superstarz25

so this one girl, i’ll call her ella (19f) is transphobic, homophobic

she lashes out a lot, exaggerates things, and cannot read social cues. however, she has autism and adhd and is mentally much younger.

she also gets mad when i call a trans man “he” and she says “SHE’S A GIRL EVEN THO SHE LOOKS LIKE A MAN LOL”

she says she got her views from her parents and refuses to change because “it’s the way i am”. for someone who was mentally 19, I’d cut contact, but she’s mentally a lot younger.

i guess i just wanted to share my story. if you look at my bio, yes, it DOES say i’m in love with a certain user. this is true. however, i’m in an open relationship so i also like my ex nico.

i dated nico for about a year and three months but we broke up due to him no longer speaking to anyone due to mental health issues.

after a while, he got better and we started talking again and we still liked each other. after all, we did date for so long.

some people may be thinking, “ok, and you guys clearly still like each other and he’s in a better mental state. why don’t you guys just date again?”

well, nico’s kind of in what i guess is a “situationship”. nico, now single, was asked by his friend (m) if he would marry him. nico took this as a platonic joke and said yes. however, nico’s “bf” then announced to everyone that they were dating and he now had a boyfriend.

nico does not have any romantic feelings for his “boyfriend”, and when he said this and that he was going to break up, his “boyfriend” begged him not to leave him.

nico says he truly isn’t attracted to anyone except for me, and that he was going to officially break up with him next time he saw him on monday. he also said afterwards, we could date again :)

not to be weird or spiritual, but i kind of believe we’re soulmates. after all, we dated for so long (he was my longest relationship yet), we still like each other despite not speaking and being separated, and despite being in relationships, none of them have worked out yet except for ours. he’s gotten into many short-lived relationships, as have i, but they always ended in them not wanting a relationship, cheating, or losing feelings quickly, whereas we have always liked each other and found a way back to each other.