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cross-posted from: https://lemmy.world/post/26226188

cross-posted from: https://lemy.lol/post/39626252

We have to agree where we ARE before we stand a chance to agree about what we do from here.

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[–] GreenKnight23@lemmy.world 2 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

how about this.

you were lied to, we told you as much. you refused to listen. listen now. stand down, and the only thing hurt will be your pride.

[–] CooperRedArmyDog@lemmy.ml 1 points 14 minutes ago

you stop at you where lied to, you do not need to do the I told you so, you do not need to shame them. If you want to bring people on board you do not antagonize them more than you have to

[–] gearheart@lemm.ee 1 points 1 hour ago

We keep treating Rep with kid gloves. No more.

[–] knightmare1147@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

No more. Get out of the maga cult or get out of the way.

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

Encapsulating people in these little ideological bubbles and walling them off from one another with technological barriers in order to more cheaply extract labor from them is more-or-less the thesis of "The Network State", the guiding doctrine behind the modern Trump administration.

You need your Red Team and your Blue Team to be fully alienated from one another, insisting that each side is this horrifying inhuman entity incapable of reconciling with the other. And then you can have the Gray Team - the Objectivist neutral rent-seeking arbiters - moving between them as overseers and police agents, to extract surplus and compel obedience by implicitly setting the rules by which the Reds and the Blues live.

MAGA exists as this hyperactive immune system, intended to polarize a segment of the population against the whole. And on the flip side, you have these ultra-orthodox neoliberals doing the same thing but from a "Woke" side of the fence. They're both fiercely capitalist. They're both fiercely identitarian. And they're both obsessed with compelling obedience from the top down - whether its crushing campus student protests for being antisemitic or purging RINOs from state and local governments or consolidating media markets into mega-corporate behemoths like Sinclair and Clear Channel and the Gates/Bezos monolith.

You're not going to get people to leave the MAGA Cult because they're not going to hear you. They're segregated and pumped full of anxiety such that they don't dare leave their enclosures. At the same time, you're being walled in yourself. You're told not to set foot inside a church or show up at a rival political rally or otherwise have any social contact with anyone in a Red Hat (except to participate in some kind of retaliatory violence). Don't talk to your neighbors if you see them showing the wrong kind of swag. And always be wearing your own colors, so people can instantly identify which team you're on in public.

Its an ugly state of affairs.

[–] DarkFuture@lemmy.world 26 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago) (2 children)

Gonna be real hard for me to hold hands and sing Kumbaya with a group of people who vote against democracy by elevating rapists and felons who illegally attempt to overturn elections and who have a ton of racists and sexists in their ranks.

Wouldn't have said that 10+ years ago, but they've crossed all sorts of lines since then. They don't really deserve to be forgiven.

[–] inb4_FoundTheVegan@lemmy.world 13 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

I agree but we have to acknowledge that it's not helpful. Like there is nothing MAGA can say or do to make me think they are good people, but if we can at minimum get them to understand the propaganda they swallowed whole we can actually do better, for all of us.

[–] nomugisan@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 12 hours ago (1 children)
[–] ThatWeirdGuy1001@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

I don't even consider them people at this point. They want to treat people like dogs and breeding mares then that's exactly how I'll treat them.

Follow the social contract or get fucked.

[–] shadowfax13@lemmy.ml -3 points 12 hours ago

umm and how’s likes of biden and pelosi any less evil than these people. with palestine biden has more civilians blood on him than putin.

if you can hold your nose and vote for dnc then you can also work with ex-maga

[–] nandeEbisu@lemmy.world 23 points 1 day ago (1 children)

The problem isn't that they're bad at spotting a liar, it's what they were lied to about.

It's the transphobic, anti working class, white supremacist ideologies that allowed them to be duped in the first place. Get rid of that and we can talk.

[–] rickyrigatoni@lemm.ee 16 points 1 day ago

A lot of the people I know who fell for MAGA are the types to believe falling for a lie is a personal failing on their part, and will refuse to admit any sort personal failing out of whatever they think pride is.

[–] UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 15 points 1 day ago
[–] Someonelol@lemmy.dbzer0.com 33 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Right wingers fucking around: "Yeah let's deport all the ILLEGALS, lower our egg prices, and make the government fascist! MAGA!"

Right Wingers finding out: "Boohoo my benefits are cut, Canada boos at our National Anthem, and I have to sell my left kidney to buy groceries!"

Fuck these people. Conservatives were drawn in to Trump because of his hateful rhetoric and they only changed their minds when they were personally affected. They'll vote with a hard R the next election cycle anyway and don't deserve our sympathy. They were around and even voted for Trump's first administration and wanted more of his hate.

