I just felt so bad for both of them! She clearly didn't mean to imply that he was unattractive, but due to his own insecurities he interpreted her that way. Yet, instead of talking it out, he just bottled it up and left! But instead of trying to understand him she couldn't because he was gone and so she went online to air their problems for all of us to argue about. Then people pick sides and shit on one of the two partners for being callous or overreacting, but it's simultaneously true she didn't mean to hurt his feelings and that his feelings and insecurities are valid. But he felt hurt so he retreated into himself and then left to avoid a conflict, and I get it! And she didn't understand because he never explained why he was hurt, and I get that too!

They hurt each other for no reason and it's just sad, and I'm so mad at people for picking sides and attacking either of them for it.

^fk^ ^i^ ^made^ ^myself^ ^cry^ ^lol^

[–] spacecadet@hexbear.net 4 points 6 months ago

This is a beautiful sentiment I'm glad you expressed it, I totally agree with you. It is ultimately tragic.

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