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[–] LunarLoony@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago)

Putting contracted words in the wrong places. Like ending a sentence with "you're".

Using "less" instead of "fewer".

Not getting spellings 100% accurate all the time.

Using the wrong version of 'your' or 'their'.

[–] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 17 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

Ending a sentence with a preposition has been standard in English for longer than the language has existed, it's nothing to be ashamed of.

[–] marito@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

I see what you did there.

Nothing about which to be ashamed. 🤓

There's a funny bit in "the last man on earth" where Kristen Schaal's character always corrects people when they end their sentences with a preposition. It shows how much more ridiculous her correction sounds.

... Not a great show, but that bit was pretty funny.

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[–] tigeruppercut@lemmy.zip 13 points 1 day ago (1 children)

To anyone who has a problem with singular they:

Roses are red, violets aren't blue
Singular they is older than singular you

[–] kassiopaea@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 day ago

Anyone who has a problem with singular they can eat my non-binary ass.

[–] halloween_spookster@lemmy.world 39 points 2 days ago (4 children)

Putting question marks or exclamation points after "quotation marks"! I've never understood the point of putting the punctuation inside the quotation unless it's part of the quotation itself.

[–] starlinguk@lemmy.world 35 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Quote is full sentence: inside. Quote is part of sentence or word: outside.

Eg:

“Oh no!” he gasped.

And

Apparently she's “done with me”!

Love, an editor.

[–] Tar_alcaran@sh.itjust.works 14 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

This is how you're supposed to do it in Dutch.

The teacher said "silence!".

Vs

The teacher said "silence"!

Mean something completely different. Although a few large literature publishers do punctuation before bracket because of translation ease, and novels almost never contain partial quotes anyway AND they include the optional comma at all times, which causes

"Silence!," said the teacher.

Shudder

[–] wolfpack86@lemmy.world 11 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Especially also when you're using them to be facetious.

He's "talented".

He's "talented."

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[–] TriflingToad@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

someone corrected me on spelling "at least" "atleast"
like... alright? (wink wink nudge nudge)

anyways I was in a bad mood and wrote a passive aggressive message I ended up not sending

Words condense over time, it's not a crime to not type a space.

do you say "goodbye" or "God be with ye"? what about "gossip" or "farewell"?

What about a purpose misspelling being turned to one of the most common words in conversation? "all correct" -> "oll korect" -> "ok"

[–] wolfeh@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 day ago

Using "they" as singular. Also, referring to animals besides humans as "he," "she," or "they" instead of "it."

I usually am a grammar nazi, but these are things I do very intentionally.

[–] hperrin@lemmy.ca 8 points 1 day ago

I don’t care if people say “chomping at the bit”, because it basically means the same thing as “champing at the bit”, and nobody uses the word champing anymore anyway.

[–] Stovetop@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

By some standards, the Oxford comma is still incorrect grammar. I'll die on the hill that it has utility, and I'm glad it's becoming more of a commonly accepted convention.

[–] InfiniteHench@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Alright, which standards? Show your work or else I’m a call you a wolf in sheep’s clothing.

[–] Stovetop@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

Can check style guides for publications and academic institutions in the UK, Australia, and the like. BBC, ABC, etc. Back in the day it was simply considered wrong, now most non-US publications and academic institutions simply advise not using it unless it helps avoid ambiguity. E.g. the excerpt below from the ABC style guide:

Oxford comma, serial comma

A comma placed before the last item in a list: she ate grapes, toast, and cheese. Avoid unless it aids the reader or prevents ambiguity.

American style guides are generally more in favor of the Oxford comma. APA mandates it, MLA says do whatever makes sense, and Chicago says pick one and stick to it.

[–] stopforgettingit@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Even if someone says "irregardless" or "I could care less", I don't say anything because I still understand what they mean.

[–] MrScottyTay@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 day ago

I've always argued for the side of "if your point comes across and is understood as intended, your grammar or lack thereof, does not matter in the slightest"

[–] gedaliyah@lemmy.world 67 points 2 days ago (2 children)

End a sentence with a preposition if you want to. And start one with a conjunction.

[–] DragonTypeWyvern@midwest.social 30 points 2 days ago (1 children)

That's not just you, that's people who know the rules of the English language and don't care about Latin or what dead idiots thought.

https://www.merriam-webster.com/grammar/prepositions-ending-a-sentence-with

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[–] DJKJuicy@sh.itjust.works 11 points 2 days ago

I'm really fond of using "I'mma" and "gonna".

I obviously wouldn't use these words in a professional document, but everywhere else I'mma use "gonna" and "I'mma" whenever I feel like it.

[–] chunes@lemmy.world 25 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I really like to write 'gonna.'

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[–] wolfpack86@lemmy.world 15 points 2 days ago (1 children)

The right to gleefully split infinitives.

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[–] hperrin@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 day ago

I’ve started using “used to could” instead of “used to be able to”, and I will not stop.

[–] svcg@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 points 2 days ago (2 children)

It is perfectly cromulent to use "less" in place of "fewer".

[–] tiredofsametab@fedia.io 14 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Some would say it's fewer correct, however.

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[–] SLVRDRGN@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

The fact I understand all the vocabulary you used embiggens me.

[–] SLVRDRGN@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Nobody actually knows how to use "it begs the question" anyway. Even the ones who think they do.

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[–] frank@sopuli.xyz 13 points 2 days ago

I feel like a lot of the grammar sticklers out there only speak one language, and their lack of sympathy towards people speaking English as a second or third language is low.

If you can convey your point– good enough for me!

[–] spacemanspiffy@lemmy.world 7 points 2 days ago (6 children)
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[–] napkin2020@sh.itjust.works 9 points 2 days ago (8 children)

who/whom.

Maybe it's because that English is not my first language but I always find it confusing.

[–] hperrin@lemmy.ca 7 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

If you can replace the word with “he”, you always use who. If you can replace the word with “him”, you can use whom if you want to.

Whom did you lead into battle?

I led him into battle.

Who ate all the cake?

He ate all the cake.

The key takeaway is you can always use who and it will be correct, because who is both a subject and an object. So, if you don’t want to bother with the rule, just stick to who and you can’t go wrong.

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[–] tiredofsametab@fedia.io 7 points 2 days ago

I used to get yelled at mid-sentence by a parent for incorrect grammar, and used to do the same to others as a result. I've mostly recovered. I still find imprecision irksome but, if everyone understands, I don't think it's a big deal.

I still think certain formal situations warrant proper grammar and spelling (from native speakers at least), such as a CV for a professional job.

[–] MomoGajo@sh.itjust.works 19 points 2 days ago (7 children)

If I am clearly referring to myself (as in a text), I shouldn't have to inlude myself in the sentence. Ex: "just grabbing food" vs "I'm just grabbing food".

[–] tiredofsametab@fedia.io 8 points 2 days ago

A lot of languages are pro-drop and do this when the context is clear (and sometimes when it isn't). I remember learning Japanese and people saying "we would never do that in English!". My counterexample was always that, if someone came to my house and asked where the beer is, I'd say "fridge." because that's all the information the hearer needs.

[–] hperrin@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

In Spanish, the conjugation of the verb lets you drop the subject, which is eloquent.

“¿Qué haces?”

“Estoy ~~llegando~~ llevando comida.”

[–] BunScientist@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I'm not sure "I'm arriving food" is the best spanish out there

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