I did not expect this this post of mine to attract as many people minimising SA as it did. Bit of a downer, yeah.
I get the point of the joke, and agree the guys LOSING IT over the joke have misogynistic brain worms. However I think there is maybe a discussion to be had about it reinforcing gender essentialist talking points. I've been seeing this meme floating around CHUD Reddit (CW: transphobia).