[–] DancingBear@midwest.social 3 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Your strategy will continue to isolate you

[–] seejur@lemmy.world 4 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

They have no intention to change or move a little bit left. As mentioned they don't have any sort of remorse for the pain other suffers, only that they got affected. So if they have no intention to change their ideas, what makes you think that there might be some common ground? Sometimes a bad ally is worse than an enemy

[–] Cataphract@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 hours ago

I wonder a lot about the subcontext of people using "they" so much. In it's very essence it's so derogatory, but if you actually used the proper terminology would you just look insane?

Right Wingers have no intention to change or move a little bit left. As mentioned Right Wingers don't have any sort of remorse for the pain other suffers, only that Right Wingers got affected.

Like of course right wingers aren't going left..... they're right wingers (talking about categories of groups, not individuals). Right Wingers don't have remorse because they're a group, not an individual. Like you can pretend all "Left Wingers" have remorse (compassion)... but that's obviously not true. A lot of "Left Wingers" don't care if "right wingers" get hurt, only that they're coming after left wing groups....

[–] DarkFuture@lemmy.world 14 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Isolation or joining hands with fucking SCUUUUUM.

Hmmmm. This is a hard one.

It's 2025. None of these people are poor sad lonely people taken advantage of by a slick conman selling a lie about a bright future. These people know what they've signed up for at this point. Ignorance isn't an excuse anymore.

[–] DancingBear@midwest.social -2 points 12 hours ago

I suppose you voted for Harris because Biden was so energetic and the best president since FDR

[–] Someonelol@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 1 day ago (2 children)

You're right, we should be like the Democrats who started cozying up to Liz Cheney for conservative Never Trumpers, that strategy worked really well for them. They're only going to drag us further right with them if we ignore their bad intentions for having voted Trump in the first place. They will still see minorities as something to hate, they'll still want to tear down the government to "hurt the right people", and they'll still hate you.

[–] DancingBear@midwest.social 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

If you can’t see the difference between cozying up to republicans and saying fuck everyone who disagrees with you then you may be part of the problem…

I agree that befriending Liz Cheney and dick Cheney, one of the most unpopular politicians in us politics was a terrible move… so was trying to distance herself from progressives who basically support policy proposals that supermajorities of Americans on both the right and the left support…

What I think will isolate you in the end is saying fuck everyone who disagrees with you… you’re basically blaming the voters for being frustrated with their circumstances while dem leadership continues to disregard their own base while embracing corporate oligarchy…. You’re blaming the masses instead of the one who would rather have Trump in office than actually get anything done that would help regular Americans

[–] DarkFuture@lemmy.world 7 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

fuck everyone who disagrees with you

Lol. It's not about refusing to work with people I disagree with. It's refusing to work with people who vote to HURT OTHERS, and they've had more than enough time to correct their ways if it was an honest mistake.

Spoiler Alert: It wasn't. They know what they're doing.

[–] DancingBear@midwest.social 0 points 12 hours ago

it is telling that there are a some Trump voters who honestly believe Trump is hurting the wrong people (as if we shouldn’t be working towards a common good)

Obviously, however there are also democrat voters who are saying the exact same thing.

[–] Cethin@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Cheney isn't just a random conservative voter. She's a representative who cause the problems. The average voter does not hold the same beliefs. They're just poor people without much time who believe the media when it tells them Democrats are evil and trying to hurt them and people they love. We need them if we want to do actual good in this world.

[–] DarkFuture@lemmy.world 5 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

We need them if we want to do actual good in this world.

We need people that vote to hurt others because they're stupid enough to believe a talking head on an entertainment channel?

I mean, at what point do we stop making excuses for them and accept that they are awful people. You know, awful people do exist.

[–] Cethin@lemmy.zip 1 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

I don't see anyone making excuses for them. This post says they were lied to and they can recognize that and decide to change. That's not an excuse. That's called taking responsibility, and it's a good thing.

[–] Someonelol@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

The saying "fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me" is apropos to the situation. Voting for him the first time may have been excusable if they didn't vote for him a second time. They knew damn well the kind of evil he was and still they flocked to him. These idiots will vote for the next Republican to come along because they want tax breaks, or a lazy bigoted scapegoat, or any other selfish reason because they're unrepentant self serving assholes.

A lot of the things we want run completely counter to their values. Yes we can agree Trump is evil, but what about treating women as more than walking incubators? Or minorities as human? How about increasing taxes on the rich to pay for social services? Can we at the very least all agree that law-abiding undocumented immigrants don't deserve to be separated from their families and shipped to Guantanamo or be deported shackled in a military plane?

