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[–] HighFructoseLowStand@lemm.ee 6 points 6 days ago (1 children)

ITT: A demonstration of the precise behavior OP is trying to warn against.

[–] TriflingToad@sh.itjust.works 2 points 6 days ago

yeah. There's a difference between (for example) a transphobe screaming at you, and someone who doesn't fully understand all the terms but supports you being yourself. People in the comments are thinking it's more of the former than the ladder.

[–] jaggedrobotpubes@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago

Smart.

Smart smart smart.

[–] Dragonstaff@leminal.space 2 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Perfection is the enemy of progress

I keep hearing people say this meaning "We need to let Republicans kill trans people". It seems to be a thought terminating cliche to pull out against anyone further left than the speaker.

[–] erin@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 6 days ago

As a trans person, that absolutely isn't how I or other leftists in the spaces I'm in use this phrase. It means to avoid letting disagreement over method or end goal distract from a common cause. Just because a candidate doesn't run for my specific brand of leftism doesn't mean I won't support them over a neoliberal opponent.

[–] seeigel@feddit.org 1 points 6 days ago

power doesn't care about feelings

Does this mean that power has to be handled with care because it threatens feelings

or

does it mean that it's ok to ignore feelings when it is possible to increase power?

[–] psivchaz@reddthat.com 111 points 1 week ago (9 children)

Whoever coined the phrase "it's not my job to educate you" is top of my rogues gallery. If you want democracy to succeed, it is literally your job to educate everyone you can about the things you are passionate about and the changes you wish to see. I get where it came from, I understand the feeling, but it's the worst possible phrase in the context of trying to make a political change.

[–] scroll_responsibly@lemmy.sdf.org 40 points 1 week ago (2 children)

“It’s not my job to educate you” led to Prager University

[–] agamemnonymous@sh.itjust.works 35 points 1 week ago

If you don't, someone else will.

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[–] BrotherL0v3@lemmy.world 27 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (5 children)

I feel like a lot of progressive vocabulary words get used outside the contexts where they apply.

"It's not my job to educate you" is a fair and valid thing to say when someone demands you defend the validity of your identity while you're just trying to live your life. It's unreasonable to expect every trans person to explain the history and complexity of gender to every chud who gives them shit.

It is, however, the opposite of activism and super unhelpful for an activist to say while ostensibly trying to build a movement.

Similarly, "mansplaining" is not a blanket term for any man explaining anything, listening to a friend vent is not "emotional labor", and participating in cultures other than the one you grew up in is not "cultural appropriation". All real terms that point at real problems, all sometimes used outside the contexts in which they are helpful.

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[–] Sanctus@lemmy.world 93 points 1 week ago (38 children)
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[–] pelespirit@sh.itjust.works 74 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Imperfect Allies Aren't Enemies

  • Critique to build, not tear down
  • Organize, don't just argue
  • Movements win, not individuals
  • Perfection is the enemy of progress
  • Ego kills movements
  • Plan for the long game
  • Meet people where they are
  • Power doesn't care about feelings
  • Division is a weapon used by elites, don't play along
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[–] candyman337@sh.itjust.works 57 points 1 week ago (19 children)

I'd be more likely to listen if this weren't next to an AI Gen otter

[–] samus12345@lemm.ee 29 points 1 week ago

Another sepia toned AI comic.

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[–] cmhe@lemmy.world 37 points 1 week ago (1 children)

However, you have to be careful that your movement doesn't get infiltrated, because that will hurt your movement. You have to be careful who you are walking with, and what their end goals are.

Don't protest for a better health care system with people that are antiscientific. Don't protest for a free Palestine together with antisemitic people. Do not let them blur your message.

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[–] LovableSidekick@lemmy.world 36 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

I really wish my fellow "progressives" would get it through their heads how deeply true it is that perfection is the enemy of progress. It's supremely ironic that so many people who say they value freedom and individuality are so ABSOLUTELY intolerant of any slight deviations from what they see as moral perfection and adherence to doctrines. It's like you're either a hundred percent right or ten thousand percent wrong, and even suggesting there can be an in-between is being "complicit". Lighten the fuck up or we'll never get anywhere.

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[–] ThrowawayPermanente@sh.itjust.works 28 points 1 week ago (8 children)

That sounds like something an enemy would say, right before they disagree with my objectively correct opinion about some minor thing and reveal their true nature.

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[–] Lucidlethargy@sh.itjust.works 26 points 1 week ago (2 children)

This is 100% something a few people here on Lemmy need to see.

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[–] Clinicallydepressedpoochie@lemmy.world 25 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

This for everytime some one suggests an idea. It's not your job to snipe it because it's too lofty an idea. If it's a good idea, help hold it up.

[–] jaggedrobotpubes@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago

And little victories. Healing by ten thousand stitches.

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