Get multiple toothbrushes and toothpastes.