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nothing makes me more skeptical than seeing the word "scientists" in a headline.

Do you prefer ice cream or popsicles?

I'm not sure how to respond to any of your questions. Does the fact that my argument looks like propaganda to you invalidate the argument? Should I have not touched on homophobia at all, despite it being relevant?

As for leftist cred, I've said it elsewhere but I'd consider myself only about 50% leftist, and <50% liberal. Sorry to disappoint.

I don't really understand what's small-minded. It's small-minded to say you don't have the right to raise children if you can't conceive them? I would think small-mindedness is normally associated with not thinking critically, but given that I changed my mind after -- ah sorry, that will sound like propaganda again. I'm not sure how to argue here.

Btw, I'm not okay with project 2025, and I am sure that they will do only harm here. But Hitler painted dogs, and I won't condemn painting dogs. I'm not going to back down from my belief that the adoption industry is harmful just because project 2025 wants to end adoption. I don't even want to see adoption ended entirely, as I said; so yeah I don't agree with project 2025 even in this area. Do I sound less like propaganda now? Or does trying to sound less like propaganda only make it worse.

Edit: Ah, I get it now. You are annoyed that I mentioned I'm gay. Yeah I mean, I try to avoid playing the minority card to win an argument usually. In this case, I thought people might think I'm just being homophobic, and was trying to signal that my beliefs about adoption have nothing to do with adoption in same-sex marriage specifically. But, yeah, point taken.

Anyway, if you want to argue about pointless stuff like this, yeah, sure, I mean, I'll bite. But if you're going to be asking me for specific data relating to pregnant people being coerced into giving up their children, I'm really not terribly knowledgeable so you aren't going to learn much more than what I've already said. I mean, I can pester my friends for talking points, I guess.

And finally, edit 2, just because it bothers me: this is lemmy, this is the 2020s, please, stop assuming everyone on the internet is a man.

edit 3: no actually, I'm just stuck on this "propaganda" thing. Is there some magic shibboleth to prove that I'm actually speaking genuinely? Is that not a general-purpose argument against anyone who happens to disagree with you? Or, like, do you personally have such a narrow Overton window that you literally think that anyone who disagrees with you on one (1) matter must be secretly a plant for your furthest political rivals, and the fact that they have included other sentiment which looks like an ally's only proves it's a false flag? "Shit -- she just said she doesn't agree with project 2025. She must be lying! Don't ask how I know."

TBH I just know about this because of people I know who've given up children for adoption. Mirah Ruben's The Stork Market looks like it covers a lot of what they talk about basically, but I haven't read it.

There are a lot of things that I was raised to believe in a liberal society, like police being good for everyone, America being the good guys, communism being bad; and of course later I learned that it was not as it had seemed. For me, learning about the harm done by the international adoption industry was also one of those eye-opening moments. Fundamentally, it's an industry with little oversight and which has an incentive to acquire babies from people in a rough spot in life, because the middleman makes a profit; that this incentive exists should give you pause, if nothing else.

How has this realistically altered my worldview? I now think adoption ought to be considered a duty or perhaps a privilege, but not a right. In other words, nobody should have the absolute right to have children just because they can't conceive them in the usual way. I also think that adopted children should always have the right to know who their birthparents are and to reach out to them or their next of kin. I also think there shouldn't be an international adoption industry, or at least it should have vastly more oversight. For what it's worth, this is quite a centrist position compared to the more radical viewpoints of the people I know who have given up children. (They tend to think adoption is wrong in all cases -- though that's generally for a certain definition of "adoption" which basically means "erasure of the birthparents.")

Anyway, I don't particularly desire to argue about this back and forth, so I won't. Maybe you think the people I know are naïve for being salty about choices they made as teenagers that they regret now. That's what I thought at first. If you call bullshit, ok, but I hope that next time you hear about this issue from someone else you'll be inclined to give them a listen at least.

~~(Is it homophobic to say that you don't have a right to raise children if you can't conceive them? Perhaps. If it means anything, I'm gay myself; but I also don't have any interest in children, so that doesn't really matter either way.)~~ Edit: tree_frog has convinced me that I shouldn't have mentioned that this wasn't about adoption in same-sex marriage specifically, since apparently that just makes it sound like I'm secretly homophobic, and also small-minded apparently, so please ignore that I guess.

The constitution is like the laws of physics; god will enforce it. If not god then perhaps ligma.

Fortunately, milliseconds, no matter the quantity, have no effect.

I liked the book Annihilation more than the movie.

I bet you it's every minute too.

I liked the characters in Korra, not the plot so much.

Can you post the link to that?

I'm sad to hear this because I really like Manning. You're might be right though.