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I always make a male and female character and give them the same name from my other games if possible (I gave them personality/backstories in my head, dont ask). And sometimes I make multiple characters from different classes, species, races, skin colors etc. and if I feel creative, their back story/bio. Helps if one is a creative person that likes to write stories.

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[–] bunnygirl@hexbear.net 75 points 2 months ago (3 children)
[–] queermunist@lemmy.ml 36 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

lol every time

Why are g*mers like this?

[–] ashinadash@hexbear.net 24 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

What I would give to never see the phrase "females" ever used again... undyne-disgust

[–] queermunist@lemmy.ml 61 points 2 months ago (7 children)

I almost always made girl characters.

And then I made myself one too 👍

[–] GenderIsOpSec@hexbear.net 36 points 2 months ago

Dozens of us! bridget-pride-stay-mad

[–] NakariLexfortaine@lemm.ee 30 points 2 months ago (1 children)

The "RPGs to Trans" pipeline.

I, too, drank deeply from it.

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[–] ElChapoDeChapo@hexbear.net 27 points 2 months ago

Literally the same story as my friend from childhood, probably one of the reasons none of us were too surprised by her transition and we were all immediately supportive

[–] LeZero@hexbear.net 11 points 2 months ago

Many such cases

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[–] ClathrateG@hexbear.net 32 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Hey now in fallout(s) you can get a perk(lady killer/black widow) that increases the damage against enemies of the opposite gender, and being how that the ratio of men to women enemies is like 85% to 15% , it's just smart and logical to play as a girl

AND NO OTHER REASON

[–] FALGSConaut@hexbear.net 33 points 2 months ago

New Vegas had me playing a bisexual character before I realized I am bisexual because it gave me that sweet damage buff vs everyone

[–] alcoholicorn@lemmy.ml 31 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Why do men, women, and enbies play as bisexual poly dragonborn in videogames?

[–] tamagotchicowboy@hexbear.net 18 points 2 months ago

Because that's the option that allows the most playability/choices.

[–] SpiderFarmer@hexbear.net 30 points 2 months ago

I sometimes prefer playing men just because of how male-gazy they make women look. It just seems weird at times, beyond what I'd brush off as artistic and stylistic choices.

In some games girls getting cooler clothes, like in Pokemon. In stuff like Guild Wars I loved both male and female armor sets, depending on the class.

[–] Bureaucrat@hexbear.net 29 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

I almost always make my melee characters women and generally small. Yes the lady gnome is your tank today, bow down to your leader.

[–] AntiOutsideAktion@hexbear.net 19 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I'm not bowing I'm recovering MP get over yourself catgirl-disgust

[–] Bureaucrat@hexbear.net 8 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Silence peasant. You're dps and there are hundreds like you. I could replace you like that oooaaaaaaauhhh

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[–] NephewAlphaBravo@hexbear.net 9 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Hi I'll be your 8 foot tall orc healer today, firing heals down at you like a UAV

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[–] CthulhusIntern@hexbear.net 26 points 2 months ago (4 children)

One exception: If I'm playing as a dwarf, he has to be male and have a great beard. Otherwise, what's the point? Unless lady dwarfs have beards in this setting, then I'm doing that.

[–] Parzivus@hexbear.net 22 points 2 months ago (4 children)

My favorite variant of this is that if you pick a dwarf in the Lord of the Rings MMO, there's no gender option, since they all have beards and look the same

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[–] bananon@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago

I just got two little Christmas gnomes. The man has a beard and the woman has long pigtails braided together to look like a beard

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[–] tamagotchicowboy@hexbear.net 25 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Naw, my dysphora goes screm-a so bad as a child I had to play men when I could, though family would be like 'hehe, lil tamagotchi is that your boyfriend?' (nah way too masc). Virtual reality induced gender dysphoria, yep.

In TES sometimes I want to blend in (dark elf in Morrowind, Imperial in Oblivion, Argonian in Arena, etc) in some MMOs I'm that guy that plays a boring human support class dude while everyone else is a blue-red tree bard.

[–] Frivolous_Beatnik@hexbear.net 8 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Just be like me and play argonian in every game because based lizard liberation, 50/50 on masc/fem (except in skyrim because fem argonian voice just sounds awful angery )

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[–] vegeta1@hexbear.net 24 points 2 months ago

Vegeta cares not from where the blood flows, only that it flows without cease for all eternity. vegeta-stare

[–] Infamousblt@hexbear.net 21 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Mostly because I'm sick of playing dudes. I grew up playing dudes and so many games today still make you play a dude. I want some fucking variety in my games!

