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for real. i guess it's the liberal thing about pretending to care about an issue so you look good? idk. also if you dont recover fast enough they get mad at you, lmao
Yep. I had to quit working and drop out of my studies when I became too ill to continue and people were weirdly angry and judgmental about it. I got comments like "So when are you going back to school? Why don't you sign up to restart this coming term? When are you going back to work? You're not back working yet?" And I'm like "What? I'm having cancer treatment, I'm so unwell I keep falling asleep in the middle of the day, I can't concentrate, I have no energy and I'm having terrible side effects like heart issues and all kinds of other crap, I have non-stop medical appointments and fuckers are complaining that I'm not doing anything right now? As if fighting cancer is just not doing anything.
And the comments for being on benefits. Endless comments about how I'm getting "free money," and "You don't do anything to earn that, you don't deserve it. Lucky you, some of us have to work for our money."
dealing with benefits shit has been way more work than my previous bullshit job lmao, ppl r so stupid and annoying
Absolutely. Working a full time job was easier and less stressful than this.
The bootstrap mentality is omnipresent. You're on the ground, managed once to ask for help, and if you don't get up immediately, they leave you there.
And even if they don't think you're supposed to pull yourself up, they have so much learned helplessness with regards to actually helping that they watch on without doing anything. It's frustrating to no end