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[–] Wahots@pawb.social 4 points 4 hours ago

This is so annoying. Even though I'm not a fan of porn games on the whole, it is extremely irritating that payment systems can decide how and when you can spend your own fucking money. We're not seven, anymore. We can take care of ourselves.

It smacks of the idiotic "babyproofing" of clearly adult spaces everywhere except bars, these days. Antiquated moral panics, just like 1954's lavender scare all over again.

[–] Electricd@lemmybefree.net 6 points 7 hours ago

That’s bad imo

[–] dustyData@lemmy.world 2 points 6 hours ago

This explains why I can't buy games right now. I tried to use PayPal and it failed but now my account seems to be blocked from any purchase. Not even direct card. When I asked support they demanded a screenshot of my cart.

Dude, Gabe, I just want to play outer wilds. There's no tits, let alone incest in Outer wilds. I've never bought a porn game in my life. Why am I being punished for a billionaire company's moral panic?

[–] Jikiya@lemmy.world 2 points 6 hours ago

New market opportunity! Steam has been banned from participating, meaning even a crappy quality platform can now compete. Though, payment processing will be the hitch, I would guess...

[–] Toneswirly@lemmy.world 4 points 7 hours ago

It's funny, Patreon cracked down years ago on Incest content forcing indie porn devs to do *nudge *nudge *wink she's your "Landlady" stuff. I guess paypal just assumed Steam was cleaner until now.

[–] Stalinwolf@lemmy.ca 6 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

Damn it.. I was really looking forward to Brother Mother Buttfucker 2.

[–] Shard@lemmy.world 2 points 18 hours ago

Is that a new song from PSY?

[–] RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world 15 points 1 day ago (2 children)

What are these games? Steam is littered with these and waifu porno stuff… Not kink shaming here but what’s the attraction?

[–] Gaylactus@lemmy.world 4 points 7 hours ago

I honestly don't get it either... And I have nothing against porn, but some of these just sound and look like cheap copy/pastes and probably with little to no interactivity or gameplay. I'm curious to see how they are now, if only for comedic value.

The more taboo a topic, the more it gets people agitated, sometimes this is channeled sexually.

[–] ter_maxima@jlai.lu 21 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Doing the right thing for the wring reason if you ask me. I don't think it was ever a good idea to sell incest games in the first place, but banning them because they make payment processors uncomfortable ? Fuck that.

I don't want payment processors to be the arbiters of what we are allowed to play !

[–] Gaylactus@lemmy.world 2 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

While I personally have absolutely no incestual relationship desires, the only rational reason be against incest is really because there is the consanguinity issue, which can result in genetic deficiencies. Same-sex incest is for example, legal in Ireland and Germany.

Morally speaking... I too find it icky, but I'm pretty sure this is the result of how we were raised to think of it as being icky. As long as everyone involved able to legally consent, and there is no abusive power dynamic in the relationship, I really don't judge. To each their own! Just don't involve me in it! LOL

[–] kungen@feddit.nu 3 points 6 hours ago

Even opposite-sex incest became legal in Sweden a couple years back. The law previously said "forbidden to have sexual intercourse with a sibling", but they changed it to "forbidden to have vaginal intercourse with a sibling". No idea if it was the (right-wing) government's intention to legalize gay-brother-sex at the same time, but here we are.

[–] GalacticHero@lemmy.world 230 points 2 days ago (22 children)

While this doesn’t directly affect me, I really hate that a payment processor I don’t even use can dictate what is and is not acceptable speech.

[–] Zagorath@aussie.zone 90 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I can't imagine buying a porn game on Steam. And even if I did, incest holds no interest to me.

Even so, I absolutely fucking hate this crap. Payment processors are killing off content despite the producers and consumers of the content being completely fine with it. This should be a Net Neutrality issue. But I'm not seeing anywhere near the same outrage over it that there was over ISPs doing the exact same thing.

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 21 points 2 days ago (5 children)

I remember someone had a reply on something that touched on incest porn and they where like. I see it all the time but when you put in blond big boobed blowjob and the title is mom son its like who cares or such. So much porn seems to just get relabeled when it comes to incest porn. This is now a brother and sister or mom/son or father/daughter. It is wierd how that seemed to just blow up in popularity. I mean I think its been that way for a few years but I swear I did not see so much like pre covid.

