I tried explaining my problems with tankies without calling them tankies. In fact, I used their own terminology to describe my disagreement with them. It, uh... well it doesn't make a lot of sense.
George Orwell fought in the Spanish civil war on the side of the Marxists. His army was betrayed by the Marxist-Leninists. After that experience, he wrote 1984, in which a totalitarian government uses "newspeak" to suppress dissent by suppressing the very ideas that people are capable of communicating. I don't think it's a coincidence that Marxist-Leninists describe their disagreements in terms that turn criticism of them into gibberish. I think it's exactly what Orwell was writing about based on his experiences.
I made an edit to my original post that is relevant to your comment here.
But in brief, as someone you might consider one of these "Stalinists" I have no interest in gatekeeping Anarchists. We are a part of the same broad political tradition, and the ultimate end goal we seek to achieve is the same.
I have a great respect for my fellow socialists of other tendencies, be they Anarchists, Maoists, Trotskyists, etc. And consider their struggles to be my struggle as well, and I make common cause with people I disagree with in my own organizing all of the time, despite our ideological disagreements.
Editing your comment to add 7 paragraphs after it's already been argued with is very bad manners. I'm going to delete my comment because after you've inserted 7 paragraphs of rebuttal before it, I'm sure it's no longer relevant or persuasive.
I agree that it's bad manners. I accidentally hit reply before I was done. Idk what to tell you, shit happens.
But That's why I summarized. But it's deeply immature of you to look for any excuse to not engage with someone who is disagreeing with you in good faith.