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[–] Szymon@lemmy.ca 124 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Critical thinking. Consider the intent of the source.

[–] spacedancer@lemmy.world 36 points 2 years ago (1 children)

This, and reading comprehension.

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[–] s_s@lemmy.one 67 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (2 children)

It's a big ask, but Empathy.

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[–] ouigol@lemmy.world 40 points 2 years ago (1 children)

People should really know how to research. Sure, almost everyone knows how to do a google search, but there are shockingly many people who can’t research, i.e view multiple sources including those that don’t align with your views.

[–] spread@programming.dev 5 points 2 years ago (1 children)

You'd be surprised how many people don't even know how to do a Google search.

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[–] dystop@lemmy.world 38 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Basic cooking.

You don't need to be Gordon Ramsey, but in a pinch, know how to make pasta, chilli and a few other things.

[–] sneezycat@sopuli.xyz 7 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (3 children)

Is chilli considered basic? Spicy food is not that common where I live. For me the basics would be to know how to:

-Peel and cut veggies

-Boil stuff

-Fry eggs

But maybe it's a cultural thing! I'm interested in knowing what you're doing with your chilli peppers ;)

[–] Cheradenine@sh.itjust.works 8 points 2 years ago

I think they mean Chilli as a dish, often a meat stew

[–] intensely_human@lemm.ee 7 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Basic chili recipe (people from texas can bite their tongue for five minutes one time):

  • beans
  • tomatoes
  • onions
  • peppers

A little bit of cumin and salt to taste and you actually don’t need anything else to get something that is recognizable as chili.

I add all sorts of other stuff, but that’s the basics.

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[–] luthis@lemmy.nz 36 points 2 years ago (3 children)

Computer comprehension. You should have a basic understanding of what your pc is doing, web certificates, passwords, how to tell when youre being scammed, and how to protect your personal info. Knowledge doesnt need to be deep, just wide.

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[–] dandroid@dandroid.app 26 points 2 years ago (1 children)

A skill is too much to ask. I just want people to move out of the way when they get off the escalator so I don't bump into their asses.

[–] theshatterstone54@feddit.uk 7 points 2 years ago (2 children)
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[–] fratermus@lemmy.sdf.org 25 points 2 years ago (2 children)

"Specialization is for insects. A human being should be able to change a diaper, plan an invasion, butcher a hog, conn a ship, design a building, write a sonnet, balance accounts, build a wall, set a bone, comfort the dying, take orders, give orders, cooperate, act alone, solve equations, analyze a new problem, pitch manure, program a computer, cook a tasty meal, fight efficiently, die gallantly." -- Heinlein

[–] Google@lemmy.ml 6 points 2 years ago

This explains why I'm tired all the time.

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[–] charonn0@startrek.website 22 points 2 years ago

How to write clearly in their native language.

[–] electronicoldman@lemmy.fmhy.ml 21 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)
[–] CheshireSnake@iusearchlinux.fyi 20 points 2 years ago (1 children)

As someone who almost drowned as a child, swimming is up there for me.

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[–] taladar@sh.itjust.works 19 points 2 years ago (4 children)

Basic arithmetic to the point where you can e.g. calculate things like a budget when money is tight.

Enough understanding of statistics and probability to be able to understand what numbers reported in news stories about events and politics mean.

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[–] ChaoticEntropy@feddit.uk 17 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

In this day and age, how to stay safe online and spot what are often very obvious attempts at fraud/malicious activity.

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[–] Youthless@lemm.ee 17 points 2 years ago (2 children)
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[–] tastik@lemmy.ml 16 points 2 years ago (2 children)

The ability to survive outside / without a roof over one's head.

I'm not talking surviving solely off the land type of outdoor survival, although that is an excellent set of skills to obtain.

  • Learn how to set up shelter, or find shelter if a tent / tarp isn't available
  • Learn how to start a fire in multiple ways
  • Learn basic hunting skills
  • Learn how to sanitize / store drinking water
  • Learn basic first aid
  • Always remember the order of operations in a survival situation: Shelter, water, fire, food
[–] JoumanaKayrouz@lemmy.world 6 points 2 years ago

I'll just use my phone and call someone.

