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Ye Power Trippin' Bastards

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This is a community in the spirit of "Am I The Asshole" where people can post their own bans from lemmy or reddit or whatever and get some feedback from others whether the ban was justified or not.

Sometimes one just wants to be able to challenge the arguments some mod made and this could be the place for that.


Posting Guidelines

All posts should follow this basic structure:

  1. Which mods/admins were being Power Tripping Bastards?
  2. What sanction did they impose (e.g. community ban, instance ban, removed comment)?
  3. Provide a screenshot of the relevant modlog entry (don’t de-obfuscate mod names).
  4. Provide a screenshot and explanation of the cause of the sanction (e.g. the post/comment that was removed, or got you banned).
  5. Explain why you think its unfair and how you would like the situation to be remedied.

Rules


Expect to receive feedback about your posts, they might even be negative.

Make sure you follow this instance's code of conduct. In other words we won't allow bellyaching about being sanctioned for hate speech or bigotry.

YTPB matrix channel: For real-time discussions about bastards or to appeal mod actions in YPTB itself.


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[–] muusemuuse@lemm.ee 14 points 4 days ago (4 children)

Hmm, I’m still new to Lemmy. How do I block an instance?

[–] h3mlocke@lemm.ee 6 points 3 days ago

But their chaos is so hilarious 😐

[–] fxomt@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 4 days ago

Some apps can block instances iirc. But unfortunately lemmy's actual instance filter is busted as shit.

I opened an issue about this, so we'll be getting it in 1.0/1.1.0.

[–] WrenFeathers@lemmy.world 11 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

If you use an app like Voyager, you can block entire instances. There are also web interfaces that allow it as well.

[–] whirlpoolbrewer@lemm.ee 6 points 3 days ago (1 children)

This was news to me and super helpful! In the Voyager app, go to Settings > Filters & Blocks. There will be a section called "Blocked Instances" and a button that says "Add Instance". Click the button, and there is a search suggestion box, so you just type "hil" and the first result is "hilariouschaos.com" and you can just click that result and you're done!

[–] OpenStars@discuss.online 5 points 3 days ago (1 children)

But doesn't doing that in Voyager simply apply the base Lemmy instance block? If so then it merely mutes communities from it, but doesn't block users from the instance from posting, commenting, responding, sending DMs, etc.

It's not nothing, but it falls far short of expectations, especially for something called by that name.

[–] whirlpoolbrewer@lemm.ee 4 points 3 days ago

I have no clue what all it does or doesn't do. I suspect my time on Lemmy has gotten marginally better, but to what degree, I'm not sure. Good call out though

[–] OpenStars@piefed.social 4 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Unfortunately you really can't, not trivially I mean. Also, lemm.ee's whole schtick is that they don't defederate from anyone.

  • There is a "instance block" in Lemmy, but horribly misnamed as all it does is mute communities but still allows users to troll you from the instance in other communities, such as this one
  • Move to PieFed, which allows true blocking of all users from an instance, without needing admin approval
  • Stay on Lemmy and switch to either the Sync or Connect app - I've not heard of any others that can do this but if someone knows of one please tell me?
  • Ask your instance to defederate from them - except for Lemm.ee that's extremely unlikely to happen
  • Switch to another instance that has already done so
  • Develop a web browser filter, probably using something like Ublock
  • Create your own instance, and then you can deferate anyone you want

Lemmy is fairly authoritian for non-admin end-users, but we use what is provided to us (which is why I'm ecstatically happy with the more fully featured PieFed!:-).

[–] Irelephant@lemm.ee 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Its not that .ee doesn't defed, they're just more careful about it.

For example, check lemm.ee/instances compared to lemmy.today/instances.

[–] OpenStars@piefed.social 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Well, I definitely could have taken more time to phrase that more precisely.:-) They obviously don't refuse to defederate from "anyone" - as there are 4 blocked instances listed there - but it's more that they are proud of a diversity of opinion, so that e.g. they do not defederate from Hexbear.net or even from Lemmygrad.ml, which most other instances choose to do. Value judgements entirely aside (although if we were to get into such I would prefer to have divided them into opt-in vs. opt-out), many new users of the Fediverse report having gotten confused about being bullied and how to stop it, and then left (as reported on e.g. r/RedditAlternatives) rather than stick around long enough to find out. So lemm.ee puts a lot of the burden of figuring things out, rather than making those decisions for those new joiners.

[–] Irelephant@lemm.ee 4 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

Yes, I don't reccommend .ee to newcomers unless they really want to federate with everyone.

[–] OpenStars@piefed.social 2 points 13 hours ago

Me too - and in that case, lemm.ee is always my chief recommendation for those who want that, while for the more mainstream normal audience, especially centrists (if any such still exist) in the USA, Discuss.Online or sopuli.xyz, etc.