[–] BeamBrain@hexbear.net 19 points 2 months ago

Wow look at this DEI SJW fake gamer

[–] imogen_underscore@hexbear.net 19 points 2 months ago (1 children)
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[–] SorosFootSoldier@hexbear.net 19 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I usually pick whatever sex looks cooler or has better animations/armor. Like in the case of FFXI the female options look a lot better and flashier than the ho-hum males.

[–] AntifaSuperWombat@hexbear.net 18 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I gave them personality/backstories in my head, dont ask

FINALLY, I’m not the only one. meow-hug

It’s actually what gave my egg the last kick it needed. I was getting bored with always playing the nice, naive protagonist and wanted something different with my Dragon Age 2 playthrough. So I spent an entire evening making my fem-Hawke, searching for a name and making up a personality and was really satisfied with my creation.

Well, 2 weeks later it dawned on me that I didn’t really create a personality, but instead just subconsciously gave her my own, which I was keeping buried under a big pile of denial and ignorance. Turns out that you don’t have to be very feminine and cute to be a trans woman.

And to put the cherry on top: I also liked the name so much that exactly 10 years later now, I’m finally gonna make it my official one (well, with 1 letter changed).

The end.

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I play female characters because I will get distracted by hot male characters. I routinely get mauled in Silent Hill 2 because I'm too busy admiring James Sunderland's impeccable form and not the mannequin around the corner. God, I'd let that man smother me pingu-horny

[–] Gerudo@lemm.ee 16 points 2 months ago

If I hadn't played female Shepard in Mass Effect, I would have missed out on Jennifer Hale voice acting. 90% of the time, I play female simply because I prefer hearing a female voice over a male voice. I hear my own all day lol.

[–] FALGSConaut@hexbear.net 15 points 2 months ago

Depends on the character I'm playing and the game tbh. In mass effect I mainly played FemShep for the voice acting (still love mark meer but prefer Jennifer hale). In bg3 my characters are probably 50/50 split. Same with FNV and other RPGs.

[–] Esoteir@hexbear.net 14 points 2 months ago

i play dudes cause i like staring at dude ass shrug-outta-hecks simple as

[–] blame@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago

the gender depends on which cat i'm naming the character after

[–] doublepepperoni@hexbear.net 13 points 2 months ago

If it's single-player, I play either depending on the game, but I have noticed I just don't like using female avatars in multiplayer games specifically. Female characters are fine, like in a Left 4 Dead or fighting game-style situation, but I just feel weird playing as a customisable female avatar in online games probably because the few times I tried I got treated like a girl by random dudes which felt so viscerally unpleasant my skeleton almost popped out of my skin and ran for the door

Women are cool and i hate my male gender for incredibly normal reasons

[–] Assian_Candor@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago

it's fun to cross dress

[–] GarbageShoot@hexbear.net 12 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

In a lot of cases (not the people here) it's because they like having a woman they can oggle from every angle and exercise complete control over. See Shaun's most recent video; if it's enough to be a core conceit of reasonably popular video games, it's enough to motivate g*mers in other games that treat their female characters just a misogynistically.

Plenty of people have other reasons, of course.

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[–] Akuji@leminal.space 11 points 2 months ago

10% "there's more options, and I like playing dolls", 40% "just feel like it" and 50%🥚

[–] bdonvr@thelemmy.club 9 points 2 months ago

Eh, I think I keep it fairly diverse. Though they often model their women characters to appeal to gamers which can be off-putting.

[–] Carcharodonna@hexbear.net 9 points 2 months ago

I used to have all kinds of excuses for this question, but look at me now lol

[–] Riffraffintheroom@hexbear.net 9 points 2 months ago

Because my relationship to the player character is less like a costume or a wish-fulfillment proxy for myself and more like the relationship between an audience and an actor.

[–] peeonyou@hexbear.net 9 points 2 months ago

i almost always do -- why would i want to be the same as what i am in real life?

[–] poppy_apocalypse@hexbear.net 8 points 2 months ago

I used to kick so much ass in SF2 using Chun Li and only using the middle kick. If I was in a bad mood id throw in the flying kick-middle punch-low kick combo just to be an asshole

[–] Biddles@hexbear.net 8 points 2 months ago

I'd rather look at a girl's butt than a guy's tbh

[–] ZeroHora@lemmy.ml 8 points 2 months ago

When I create a male character I've the tendency to mirror my own behaviour and roleplay as myself and when I create a female character I do as you said and give them a different personality, their own back story and etc.

But if is pokemon I always play with the female because they normally exist in the anime.

I don't know why is that but I do that for like 15years.

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