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[–] Saigonauticon@voltage.vn 16 points 2 years ago

Learning things quickly.

It's totally its own skill, and you can learn to learn faster. What skills are useful changes with time -- the ones used in your career now might age like milk for reasons beyond your control.

[–] j4k3@lemmy.world 15 points 2 years ago

Insatiable curiosity

[–] Anticorp@lemmy.ml 13 points 2 years ago (1 children)

How to polish and maintain your boots. On that subject, an awareness of why old school leather boots are an outstanding lifelong investment.

[–] RGB3x3@lemmy.world 5 points 2 years ago (4 children)

Where does one find the proper old school leather boots?

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[–] mwalimu@baraza.africa 12 points 2 years ago

Basic networking skills. Most lives can be significantly improved by basic home network. WiFi deadzones, wireless printing, shared folders for basic documents and resources etc. All while being relatively secure.

[–] circuitfarmer@lemmy.sdf.org 12 points 2 years ago (1 children)

A really good bullshit-o-meter.

So many issues with major media, corporate announcements, government announcements, and probably many other things can be solved with a good bullshit-o-meter.

What I really mean is critical thinking. Because there are vacuous ways to calibrate a bullshit-o-meter that lack logic entirely and tie one into some ideological goal. Then you can still claim to have a bullshit-o-meter but lack the ultimate goal of it, but it's really not a helpful tool at that point. My original meaning is a true, logic-based bullshit-o-meter.

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[–] drmoose@lemmy.world 11 points 2 years ago

Reading. Being able to quickly skim and comprehend text will give you an edge in basically every field.

[–] andy_wijaya_med@lemmy.world 10 points 2 years ago

Common sense, or better yet, critical thinking.

[–] Bagel@lemmy.ca 10 points 2 years ago (2 children)
[–] Candelestine@lemmy.world 11 points 2 years ago

Agreed. Everyone should be able to cook themselves some good meals and unlock their door to get into their house.

Very important skills.

[–] Bagel@lemmy.ca 7 points 2 years ago

Mmm Lemmy comment deletion is weird as it stays there with my username. Anyway I misread the question and responded food and shelter if anyone’s wondering.

[–] hairysonorth@lemmy.world 10 points 2 years ago

Basic zipper merge

[–] Sabakodgo@lemmy.fmhy.ml 10 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Ability to take breaks.
So many people burn out from stuff they enjoy. If you take frequent breaks, it helps your mental and health overall.

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[–] ConstantMotion@lemmy.one 9 points 2 years ago

Cooking! We eat every day and eating out adds up quick.

[–] Im28xwa@lemdro.id 9 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Swimming, martial art, basic cooking skills and probably some other things too

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[–] taladar@sh.itjust.works 8 points 2 years ago

The ability to set and enforce personal boundaries.

[–] Gromat@discuss.tchncs.de 8 points 2 years ago

Basic social skills. Let everyone talk and try not to disturb while they're at it. Hear others point of view. I think that would solve a lot of problems.

[–] speaker_hat@lemmy.one 7 points 2 years ago

Cope with stress

[–] danafest@lemm.ee 7 points 2 years ago

Cooking skills. It's so great to be able to make yourself a nice plate of food.

[–] Lemmylefty@lemmy.world 6 points 2 years ago

The self- and contextual-awareness and communicative ability to express consent or lack of consent for engaging in any activity.

A lot of shame, regret, and anger could be avoided if all of us knew how to do that.

[–] 8565@lemmy.quad442.com 6 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Being able to maintain their own car.

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[–] jsveiga@sh.itjust.works 6 points 2 years ago (10 children)

Mind reading, telekinesis and flying.

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[–] brad@toad.work 5 points 2 years ago (1 children)
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[–] pewgar_seemsimandroid@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 2 years ago (2 children)

rooting android devices and installing a custom rom on them

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[–] sic_semper_tyrannis@feddit.ch 5 points 2 years ago (2 children)
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