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Out on the beach for a while today, i ran across two people waving for attention; turns out they were stuck right past the '4wd only past this point' sign. I got them unstuck, made sure they didnt need anything else and was about to head on my way. One of the women offered me a couple road sodas, and i declined- i havent drank alcohol in about 13 years and have no inclination to start again. The other woman actually scoffed, and said 'what man isnt going to accept a beer from a couple women on the beach, are you a f-slur?'

So i left.

Why the fuck do people who drink alcohol act this way around people who dont drink?

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[–] Alisu@hexbear.net 5 points 2 months ago

This is also true about meat

[–] Evilphd666@hexbear.net 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

There's a saying that behind every f-slur there's an h-slur.

Obviously these ladies f-slur less otherwise they know. Pity them. Anyways sounds like a couple a jerks who are not fun to be around. Dogged a few bullets there . Always respect people's decision not to.

[–] anarchoilluminati@hexbear.net 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] Evilphd666@hexbear.net 2 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

H-slur might be considerd misogynistic.

"Hag"

In this manner it's endearing, as in a woman confidant. Like Will and Grace or Karen.


[–] anarchoilluminati@hexbear.net 1 points 2 months ago

Ahh, thank you! I didn't know that at all.

I thought it was an age-based slur.

[–] 3dmvr@lemm.ee 3 points 2 months ago

why do people who dont vape harass the ppl who do, looking back the ppl who always harassed me about it (not an issue as an adult much, my friends see just well adjusted now) were alcoholics (which felt hypocrtical and why this post reminded me of it) and were the reason I vaped so much around them. Like I needed to calm down, relax and kind of escape when I was around them.

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