[–] Zagorath@aussie.zone 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

My theory is that it's because people who are into it must be really into it, but people who aren't into it are very good at ignoring the fact that it's titled like that or that there might be one or two throwaway lines implying it (especially when it's "step"). So there's an incentive for uploaders to title things like that and for creators to add a little nod in the video towards it (without adding too much incest roleplay) because it draws in a large audience and actively turns away very few.

[–] jj4211@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Well if you are having to watch on mute anyway, not like you even know the plot...

Of course you miss out on the narrative masterpiece of things like lemon stealing whores ..

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[–] unexposedhazard@discuss.tchncs.de 68 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (3 children)

Why do they even get to know which games people buy? It should just show them "Steam purchase" and nothing else.

[–] lath@piefed.social 23 points 2 days ago (4 children)

Because many "players" are refunding after a fap, which is logged and reviewed. Also, suspicious or new transactions are often flagged and reviewed. So a lot of such side content is being pushed in front of the banks and payment processors by horny clients who unwittingly expose their kinks.

[–] spankmonkey@lemmy.world 20 points 1 day ago

If a large number of refunds came from a single source it seems like Steam would be the one addressing the issue, not payment processors.

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[–] ivanafterall@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

This doesn't directly affect me, either, but does anyone know if it applies to all of the Interactive Sex - Futanari Incest DLC, too!? For Episodes 1-4!? Like, if any of my friends have large amounts of FutaCoinz from years of Season Passes, I wonder if they'll still be able to spend them...?

[–] jj4211@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago

I don't know if I want to try to find out if that is satire or actual things...

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[–] zecg@lemmy.world 16 points 1 day ago (1 children)

The reason might be a slippery slope or whatever, but there's mountains of disgusting visual novel incest fantasy shit, so much that I had to filter out all sexual content from Steam even though I might enjoy occasional Sex With the Devil or some Genital Jousting.

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 3 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

I prefer to do my genital jousting IRL, and not video game format. I just go up to random dudes at the urinal and challenge them.

[–] Gaylactus@lemmy.world 2 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

I'm going to file this as "untagged satire"... right? RIGHT???

[–] surewhynotlem@lemmy.world 1 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

He has a butthole right in his username.

[–] Gaylactus@lemmy.world 1 points 6 hours ago

If your butthole looks like a spiral, I'm sorry for your condition, and hope you get better soon. Thoughts and prayers!

[–] hal_5700X@sh.itjust.works 42 points 1 day ago

Payment processors and financial institutions sure do seem to hold disproportionate amounts of power.

[–] CaptainBasculin@lemmy.bascul.in 105 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (12 children)

Steam: I consent

Adult eroge players: I consent

Payment companies: I don't

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[–] DigDoug@lemmy.world 33 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Any game featuring most kinds of animal, including people, is evidence that sex occurred. We should ban those too.

[–] celeste@kbin.earth 27 points 1 day ago

If a game exists, a person made it and that person exists because someone had sex. It's disgusting how people pay to play that sort of filth.

[–] vortexal@sopuli.xyz 31 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

What goal do the payment processors have for doing things like this, is it just that they like knowing that they have the ability to control what you are and aren't allowed to enjoy? I ask this because normally, when services change their policies, it's done to improve profits. But from what I can tell, the payment processors can only lose money because they are eliminating potential revenue sources.

I will admit that I have no interest in any of the games that were removed, I've never even heard of them before today, but I don't agree with payment processors having the ability to sensor content over some schizo bullshit.

[–] GamingChairModel@lemmy.world 25 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Porn-related transactions have a higher than average rate of chargebacks. Maybe post-nut clarity motivates people to say "wait hold on I shouldn't have spent that money, I must've been hacked." Or maybe it's people saving face when confronted with a transaction log from their spouse or other family members. Or maybe it's just the type of transaction that actual card fraudsters gravitate towards, so that there really is a higher percentage of unauthorized transactions.

Gambling-related merchants also have a similar problem with payment processors. For many of them, it's just straightforward business concerns, not any kind of ethical issue in itself.

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[–] sasquash@helvetiverse.ch 23 points 1 day ago

payment providers are way to powerful

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