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[โ€“] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 6 points 2 months ago

Big, centrally owned platforms aren't a good idea.

Reddit did some API nonsense, and that was when I left there. I was already off twitter, and never used facebook stuff.

I need somewhere for my meme and internet highlights supply, and lemmy has been ok so far.

[โ€“] taiyang@lemmy.world 6 points 2 months ago

Reddit got redundant. I like arbitrary All and Popular feeds and boy did those suck after the nth made up feel good repost.

As for staying, I'm more inclined to comment here. I'm shy even by online standards but Lemmy feels like it needs more commenters.

[โ€“] dims@lemmy.world 6 points 2 months ago

Just want to support Fediverse ๐Ÿ™‚

[โ€“] BigDaddySlim@lemmy.world 6 points 2 months ago

Once RiF announced it would shut down due to the API changes I made my account here. I only used Reddit on mobile so just staying on old.reddit wasn't an option. Tried a few different apps for Lemmy and landed on Sync since I can set it up as close to RiF as I could, but with improvements like sliding to up vote.

It's a much better place here, and I actually comment more here than I ever did on Reddit due to the toxicity and just getting buried by bot accounts. My account was 12 years old when I left, now I've been here over a year and don't plan on leaving any time soon. You're stuck with me now

[โ€“] fool@programming.dev 6 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Non-ideologically: the culture is measurably better. Here's why.

  • The Lemmy Algorithm. This is a big flaw with Reddit -- people have the attention span for the first ten comments, and then subcomment upvotes halve (with decent std. dev -- we aren't Zipf's Law devotees there) until invisibility. I don't think my Reddit comments are even seen, let alone replied to. But here, new comments have a chance.
  • The sense of "mineness". A lot of people see this place as "their own", so there's responsibility to raise your communities right, and another to interact (hence, variably lower hostility). I don't post much but I respond a lot to the people who comment in them, because I feel that it'd be nice to contribute to do my part and keep this place up.
  • At risk of sounding self-absorbed/elitist, the entry level helps culture too. People are here because they were dissatisfied with the state of other sites, then made a jump; this is a sieve that to an extent increases the standard of sorting by new. (This has limitations of course -- we still have extremists for example -- and it isn't necessarily advocating for Lemmy to never be mainstream.)

e.g. that Draw a Duck post a while back is probably far beyond a lot of platforms' capabilities/proclivities.

(I admit: this is a paraphrased comment I made a few months ago)

[โ€“] HipsterTenZero@dormi.zone 6 points 2 months ago

i dont have anywhere else to go

[โ€“] RizzRustbolt@lemmy.world 6 points 2 months ago

Fortune and glory.

[โ€“] S_H_K@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 2 months ago

Better engagement than Reddit at this point I'm starting to believe it's all bots for real.

[โ€“] Yerbouti@sh.itjust.works 5 points 2 months ago

Cause need to take the web back.

[โ€“] SocialMediaRefugee@lemmy.ml 5 points 2 months ago

For the snacks

[โ€“] inv3r510n@lemmy.world 5 points 2 months ago

Reddit banned me. They hate anti capitalists and anti fascists

[โ€“] Outdoor_Catgirl@hexbear.net 5 points 2 months ago

Reddit banned r/chapotraphouse for saying "slaveowners should be killed"

[โ€“] w3dd1e@lemm.ee 5 points 2 months ago

It started with a distaste for how Reddit was treating developers and moderators, but now I genuinely believe in the future of the fediverse.

[โ€“] Volkditty@lemmy.world 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I ain't gots nowhere else to go.

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[โ€“] Lumidaub@feddit.org 5 points 2 months ago

Because spez was being a dip shit. Other than that, yeah, idklol

[โ€“] sharkfucker420@lemmy.ml 5 points 2 months ago

Came because I liked open source software and hate corporations. Stayed because communism

[โ€“] comfy@lemmy.ml 5 points 2 months ago

As in, why here and not reddit? I drifted away from posting on reddit about 5 - 8 years ago. I was icky over their ads and tracking and it was just a time sink I didn't need back then, but I would still use alternate frontends (the current equivalent would be libreddit) to lurk while on the train trip to work and back.

I forget whether I found lemmy from /r/piracy exploring bunker options (raddle and lemmy) or if it was through FOSS, but I liked its potential and have been here posting here since 2022.

[โ€“] RatzChatsubo@lemm.ee 5 points 2 months ago

Because I love sync

[โ€“] nutsack@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago

sync for Android

[โ€“] sag@lemm.ee 4 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

For an actual community. I was tired of Discord and Reddit.

[โ€“] Nerrad@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago

I just enjoy it here.

[โ€“] communism@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 months ago

Honestly don't remember why I signed up. I like it though. Kind of similar vibe to when I used Reddit except much better. It's got some nice small-ish (but not too small) communities for FOSS stuff.

[โ€“] 0ops@lemm.ee 4 points 2 months ago

Lemmy tell you how...

[โ€“] isagani@lemmygrad.ml 4 points 2 months ago

I was in F-droid searching for stuffs, then I found lemmy, since my phone can't install reddit cause I have storage problems, I tried out lemmy. And now I believe this is better than any community apps.

[โ€“] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 months ago

I tried Reddit but I had enough with all the rules and corporate cleanliness of it. I used this site called 'Saidit' for a bit but but no one ever posted there so I looked into Reddit alternatives and stumbled across Lemmy. The rest is history

[โ€“] Thteven@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago

Corporate greed puts me off.

[โ€“] Alphamars@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Well I was IP banned on reddit. Anybody on reddit that uses my ip address gets an automatic ban forever. I don't know exactly what I said or do. I tried appealing no response till date. Got tired of trying different vpn just for reddit and had to move.

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[โ€“] etchinghillside@reddthat.com 4 points 2 months ago

API changes killing Apollo.

[โ€“] tourist@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago

I was meant to be doing something but I got distracted

I have no idea what I was meant to be doing because I smoked the mystery joint

I think most of it was probably blue cheese

To give me something to do on my phone during work hours since there's no way I'm touching the official reddit client

[โ€“] Tehdastehdas@lemmy.world 3 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Quora's enshittification ~2018-2024 went too far, and I'm still looking for something good enough. Checking out Lemmy, Trust Cafรฉ, and Kialo.

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[โ€“] Sam_Bass@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 months ago

Initially because reddit permabanned me. Then I got comfy here

I left Twitter and Reddit and I found Lemmy and Mastadon. Lemmy is going much better than Mastadon.

[โ€“] Bronzebeard@lemm.ee 3 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Reddit went ban happy and nuked my 13 year old account over attempting to appeal a mod power tripping over an innocent comment they didn't like.

Which was after the api think killed RiF

[โ€“] phlegmy@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 months ago

Reddit killed third party apps and their mobile site barely functions, so I wasnโ€™t able to use reddit on mobile without installing spyware/adware.
Lemmy was the best alternative.

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