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I would constantly tell the women to use the men's room before distance running events because it was always empty and their line was down the street. Nobody cares! Why should anyone suffer that when it isn't necessary? Especially for people with conditions like IBS, restroom restrictions just seem like punishment.

The issue with this thinking is that it ignores that elected officials are proposing this legislation at all, usually to whip up support in their voter base. Which means that their voters want it, or they believe they do. Some part of the population wants it to happen, and those people are dangerous to us whether bills like this pass or not. Texas still belongs on a "do not travel" list, even if there are internal enclaves of sanity and compassion within the state.

I will add to the other excellent comments here: there are no perfect times. Waiting for everything to align just so will prevent everything from ever happening. Pick a goal and start it. Now. It seems like you took the first step, so congratulations! I'm not bitter about it, but I am an example of what happens when you wait for perfect alignment. You may wake up one day and say "why did I let the last decade go by in a fog instead of taking action" and regret missing some of your best years living as the real you. Don't wait for any conditions, just improve the ones you have as you go.

Thank you!

Well, I finally came out to my spouse after a decade feeling trapped. The support I received was more than I could have ever hoped for from them! And this community seems pretty fantastic. So for once in what feels like forever, this one was a good week. There's always hope and someone who will love you for who you are. You just have to find them! ;{

Thank you immensely for doing what you do, and for persevering through the difficult parts while doing it. You're exactly the kind of hero we need more of. I'm sorry there are still so many terrible people.

As a fellow cat-holder while your spouse trims their claws, Glory to you and your House!

You're the second person to recommend them, so I'll definitely consider them if I can't find a local provider. I was just hoping to find a practitioner who knew the area and would be able to also recommend places for other services I (or my spouse! They're part of this journey, too) may need down the line.

Heh, I don't sleep well. Too many worries and mental battles over dysphoria vs. being out. And I feel like I'm still stuck in that rift. The username felt appropriate, since Miranda is on my shortlist for possible names, too!

Alma

I hadn't looked at that yet. Thank you for pointing it out!

Yes, sort of. In this area it's Horizon. FEP seems to just be a branch of whatever the regional blue cross and/or blue shield is. I have been using their "Find a Doctor" tool to tell who's in-network after finding people on the lists like pridecenter.org or outcare or WPATH, but so far nobody's been covered.

insurance requires a letter from someone actively prescribing and monitoring the progress of HRT for 12 or more months consecutively to cover any of those services

That's precisely why I wanted to find a doctor do to this with. I've already missed too much with the wrong outside.

I'm in NJ, but not the progressive part of it. I guess Philly would be my closest friendly place to find anyone, and I definitely hear you about the "going official" issues in the US right now. It's one of the reasons I'm so frightened of telling the wrong people.

I don't know if I like the idea of DIY. I believe that it works, but I also know that I'm clumsy and forgetful enough to do something wrong. I also really need to talk to a therapist because I will definitely want my letters for surgery someday.

Folkx or Galileo

This is the first I've seen of either of these, so thank you! I'll have a look!