[–] Cethin@lemmy.zip 1 points 12 hours ago

No, it isn't. It doesn't matter their reasons for doing it. Either they vote Republican again in the future or they don't. It's bad for us if they do. The only thing we get out of telling them they aren't allowed to change is a feeling of superiority. I don't know about you, but I'd rather create change than get revenge.

I don't care about why they change their votes. We just want them to change. They (the voters) support the working class and poor mostly. We can use that to get them to change. We can use their feeling of being lied to. We can use their hatred for the rich. It doesn't matter. Getting them to change their voting habit matters. Telling them they're bad doesn't.

[–] Cethin@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 day ago

I don't understand what people like you don't get. This isn't about sympathy. It's about winning. You shouldn't care that you aren't getting revenge. Revenge doesn't actually help you get anything done. You're only shooting yourself in the foot. If we can get only a handful of them to join our side, that's still good. We need to win or we can't actually get anything done. So, when this kind of thing comes up trying to appeal to former conservative of voters you don't need to help out, just keep your thoughts to yourself. You're only damaging the movement.

[–] ceenote@lemmy.world 50 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Frankly, it's most important they admit to themselves that they were lied to.

[–] DarkFuture@lemmy.world 4 points 20 hours ago

Yeah. People don't just deserve forgiveness. Acknowledgement of bad behavior comes before forgiveness. That's standard operating procedure. They aren't doing that.

Even more important that someone they liked and someone they thought liked them lied to them.

[–] Glytch@lemmy.world 29 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Trump openly stated he would do what he's doing now. His campaign published project 2025. It wasn't a conspiracy. They did it out in the open while crowing about doing it. There's really no excuse for not listening when he told you his plans.

You either made a mistake because you were purposely uninformed or you agreed with what he wanted to do until it started affecting you. Either way you were wrong and need to accept and admit that before serious work can be done. Otherwise it'll just happen again when the next demagogue rears their ugly head.

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[–] YarHarSuperstar@lemmy.world 14 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

Thank you. This is what is needed.

Edit: obviously many people are not worth the effort but not even trying is not going to help. Don't associate with Nazis, period. Not everyone who causes harm is a Nazi, however.

Also not endorsing the language 100%, however I do think this is a good start.

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[–] takeda@lemm.ee 18 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Has anyone sent it to their MAGA friend and the person responded "yep, you were right"?

I understand this has good intentions, which I support, but I think this still needs to be changed. I don't care them admitting me they were wrong or were lied to, but I do want them to admit it to themselves, get past the divide and work together to fix what we have now.

[–] Maeve@kbin.earth 12 points 1 day ago (3 children)

I don't need anyone to admit anything. I see maga voters getting on board, so apparently they already admitted to themselves they were too tired and stretched too thin, so were duped. It's not like our educational institutions do anything to help that, especially in red states. We have consistently defunded education since Nixon.

All I need is their motivation to work together. We can work out ideological differences with patience and fortitude, forgiveness and understanding, as we do that

[–] DarkFuture@lemmy.world 2 points 20 hours ago

I don’t need anyone to admit anything.

It's standard operating procedure in human civilization for someone who was wrong to admit they were wrong before the person or people they wronged can work together with them.

This isn't some huge ask. They were wrong. People got hurt. They need to admit their error before they can be trusted.

I see maga voters getting on board

Do you?

It’s not like our educational institutions do anything to help that, especially in red states.

It doesn't take Einsteinian levels of genius to look around you and go "Hmmm, shit kind of sucks and we've been exclusively electing Republicans in this region my entire life." No, they'd rather blame libs in other parts of the country, or people with darker shades of skin.

All I need is their motivation to work together.

Cool. My motivation is knowing they've changed by admitting they were wrong.

We can work out ideological differences with patience and fortitude, forgiveness and understanding

They want women to be second class citizens and don't want trans people to exist. How do you propose we get past a hurdle like that?

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Blame anyone but yourself. That's the American way!

[–] Today@lemmy.world 15 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Remove all overlay words and start with... LET'S TAKE AMERICA BACK TOGETHER!

[–] ChonkyOwlbear@lemmy.world 13 points 1 day ago

First we have to agree with who we are taking it back FROM.

The ones who have bought the lies think it's the immigrants. The ones who know better realize it's the rich.

[–] DougHolland@lemmy.world 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

We're in for the fight of our lives trying to rescue America, and I am willing to accept almost anyone as an ally, but the barebones minimum is that people who voted for Trump FUCKING DO HAVE TO FUCKING ADMIT THEY WERE FUCKING WRONG.

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